Damn, Mustachians are privileged.
I know that's a tongue in cheek comment, but have heard the term "privilege" thrown about much of late, even by people close to me, the implication being that my "privilege" is largely why I'm where I am today. Those people didn't see me figuring out how to put myself through college 35 years ago, sitting at the library every night until they turned out the lights working accounting problems, working weekends pushing pizza to pay my rent, etc., then busting my ass in my career. No, has to be my "privilege" that accounts for my meager success in life. Oh, or you're so "lucky"...that one irritates me too.
Not trying to poke you rebel, I get what you said :-), just opened the door for me to vent.
It wasn't a tongue-in-cheek comment. Mustachians, on average, any way you measure it, lead very privileged lives.
Privilege doesn't mean there was no hard work.
I'm privileged to even be in the situation where hard work lets me FIRE. I'm privileged to be born and raised in the US. A white, cis, hetero male. To be intelligent. Able bodied.
I'm privileged that I had the notion to work hard.
None of those privileges completely explain where I am, nor do they preclude hard work.
Nor does "luck." You need both luck (though I don't believe it luck, I'm using the term synonymous with "chance happening that is of a positive nature") and hard work.
Someone attributing it ALL to "luck" misses the bigger picture, but so does someone attributing it ALL to "hard work."
You don't need to get offended at having privilege. Recognize that it's a great thing, and something you should use to help others.
Realizing you have privilege doesn't say anything negative about you, except by petty people who want to bring you down to their level. Getting mad at it does exactly that. Recognizing it, being grateful for what you have, and helping others... that rises above whatever advantages you have, to do good with it.
And now for my, very similar, disclaimer:
Not trying to poke you KBB, I get what you said :) It's annoying when people try to use privilege to discredit your hard work. Just opened the door for me to vent, because there's been an anti-privilege backlash, rather than just embracing it, accepting it, and moving on.