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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #200 on: October 07, 2018, 11:20:41 AM »
Fair enough, but I question if most people can truly maintain that level of spending. Lots of sacrifice. And this is where I think crazy Suzie might have a valid point. If you lean FIRE and some crazy thing happens that forces you to dip into your principle, how can you keep going without working? And if that happens after youíve sat out of the work world for ten years, what do you do?
I would be considered lean FIRE and I don't feel like it is a sacrifice to spend low.  Worst case situation you make adjustments if you have to, even if that means going back to work.  I can't see spending years more at work to cover every possible bad situation.
I think there can be a point somewhere in between. Itís obviously different for everyoneís unique situation.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #201 on: October 07, 2018, 03:51:52 PM »
Thanks for the notes...it will save me time in not listening to it.

Those examples are crap IMO. And if I get board I will find something to do. A job does not define me...ggrrr this type of thing just is annoying...The world is falling apart, we have no control over our money, and if college costs end up being as high as she says then the entire world would have to adjust. Because if it is costs $400K for college then the wages once out of college will have to adjust. That is the most stupid thing I have ever seen. Yes college is expensive...dont study underwater basket weaving and you will be fine.

This is a very good point that often gets overlooked. Expenses associated with room & board is often more than tuition. Saving for tuition for a state school really isn't that big of a deal. Tuition + books should be 35K to 40K for 4 years for many state schools. If you do 2 years of community college you are talking 25K total.

Is it expensive though? Some schools of course are. But I feel like people seem to also include room and board when talking about how expensive college is, which isn't really a fair comparison, because if you decide not to go to school, you still need a place to live and food to eat to survive. The flagship university for my state's in-state tuition and fees is $9,130/yr. That's not cheap or free, but I wouldn't say it's expensive.

My alma mater is even cheaper. For in-state tuition and fees it's $6,368/yr. That's a 4 year degree for just over $25k.

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« Reply #202 on: October 07, 2018, 05:11:37 PM »
yeah you are right.

I guess suzie got to me. Also i read shiller's book and it made me super suspicious of the market. Here ill give this thing a chance again and look more into what a lot of you guys are doing.

Thank you for being willing to reevaluation your position, shinn497.

I mean I just want to look into others.

Tbh I have always been on the fence on if or how i want to FIRE or not. Even learning about MMM I never had the idea that retirement is sitting on a beach somewhere. 

I do know I want to save and infvest as much as possible for the next 15 years and way more than the normal person. So there is that.

The suzie orman thing is just making me think that I will probably still want ot have an income or even consider just going into entrepreneurship sooner. I mean I would so be willing to work into my 80s for the right job!

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« Reply #203 on: October 07, 2018, 07:31:21 PM »
As far as the so called ďlean-FIREĒ movement, I donít believe that is truly FIRE. Itís a sabbatical or a career change, itís not FIRE.

True lean-FIRE just means keeping expenses very low, not that you have to ever work again.  It's still FIRE.
Fair enough, but I question if most people can truly maintain that level of spending. Lots of sacrifice. And this is where I think crazy Suzie might have a valid point. If you lean FIRE and some crazy thing happens that forces you to dip into your principle, how can you keep going without working? And if that happens after youíve sat out of the work world for ten years, what do you do?

I was just doing the math.  It looks like a reasonable lean-FIRE SWR for me would be 1.5% SWR of my current stash.  That would give me a few hundred dollars on average per month over barebones expenses for discretionary spending.  That would actually be a bit of an increase in my spending vs. the last decade of my total spending, so I should be able to sustain that if I wanted.  Of course, I'm not planning to lean-FIRE, so I plan to use a SWR closer to 4%.

I mean I would so be willing to work into my 80s for the right job!

That's not something you normally read from members on this forum.
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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #204 on: October 07, 2018, 07:31:57 PM »
Tbh I have always been on the fence on if or how i want to FIRE or not. Even learning about MMM I never had the idea that retirement is sitting on a beach somewhere. 

