I was wondering how other US mustachians are influenced by their state, or how their state has derailed them in any way. This could also apply to all other area, but I am not as well educated on their COL or politics or culture.
I live in Eastern Nebraska. Most of the state is rural, I am in a small city. It is considered LCOL by national standards (3 br 2 ba house in safe, decent public school area for under 150K) Commute times are low (15 mins to anywhere in the city) and downtown has recently become very bicycle friendly, adding bike lanes and miles and miles of trails to anywhere in the city. Average and median salaries for a worker with a bachelors degree are around 50k.
Nebraskans pride themselves on being a hardworking people, salt of the Earth types. Rural areas seem to embrace mustachian principles (lots of clothes lines, lots of bikes, incomes are lower so money saving seems embraced, lots of gardens and picnics.)
Then, there's my city. Recently renamed "Silicon Prairie" due to the large number of tech start ups and companies relocating here because it's so cheap to do business. Average house being built in our area is over 300k to start. Three car garages abound and are full of brand new cars. Garages are finished and have big screen TVs. The Man Cave and She Shed are fully loaded. I'm pretty sure there is one craft brewery for every man, woman and child here.
But the culture is what gets me --- athletics are a religion here. Never mind the main God of Husker Football, all athletics are encouraged ney forced on you at such an early age. My kids are young, but they are asked daily what cheer academy they attend, what gymnastics school they go, which elite travel volleyball team we have them on (my kids are 2nd grade and kindergarten). I had a parent point out to me today that if I want them to play soccer or volleyball in junior high that I would need them to start working with a trainer now. I signed them up for swimming lessons and they were denied swimming lessons because they didn't know 2 strokes already, which apparently is the minimum to learn how to swim. ( ??? ) We are more of have fun and enjoy yourself family, but that level of sports does not exist here. These sports options are around 4-6 K per year PER KID! My oldest is already starting with the "All the girls in my class are in cheer but me" - I scoffed but it actually turned out to be true!! She is literally the only soon to be second grade girl in her school not doing Elite Cheer.
I know MMM has touched on children's activities bankrupting people and I do keep perspective. The issue is not that I want her to do cheer. It's the culture of what is of value to people in my city. I value frugality, education, family and being a decent human being. My city values athletic prowess, physical fitness, competition and conformity. I don't dislike my city, just feel like a square peg in a round hole much of the time.
What does your city value, and does it reflect your values?
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