I'm definitely in the "check mint every other day with all things financial on autopilot" category. One thing I've found to be good for me is writing instructions for my spouse on "how" things work. Basically an "oh shit, nawhite was hit by a bus and now DW needs to take care of things herself" folder.
Putting this together (with a will) has become my next challenge and it definitely gives me something to do while I wait for the money to come it. Thoughts?
That's a great idea. I have all acount credentials in a program called KEYPASS. It's free and small and simple to use. I keep it and it's database on a usb memory stick since that way it's both secure (if you hide it) and also if your computer goes down you don't lose everything.
But what you said would make a lot of sense.. my wife does have concerns if something happened to me how to get to all these accounts (I have at least 50 different logins stored.. not all financial). I probably should make a backup every month or so and put it on a second memory stick and put that in our safety deposit box W instructions on how to use it if she forgot. Or maybe just having 2 at the house is fine.. the chances of me dieing plus the house burning down simultaneously are slim.. if it did happen she would probably be in it with me and it wouldn't be too much of a concern then :)
Also the person who mentioned volunteering at Habitat.. that is a great idea. It would be great to learn how to build houses and at the same time help people out. I'm going to seriously consider that.
I agree with this whole thread.. I just came to the web site a few weeks ago. Previously we also made a budget according to Dave Ramsey FPU. Already put the brakes on a lot of spending and cut a lot of our bills down to size. But looking at the spreadsheets and such seem to make it seem like a long time.
10 years is a long time especially if you have a number plugged in from your high paying but sucky job.
I can tell you from experience if you are in a job you love aka your dream job, the days, weeks, months, and years will fly by.
Had I been saving more spending less I probably could have still been doing the dream job. Maybe a few more years I can get back to it.
Maybe that is something that would help to think about.. it might not have to be 10 years of hard work at a corp job to retire early... maybe you do 2 years of hard work, then 2 years of a more fun but still corp job, etc... taper off the work over time.. maybe it takes a little longer to retire.. but maybe you don't care if you are doing something you love.
That was sort of an 'issue' for me with this blog.. I love the information but ther was never an article about 'how I suffered through 10 years of working to retire early'. I mean, that is what it's about, but saving money and all is actually fun and not that big of a deal.
Showing up to work every day and dealing with the bullsht of a difficult job is the hard part! There's really not much help for that though.. other than find a better job.. 'make the best of it' etc.
That's what makes the wait seem long it's the logic that higher pay/more work = faster retirement.. but the more you work, the more you want to retire!