I do know I want to save and infvest as much as possible for the next 15 years and way more than the normal person. So there is that.

The suzie orman thing is just making me think that I will probably still want ot have an income or even consider just going into entrepreneurship sooner. I mean I would so be willing to work into my 80s for the right job!

Any there is nothing wrong with that if that's how you would like to spend your life.

What I objected to was your position that A) no one would enjoy a life of simply existing, even if that means spending it sitting on a beach somewhere B) despite the fact that you were arguing no one would enjoy such a lifestyle, you also didn't think it make sense for people who thought they might enjoy such a lifestyle to try it and find out for themselves one way or another.

If, after reconsidering, you find that you still want to advocate for that two part position, I'd be happy to will feel obligated to continue to respectfully disagree and continue to point out the inherent contradiction.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #205 on: October 07, 2018, 08:41:34 PM »
Tbh I have always been on the fence on if or how i want to FIRE or not. Even learning about MMM I never had the idea that retirement is sitting on a beach somewhere. 

We should each be making our "own version of FIRE".  I don't get hung up too much on what other people consider to be FIRE for them.  I may get hung up on one person telling another person to take their definition and shove it...nothing I see here - just something I pushed back against as absurdity on Bogleheads.

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I do know I want to save and infvest as much as possible for the next 15 years and way more than the normal person. So there is that.

A good goal for anyone to have, in my personal opinion - regardless with what one plans to do after achieving FI

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The suzie orman thing is just making me think that I will probably still want ot have an income or even consider just going into entrepreneurship sooner. I mean I would so be willing to work into my 80s for the right job!

We don't always get to have that choice.  Luckily, you are wise enough to save enough money such that whether or not you get to persist as you plan, you'll be okay.  TOO MANY PEOPLE TODAY think "I'll just work until I die, screw all that saving noise"...

Here is the thing, I have a big software project I can't wait to start and I'm slowly building up learning of the specific tools I need.  However, I'll never go back into another software job ever again due to past bad experiences.  Now, if I were FI today, I'd quit my job in a heartbeat and spend a good 2-6 hrs a day 3-4 days a week on my personal software project and I will likely never ever charge any money for it if I decide to "release it" into the wilds.  I'd much rather put it out on an open source platform, but I certainly don't want to be beholden to someone else's release schedules, red tape, SOPs, stupid business requirements that don't even translate into proper software requirements and someone else telling me that they don't want to add features or allow proper testing because they'd rather have a half baked piece of crap put out for revenue when I'm not even finished with the damn product.  When I FI, I don't currently plan to have a Boss ever again (that means no employer and no customer either).

How will I have social circles?  There are many, many meetups for many types of interests.  I may even try to prod some of my friends along a little faster to the point of FI.

I don't need titles, I shouldn't need money (spouse wants to be at 2x LEAN FIRE), and I'm pretty sure I'll be just fine that way.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #206 on: October 07, 2018, 08:58:46 PM »
Looks like an interesting thread, so PTF.  Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but it does help to understand their perspective.  Suze is uber rich PF oldschool, I'm sure to her anyone that ER's in their prime with 5 million or less seems crazy to her since they could be making millions more and those 5 million or less is chump change.  She sees life through her own lens and her life has worked out fine doling out conservative advice.  I'd have been shocked (and impressed with her mental flexibility) if she had considered the possibility that FIRE might be sensible and possibly even rational.  But then again, I've never had much respect for Suze Orman's opinions and she has never added anything new to my PF learning.

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« Reply #207 on: October 08, 2018, 05:12:12 AM »
yeah you are right.

I guess suzie got to me. Also i read shiller's book and it made me super suspicious of the market. Here ill give this thing a chance again and look more into what a lot of you guys are doing.

Thank you for being willing to reevaluation your position, shinn497.

I mean I just want to look into others.

