I was surprised to learn that in the past ten years it appears that international surrogacy, starting in India, has created a whole world of possibilities for those who are infertile or are older when they start families. Or, I suppose, women that want to retire before having children and plan ahead by freezing eggs...
It's interesting stuff, but just for clarity,
surrogacy is not for those who are "older when they start families" or who freeze their eggs when young. (I'm using the present tense there, instead of "women who
froze their eggs," because reliable egg-freezing technology is so new that there are no middle-aged women today who are able to get pregnant with eggs frozen when they were fertile.... They can get pregnant with
embryos made and frozen when they were younger, because embryo freezing is a much older technology, like back to the 80s... but that's a completely different story.)
Surrogacy is a solution when your womb is absent or malformed or otherwise not functional. That can happen at any age and is no more likely to happen when you're, say, 43 than when you're 23. Surrogacy is also a solution when there is some other medical reason that you should not carry a child. For instance, if you absolutely have to take medication that is dangerous for a fetus, or if you had a hormone-sensitive cancer and being exposed to the extra estrogen of pregnancy could bring it back, or if you had a nearly fatal complication in a previous pregnancy and your doctor warned that it would likely happen again if you got pregnant again.
In contrast to womb problems and other medical reasons you can't be pregnant, the other common problem (way more common) is having egg problems. All women start having egg problems as they get older, but many women start having egg problems when they're younger (very occasionally you'll even see women who went into menopause at 18 or 20) or have eggs that were damaged or destroyed by cancer treatment.
Surrogacy doesn't help them; what they need is egg donation. AFAIK the oldest woman who gave birth to a child through egg donation was 63; most clinics won't do it over age 51 or so, but the point is, if your eggs are bad, that has absolutely nothing to do with whether you can carry a pregnancy. You can carry it as long as you get a good egg from someone.
So long story short...
- Womb problems or medical reasons not to be pregnant can hit at any age, and surrogacy is a solution to that.
- Egg problems hit all women as they age, and sometimes also strike younger women. Either way, egg donation is a solution.
THAT BEING SAID,
many American women travel to Europe, South Africa or occasionally (for Indian-American women) India, for donor eggs. In the US donor-egg treatment costs anywhere from $25k-$60k, but in Europe it's under $8000 and in South Africa it's about $10,000. The main countries people travel to are the Czech Republic and Spain, but it's also available in Greece and Cyprus. Like surrogacy--and indeed, more so than surrogacy--this is a big and growing sector of medical tourism.
Europe has world-class clinics that cater to foreign women because in several European countries egg donation is illegal (all the German-speaking countries, plus Italy and I think Ireland) and in several others it is regulated in a weird way that makes the waiting list years long (the UK, France...), whereas you could get pregnant six weeks from now if you pop over to Spain or the Czech Republic. South Africa also has great clinics, partly because it's basically the only developed nation in the area, and partly because Australia and New Zealand have very long waitlists for egg donation, so women from those countries need a Southern Hemisphere destination that can serve them. I have heard of American women going there too. Some people also travel to the Caribbean and Central America but their clinics don't have the reputation of the European ones.
For less than the cost of a new car ($30,000) it is now possible to have another woman carry your child in India or Thailand. And the success rate of this method appears to vary from 45% using your own eggs, to 60-70% using an egg donor.
Those donor egg stats sound accurate, but unless you're under 35, 45% would be an extraordinarily--indeed, suspiciously--high success rate for using your own eggs. For proof, go here and click on "SART National Data Summary"--you'll see the success rates, stratified by the woman's age, of IVF in the US (where our clinics are on average much better than Indian clinics):
http://www.sart.org/find_frm.htmlOn average in the US, in women under 35, the chances of having a baby through IVF with your own eggs is 40.1%. It drops to 31.9% for women 35-37 and 21.6% for women 38-40.
Apart from ethical concerns with Indian surrogates, and the expense of traveling there multiple times (husband has to travel to provide the sperm sample, parents have to go to get the baby...), there is a potentially serious legal problem with using surrogates outside the US. Long story short, if you want to bring your baby home to the US, the sperm and/or the eggs MUST come from a US-citizen parent. If you're American, your husband isn't, and you use an egg donor, your baby is not a US citizen and you can't bring it home. If neither of you are American citizens and you use your own sperm and eggs, same problem.
This isn't a merely theoretical risk; the US State Department requires parents who use foreign surrogates to undergo DNA tests after the child's birth to prove that at least one American-citizen parent is genetically related to the child. This requires at least one of you to stay in India (or wherever) for however long it takes for DNA results to come back and then for the State Dept. wheels to turn to get you an American passport for the baby. That can get expensive. Also, even if you're using the eggs/sperm that should result in a US citizen baby, you'd better hope the IVF clinic doesn't make a mistake (very rare, but not nearly as extraordinarily rare as it is in the US). If you end up with a baby who is not a US citizen, you cannot bring them home... you could if you could adopt them, but because under Indian law you (the mother of a baby born to a surrogate) are already the legal mother, adoption is not legally possible.