Living in a one bedroom apartment in an old building in the sketchiest part of town
-Our unit was initially sold to the city for low income housing, it's that cheap it is, but the deal fell through because of a special assessment. I LOVE our home. I prefer living in a highrise, we have a phenomenal view, these old buildings are incredibly soundproofed, and our balcony is 25 ft long. We also have a massive indoor pool and a gym. This is my favourite place I have ever lived, and I have lived in many far more luxurious places.
We also love living in a working class neighbourhood, and are much happier with our neighbours now than when we lived in one of the most "desirable" neighbourhoods. I actually hated it there, the people were nosy, judgemental, petty, and more than subtly racist. My neighbours here are kind, generally non judgmental, and generally very patient with the challenges of life compared to the histrionic perfectionists I used to live near. I'm not generalizing about all wealthy neighbourhoods and all working class neighbourhoods, just mine.
Driving an economy car
-Our little hatchback is great for our needs, and leaves a ton of space in our parking spot for storage, or a scooter/motorcycle if I wanted one. Our Corolla was too long for that. I never worry about scratching it, and maintenance is cheap.
Food
-Healthy, delicious food can be dirt cheap, I just started baking bread too (I don't normally bake because I generally don't eat sugar)
-When we do eat out, it's at hole in the wall ethnic restaurants and is usually food I either can't make myself, like wood burning African BBQ, or labour intensive and finicky, like goat roti. This food is by far the best tasting food in the city. I would take a $40 for two African BBQ with it's aromatic spices over the last $500 meal I had any day.
Clothes
-I spend a lot on certain items of clothing, because I wear a lot of merino wool, but I basically wear the same few shirts and pants every single day, and I would never go back to wearing fussy fashion clothes, and I used to LOVE fashion. Merino wool is where it's at, and never having to think about what to wear is amazing
Activities
-This is a HUGE range, but the rule generally holds: cheap and free activities are generally more fun and adventurous
You have no idea what crazy, interesting things you will find when you start hunting for cheap/free activities in your area, especially in my city, which is known for it's cultural activities. Some of the coolest shit I've ever done or seen is from finding frugal activities in and around my neighbourhood.
Examples:
-attended a jazz album recording in a giant empty cement community pool that was drained to be demo'd, the show was incredible and the acoustics were wild
-attended a free socially distanced bike repair course every Wednesday evening last summer, and learned a ton
-rode a ski lift during the fall colours and saw views of the region I've never seen
-Hiked a nature path around and over a giant gorge that included a suspension bridge AT NIGHT while the whole thing was illuminated with an art light show
-attended a dachshund race where hundreds of wiener dogs in costume raced, just about pissed myself laughing
-became a regular at the outdoor theater in the park, which actually has a lot of well known theater actors come through
-Attended live streaming of major theater productions in London and New York with backstage interviews with the stars during intermission, a far superior experience to seeing certain shows live, especially ballet and plays. I saw Ian McKellen and Patrick Stewart in a stage play together before covid, and it really feels like being there live.
-etc, etc
Just throwing money at entertainment is easy and become predictable, but the magical random shit you find when you set your budget to ultra low is exciting, and surprising, and can make for some amazing adventures
Cutting Unhealthy "Indulgences"
-When I read that MMM doesn't drink more than a few times a year, I was like "fuck that, I love my wine!"
Then I had to quit alcohol for a drug trial and it turns out, not drinking is the shit. Honestly, I feel kind of embarrassed by how much I thought I loved wine and how I thought it added anything positive to my life. It did NOT. I was allowed to drink again after 6 months, but it's been almost 2 years.
DIY renos and repairs
-For anyone handy, renos and repairs are a lot of fun! I've been slowly customizing our apartment for 2 years and it's been a great hobby. I get to look around and see the love I've put into our beautiful home, not just money I've stressed over spending on it.
Romance
-Y'know what's way more romantic than consumer goods for me? Really thoughtful letters and cards. DH writes marvelous passages, and I have a huge box of them. I get one every time he decides it's our anniversary (first date the first time, first date the second time, day he proposed, day we got married, halfway between wedding anniversaries, the day we got our cat, the day we closed on our house, you name it, he celebrates it and writes something that melts my cynical robotic heart).
Beauty
-Quitting alcohol, eating well, drinking a lot of water, and exercising all are amazing beauty aides, I stopped wearing makeup after quitting alcohol
-low maintenance hair is GREAT! Mine is an inch long right now
Traveling locally/regionally
-I live in Canada, this country is FUCKING STUNNING and most Canadians don't explore it very much. DH and I are very committed to exploring our own backyard, and anyone reading my journal knows how, uh, intense I'm being about this right now. I saw photos of the Fundy National Park, which is where we will explore this summer, and I squealed like an excitable 4 year old.
Minimalism
-Not owning a lot of crap is marvelous, my home is always clean, always organized, I know where everything is at all time, it's just fantastic
That's all I feel like writing for now