Tbh I have always been on the fence on if or how i want to FIRE or not. Even learning about MMM I never had the idea that retirement is sitting on a beach somewhere. 

I do know I want to save and infvest as much as possible for the next 15 years and way more than the normal person. So there is that.

The suzie orman thing is just making me think that I will probably still want ot have an income or even consider just going into entrepreneurship sooner. I mean I would so be willing to work into my 80s for the right job!

Dude.

Literally no one is telling you to not work.
This is literally a non issue.

The whole point of FIRE is to do whatever you want. If you want to work, then work.
I will likely work until I die because my hobbies tend to be highly profitable. It doesnít make me think Suze is less of an idiot.

Continuing to work is one option, but doing it out of fear even after youíve saved more money than you need is pathological.

I canít tell you what I will do in 45 years, fuck, I canít tell you what Iíll do in 5 years because life is not actually predictable. My plan is to do what I want to do. If thatís work, Iíll work. If itís time off to travel, Iíll travel. If itís an amazing volunteer opportunity in Nepal, Iíll go volunteer in Nepal.
Who knows.

If at 75 you are loving working, then cool, work at 75.
For the love of...donít set up your life with the expectation that you will *need* to work well into your senior years. Thatís not a mentally healthy expectation to set up.

You cannot plan today for what your future self wants.
You have NO IDEA what future self will have been through.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #208 on: October 08, 2018, 12:37:26 PM »
Yeah she totally doesn't get the nuance of the FIRE community. She totally went off on how horrible the idea is then came back and basically said all the things we do LOL. And completely out to lunch on what things costs or how on earth the majority of people make by in the world.

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« Reply #209 on: October 08, 2018, 12:48:25 PM »
yeah you are right.

I guess suzie got to me. Also i read shiller's book and it made me super suspicious of the market. Here ill give this thing a chance again and look more into what a lot of you guys are doing.

Thank you for being willing to reevaluation your position, shinn497.

I mean I just want to look into others.

Tbh I have always been on the fence on if or how i want to FIRE or not. Even learning about MMM I never had the idea that retirement is sitting on a beach somewhere. 

I do know I want to save and infvest as much as possible for the next 15 years and way more than the normal person. So there is that.

The suzie orman thing is just making me think that I will probably still want ot have an income or even consider just going into entrepreneurship sooner. I mean I would so be willing to work into my 80s for the right job!
Check out websites like Early Retirement Extreme (ERE.com), ER.org,  and various Reddit threads. Also check out the journal section here as there are lots of FIREd people in all different financial and lifestyle situations. Plus there are people here and in other forums who don't blog or journal but are FI and RE in their 30s and 40s. Some continue to work and earn in some capacity others don't but have rewarding lives. And even spend some time at the beach doing nothing on occasion.

ETA I'm sitting on a beach doing nothing right now and its everything I thought it could be ;-). TGIM!

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #210 on: October 08, 2018, 02:04:02 PM »
Looks like an interesting thread, so PTF.  Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but it does help to understand their perspective.  Suze is uber rich PF oldschool, I'm sure to her anyone that ER's in their prime with 5 million or less seems crazy to her since they could be making millions more and those 5 million or less is chump change.  She sees life through her own lens and her life has worked out fine doling out conservative advice.  I'd have been shocked (and impressed with her mental flexibility) if she had considered the possibility that FIRE might be sensible and possibly even rational.  But then again, I've never had much respect for Suze Orman's opinions and she has never added anything new to my PF learning.

I get that it is her experience and perspective, but surely she has seen enough financial data and research to know that most people will never EARN $5 million dollars IN THEIR ENTIRE LIFETIME, so how can that be a realistic minimum threshold for the average person to retire on? She's either incompetent, intellectually lazy, or dishonest.

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« Reply #211 on: October 08, 2018, 02:14:15 PM »
Many people aren't healthy enough to keep working in old age even if they want to.   She is out of touch with the average person even though she didn't grow up rich.

