I know this thread has evolved into more enabling, but I've stupidly been lusting over new clothes lately. I'm not sure why, but all of a sudden I just want new Everything To Wear, it seems. I'm trying to explore what it is that has caused this unexpected yearning as surely there's something at play--some need or feeling that is manifesting itself as a desire for wide leg jeans and lilac cashmere sweaters.
Thanks for bringing it away from motorised things for a moment :D
Alrighty, what need do you think new clothes will serve? Are your current clothes getting worn out/not fitting? Does your current life need a bit of a shake-up? What is different between Current You and Future You in a Lilac Cashmere Sweater? Where do you wear those wide leg jeans and fancy sweater? What do you see yourself doing in these new clothes?
Thanks for the thoughtful questions!
I think I'd wear them on errands and all the places I go, since I'm mostly eyeing fairly casual things.
My old wardrobe is okay, but there's been little churn it it for the last few years, during which I've aged a bit and while the scale is about the same, my body is different. Things still fit in the sense that I can zip the zippers and button the buttons, but they don't look as good as they used to and if I was buying new things, I'd buy different shapes and styles.
I am going to start with 2 pairs of new jeans, and not limit myself budget-wise so that I get something that I feel great about. (Well, there will be some limit because I'll never be someone who spends $200 on a single pair of jeans, but I'm not going to look at only <$40 pairs, wither.) I've learned in the past that going too cheap on clothing leaves me wanting more clothing because nothing feels or looks quite right. (Which is sort of the problem I'm having with most of my wardrobe right now, come to think of it.) Maybe some great jeans, mixed with all the sweaters I have--which haven't suffered as much around my shifting body as the jeans and other bottoms have) will help me feel less frumpy. Walking around in semi-ill-fitting things just makes me feel slovenly. So, I'm saying yes to possibly the wide-leg jeans, and no to the lilac sweater.
I think I've also fallen into a rut, starting when we moved in 2019 and exacerbated by the pandemic, of just throwing on anything that covers my body, and want to get back to taking some pride in my appearance.
We will see if a par or two of great jeans (or casual pants) makes me feel less unkempt and scratches the itch. Hopefully so!