Just thought I'd share as I think I've finally reached the 'oh right, I get it' moment...
After perusing a lot of anti-consumerist and early retirement sites on the web, including MMM, and reading Your Money or Your Life, I then proceeded to continue as I always had, spending more than I earned and lusting after whatever shiny new item was in the shops.
It was almost as if it needed a while to actually sink in, because now, a couple of months down the line, something has just snapped. Since last payday, this month, I've spent a vast amount less than usual, and it's been easy. Without any feeling of deprivation, I've stayed away from the shops. My life has filled up with reading great books, seeing friends, going to free gigs and events around the city, walking everywhere, and spending a lot more time at home cooking up healthy food. And guess what... a new feeling of peacefulness and contentment has started to arrive.
I'm nowhere near getting all my finances in order (my main goal just now is just to eliminate debt) but already, right now, there's a massive advantage to living a little differently - the freedom of living a life unconnected from rampant consumerism. Phew. Took a while, but my goodness, the view is better over here.
Would love to here other people's experience of the moment that it sort of fell in to place: If it was the same for you, or if it was a struggle, or if everything clicked right away - and when (if) you started to feel a lot happier?
(Sorry if this has already been discussed before, I couldn't find exactly the right place to post it).