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« Reply #212 on: October 08, 2018, 02:59:13 PM »
Looks like an interesting thread, so PTF.  Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but it does help to understand their perspective.  Suze is uber rich PF oldschool, I'm sure to her anyone that ER's in their prime with 5 million or less seems crazy to her since they could be making millions more and those 5 million or less is chump change.  She sees life through her own lens and her life has worked out fine doling out conservative advice.  I'd have been shocked (and impressed with her mental flexibility) if she had considered the possibility that FIRE might be sensible and possibly even rational.  But then again, I've never had much respect for Suze Orman's opinions and she has never added anything new to my PF learning.

I get that it is her experience and perspective, but surely she has seen enough financial data and research to know that most people will never EARN $5 million dollars IN THEIR ENTIRE LIFETIME, so how can that be a realistic minimum threshold for the average person to retire on? She's either incompetent, intellectually lazy, or dishonest.

What I was meaning to say is that Suze probably thinks it's only OK to FIRE with $5 million at 40 (or, as she stated, at 25 with $20 million or 35 with $10 million) if you dislike your paid work, or you can 'normal retire' on a more modest amount at 65 or 70.  I didn't intend to represent her view as that everyone has to hit $5 million before they can safely retire.  I tried to listen to some of the podcast but don't have the stomach to 'hate listen' to someone who doesn't bother to understand their audience! 

There are already plenty of examples of folks that FIRE'd successfully in their 20's and 30's with a million or less and seem to have no problem keeping expenses low or increasing income commensurate with lifestyle inflation.  Many YouTubers, Twitch Streamers, travel bloggers, renaissance festival workers, etc. could probably also fall under the FIRE banner but don't fly it since ER was not their goal.
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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #213 on: October 08, 2018, 07:37:32 PM »
Lol oook OMG..... Anyone else not really sure what her argument is? I mean aside from the long term disability insurance, that might be a valid claim. But the rest is a big circular argument. She gives the impression that there is never enough money to be made, ever. There appears to be a HUGE disconnect between her and the middle and lower class.

Longterm disability costs me like $100 a year... That is so cheap not even sure why she brings that up as something to worry about other then just get it. My state also pays it if you cannot work, I have known 45 year old's on it, though it pays a lot less (social security levels).

One of the unpleasant realities you learn about only when you are in the unfortunate position of having to use your paid-into-for-three-decades long term disability plan from your employer is that the insurance co. has an army of people working very hard to deny you benefits. On top of having a major illness I had to battle, appeal, repeatedly bug my very busy doctors for updates and forms, and experience the real fear of being both very ill and without a reliable income. The experience was quite eye opening, because all those years I thought I was being so smart and protecting myself, but if I hadn't had the support of my very busy doctor in filling out forms and answering appeals, I likely would have lost that benefit. It was infuriating and humiliating. The process of applying for and receiving SSDI, also paid into during three decades of work, was similar. In the end, i was lucky, but it did make me realize how thin the ice can become for people when they experience a debilitating illness and can no longer work. And I never in a million years thought it might be me.

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« Reply #214 on: October 09, 2018, 12:50:45 AM »
One of the unpleasant realities you learn about only when you are in the unfortunate position of having to use your paid-into-for-three-decades long term disability plan from your employer is that the insurance co. has an army of people working very hard to deny you benefits. On top of having a major illness I had to battle, appeal, repeatedly bug my very busy doctors for updates and forms, and experience the real fear of being both very ill and without a reliable income. The experience was quite eye opening, because all those years I thought I was being so smart and protecting myself, but if I hadn't had the support of my very busy doctor in filling out forms and answering appeals, I likely would have lost that benefit. It was infuriating and humiliating. The process of applying for and receiving SSDI, also paid into during three decades of work, was similar. In the end, i was lucky, but it did make me realize how thin the ice can become for people when they experience a debilitating illness and can no longer work. And I never in a million years thought it might be me.
This right here is why I will never understand why so many Americans believe it is a good thing to have an entire industry with the sole purpose of making a profit between themselves and access to good quality health care.

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« Reply #215 on: October 09, 2018, 03:49:11 AM »
Looks like an interesting thread, so PTF.  Everyone is entitled to their own opinions, but it does help to understand their perspective.  Suze is uber rich PF oldschool nouveau riche, I'm sure to her anyone that ER's in their prime with 5 million or less seems crazy to her since they could be making millions more and those 5 million or less is chump change.  She sees life through her own lens and her life has worked out fine doling out conservative advice.  I'd have been shocked (and impressed with her mental flexibility) if she had considered the possibility that FIRE might be sensible and possibly even rational.  But then again, I've never had much respect for Suze Orman's opinions and she has never added anything new to my PF learning.
EV2020, I agree with your assessment of SO, except for one part, so I FTFY.

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« Reply #216 on: October 09, 2018, 04:21:23 AM »
I'm just going to chime in here, if I may, with an off-the-wall, bluntly made, sharp point that I'm not sure has been addressed directly yet. It may well have, but just for completeness' sake...

Maybe Suze Orman is just an egomaniac who feels like her toes are being trodden on by people far younger than her retiring with far less money.

She's lashing out with a lot of anger, spite and snobbery; all of which, to me, look like characteristics of a cornered animal attempting to defend itself while retaining dignity.

She worked hard all her life and has so much money, that surely only someone such as herself deserves to retire early at 62, right? Furthermore, she found it so boring that she started working again - yaaaawn retiring early is soooo beneath me. Wait, what's this? There are people figuring out that you can retire at 30 with only a few hundred grand? LIES! WHAT ARE THESE KIDS DOING ON MY TERRITORY?!?!?!

Does she feel invalidated that people have managed to out-do the mighty Suze Orman on the financial plane? I mean there aren't many other explanations for her ludicrously detached comments. She's gatekeeping people who earn the US median income as 'low earners'. She's throwing out huge figures of sums, stating them as trivial amounts to live off of - only a monk can live off of $60k a year!!

But then, what do I know? I'm just a clueless Brit living in a nanny state.

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« Reply #217 on: October 09, 2018, 06:52:21 AM »
I think she is trying to be relevant again by being controversial. FIRE has been in the media a lot the last couple years. To maintain her standing as a ďfinancial guruĒ, she needed to weigh in. And somewhere in that interview there may have been some valid points, unfortunately they were lost in the crazy.

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« Reply #218 on: October 09, 2018, 07:20:36 AM »
I think the interview was a media grab from the beginning. Both sides, and there was a clear winner. Afford Anything came out on top. It wasn't even close. She even had a follow-up show, which it sounded like that was her plan from the beginning.

Accept the request, figuring Suze would slam us, just quietly let her speak, and have a followup show to discuss why Suze is out of touch. I loved it. It even sounded like MMM may have discussed this "master plan" with Paula prior to the interview. I say great play.  Here is the followup show. I found it well worth the time:

http://podcast.affordanything.com/154-youll-need-at-least-10-million-to-retire-early-says-suze-orman/

Suze sounded unprepared to me. It sounded like she was using the interview to get her chops back after a 3 year break. It showed.

It was too bad for her. I remember some of the best advice I heard soon after the crash(quote is paraphrased): "Do not focus on what you had, focus on what you have." This was Suze of old. She went from roll up your sleeves and get to work fixing what went wrong, to doom and gloom fear.

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« Reply #219 on: October 09, 2018, 09:31:47 AM »
That was a great post-Suze round-up by Paula, and I think that final point she makes before the outro and post-amble is really the most important one - why many of us are here in the first place; we don't want to work until we're 70 because we may very well not even make it to 70. I don't want to die at 50 having spent my entire adult life working 40+ hours a week.

You're right, Paula won. And if her and MMM actually predicted what Suze would say, then that's even better.

Obviously I was feeling considerably sassy when I wrote my last comment here, but listening to that episode has me feeling more thoughtful overall now.

I guess Suze underestimated Paula and the FIRE community as a whole. As a movement that is fuelled and led by bloggers and podcasters, I imagine the outside image of it is similar to some sort of guerrilla rebellion. The thing is, it's more than that - we got this figured out.

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« Reply #220 on: October 09, 2018, 05:32:56 PM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'. 

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« Reply #221 on: October 09, 2018, 08:38:18 PM »
Listened to both the interview and Paula's follow up today.  Suze was seriously unhinged.  And so inelegant with her blatant self-promotion.  I loved the MMM tweet follow up about her being an evil Disney puppy-hating villain.  Really felt that way. And she made NO SENSE -- you can't stop working before traditional retirement age unless you have 10-20 million, but if you retire at 65-70 with only average savings you are going to be fine because you always lived below your means.  Huh?  She was just one random slogan after another and they didn't match Paula's questions or even make sense after awhile.

The queen of old PF is dead, long live the new royalty of FIRE!

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« Reply #222 on: October 09, 2018, 09:54:53 PM »
Those who are with money are easy to dispense predictions

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« Reply #223 on: October 10, 2018, 10:43:50 AM »
Listened to both the interview and Paula's follow up today.  Suze was seriously unhinged.  And so inelegant with her blatant self-promotion.  I loved the MMM tweet follow up about her being an evil Disney puppy-hating villain.  Really felt that way. And she made NO SENSE -- you can't stop working before traditional retirement age unless you have 10-20 million, but if you retire at 65-70 with only average savings you are going to be fine because you always lived below your means.  Huh?  She was just one random slogan after another and they didn't match Paula's questions or even make sense after awhile.

The queen of old PF is dead, long live the new royalty of FIRE!
I agree. I actually thought she might have a bit of dementia as she wasn't the "old Suze" from a decade or 2 ago. Very odd thought process going on and very scattered. Basicly a "get off my damn lawn you snot nosed brats" old cranky person rant.

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« Reply #224 on: October 10, 2018, 05:14:35 PM »
Except it's get of my private beach front you snot nose little shits.

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« Reply #225 on: October 10, 2018, 06:22:41 PM »
Let me just sum up the interview:
You can't retire unless you have $10M saved because what if wages go down while taxes go up and you have to care for your kid that needs $50k/year for school and sick parents that need $250k/year in care.

...but isn't that 99.9% of Americans?

At least now we know never to recommend her to anyone for advice. It blows my mind that she's not laughed off her shows/books after this.

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« Reply #226 on: October 11, 2018, 01:55:13 AM »
I'm sure Orman is perfectly honest in her belief that $250K/year is what a person needs for a comfortable retirement. What she should be thinking about deeply is why she needs to spend so much more money than the average American to realize a fulfilling retirement. Millions of Americans live fulfilling lives on 20% or even 10% of this amount. She should be thinking hard about why she can't when so many others can, but instead she promotes her own misguided standards as a universal truth. Bad approach.

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« Reply #227 on: October 11, 2018, 01:59:31 AM »
It blows my mind that she's not laughed off her shows/books after this.

If she's anything like financial guru Martin Lewis here in the UK, I suspect that enough people take her word for it without doing their own research. I'm not saying that I have an axe to grind with ML, just that he (and possibly her) target the mainstream audience - one that's renowned for doing as they're told and not questioning the authority figures that the media places before them.

The FIRE movement probably isn't widespread enough for enough people to have enough knowledge about it, sadly. Heck, she might even dampen its momentum...

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #228 on: October 11, 2018, 06:54:31 AM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #229 on: October 11, 2018, 08:44:57 AM »
It blows my mind that she's not laughed off her shows/books after this.

If she's anything like financial guru Martin Lewis here in the UK, I suspect that enough people take her word for it without doing their own research. I'm not saying that I have an axe to grind with ML, just that he (and possibly her) target the mainstream audience - one that's renowned for doing as they're told and not questioning the authority figures that the media places before them.

The FIRE movement probably isn't widespread enough for enough people to have enough knowledge about it, sadly. Heck, she might even dampen its momentum...

The people who buy Suze's and Dave's books believe they deserve the lifestyle that they are selling. They picture themselves living better in retirement than they do know. They are not people who are interested in leading more simple lives now and in retirement.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #230 on: October 11, 2018, 09:20:29 AM »
Fair enough, but I question if most people can truly maintain that level of spending. Lots of sacrifice. And this is where I think crazy Suzie might have a valid point. If you lean FIRE and some crazy thing happens that forces you to dip into your principle, how can you keep going without working? And if that happens after youíve sat out of the work world for ten years, what do you do?
I would be considered lean FIRE and I don't feel like it is a sacrifice to spend low.  Worst case situation you make adjustments if you have to, even if that means going back to work.  I can't see spending years more at work to cover every possible bad situation.
I think there can be a point somewhere in between. Itís obviously different for everyoneís unique situation.

No matter how many times it is addressed, there is this persistent myth that this forum pushes a lifestyle of extreme frugality.  There are certainly blogs (eg ERE) that push this, but around here the main goal is a lifestyle that would be considered extremely comfortable by most US standards and luxurious by 90% of the world.  MMM even wrote a blog post about it, which seems relevant to repost here:
http://www.mrmoneymustache.com/2014/11/23/not-extreme-frugality/

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #231 on: October 11, 2018, 05:28:18 PM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.
Not sure there isn't something more to Mrs. Pete's comment than snark, Psychstache. Leather jackets aren't particularly the rage these days. To many, wearing leather clothing is inappropriate, reflective of cruelty to animals. To my eye, it makes her look out of step, out of date and out of touch with reality. It's almost like she donned a piece of armour, as if she was going into battle. Which is exactly what she did. Therefore, a rather calculated decision on SO's part.

Also, Psych, unless you know Mrs. Pete IRL, your comment about what you believe she is better than is out of order. Orman is a public figure. Mrs. Pete is a forum member. Please see Forum Rules, particularly Rule #1.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #232 on: October 11, 2018, 06:25:23 PM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.
Not sure there isn't something more to Mrs. Pete's comment than snark, Psychstache. Leather jackets aren't particularly the rage these days. To many, wearing leather clothing is inappropriate, reflective of cruelty to animals. To my eye, it makes her look out of step, out of date and out of touch with reality. It's almost like she donned a piece of armour, as if she was going into battle. Which is exactly what she did. Therefore, a rather calculated decision on SO's part.

Also, Psych, unless you know Mrs. Pete IRL, your comment about what you believe she is better than is out of order. Orman is a public figure. Mrs. Pete is a forum member. Please see Forum Rules, particularly Rule #1.
Nah,  she was wearing her "brand" image -- the same necklace, the leather coat, the hairstyle, and forceful way of talking and sounding exciting, etc.   The comment above about trying for a resurgence sounded about right.   You go onto Youtube and Podcasts when you want to increase your audience.

Too bad the image choice appeared to be intentional to distract her audience from the illogical content of what she was actually saying.  She sounds like her head is in the mindtrap that many of the 1% fall victim to.   I used to love watching Suzy in the first few years!

I listened to 16 minutes.  At the point where she expounded that seniors care costs $20k-$30k per month, I was left thinking -- millions of Americans don't pay that and are still alive.... Suzy, you need to go onto your own "Can I afford it?" show, because anyone listening should endure that if they suggest spending that much on their parents' senior care.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #233 on: October 11, 2018, 06:25:41 PM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.
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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #234 on: October 11, 2018, 10:50:17 PM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.
+1

Agreed. So many new exciting things to judge Suze on, why fall back on the old and tired classic of judging a woman by her sense of style?

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #235 on: October 12, 2018, 08:20:51 AM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.
Not sure there isn't something more to Mrs. Pete's comment than snark, Psychstache. Leather jackets aren't particularly the rage these days. To many, wearing leather clothing is inappropriate, reflective of cruelty to animals. To my eye, it makes her look out of step, out of date and out of touch with reality. It's almost like she donned a piece of armour, as if she was going into battle. Which is exactly what she did. Therefore, a rather calculated decision on SO's part.

Also, Psych, unless you know Mrs. Pete IRL, your comment about what you believe she is better than is out of order. Orman is a public figure. Mrs. Pete is a forum member. Please see Forum Rules, particularly Rule #1.

I think it's a valid thing to call someone out for. Critique her words, not her clothes. We're all better than that. Time to call each other out on these things.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #236 on: October 12, 2018, 01:43:27 PM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.
Not sure there isn't something more to Mrs. Pete's comment than snark, Psychstache. Leather jackets aren't particularly the rage these days. To many, wearing leather clothing is inappropriate, reflective of cruelty to animals. To my eye, it makes her look out of step, out of date and out of touch with reality. It's almost like she donned a piece of armour, as if she was going into battle. Which is exactly what she did. Therefore, a rather calculated decision on SO's part.

Also, Psych, unless you know Mrs. Pete IRL, your comment about what you believe she is better than is out of order. Orman is a public figure. Mrs. Pete is a forum member. Please see Forum Rules, particularly Rule #1.

1. Not sure what you are seeing in my comments that imply I am being a jerk, but please report it and let a mod discuss it with me if you feel it is needed.
2. I don't know Mrs. Pete IRL, but have seen numerous posts from her that have taught me that she is very knowledgeable about finances, thoughtful in her comments, and a wise individual in general, so I feel confident in saying that she is very capable of adding more to the discussion than a fashion based takedown.

I think DS summed it up pretty nicely:

I think it's a valid thing to call someone out for. Critique her words, not her clothes. We're all better than that. Time to call each other out on these things.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #237 on: October 12, 2018, 10:37:25 PM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.
Not sure there isn't something more to Mrs. Pete's comment than snark, Psychstache. Leather jackets aren't particularly the rage these days. To many, wearing leather clothing is inappropriate, reflective of cruelty to animals. To my eye, it makes her look out of step, out of date and out of touch with reality. It's almost like she donned a piece of armour, as if she was going into battle. Which is exactly what she did. Therefore, a rather calculated decision on SO's part.

Also, Psych, unless you know Mrs. Pete IRL, your comment about what you believe she is better than is out of order. Orman is a public figure. Mrs. Pete is a forum member. Please see Forum Rules, particularly Rule #1.

1. Not sure what you are seeing in my comments that imply I am being a jerk, but please report it and let a mod discuss it with me if you feel it is needed.
2. I don't know Mrs. Pete IRL, but have seen numerous posts from her that have taught me that she is very knowledgeable about finances, thoughtful in her comments, and a wise individual in general, so I feel confident in saying that she is very capable of adding more to the discussion than a fashion based takedown.

I think DS summed it up pretty nicely:

I think it's a valid thing to call someone out for. Critique her words, not her clothes. We're all better than that. Time to call each other out on these things.
The phrase that you used sounded condescending, IMO, unnecessarily so. Shall we just politely agree to disagree?

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #238 on: October 13, 2018, 03:07:01 AM »
If FIRE **IS** Wrong, then it it can't be **ANY WRONGER** than working your whole life with *NO* retirement savings and holding high debt forever.  And if most people are allowed to do the latter, than I certainly get a pass for doing the former. 

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #239 on: October 13, 2018, 08:46:57 AM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.
Apparently I'm not.  :)   It's what I thought when I saw that picture, but -- yeah -- it wasn't nice to say it. 

It's almost like she donned a piece of armour, as if she was going into battle. Which is exactly what she did.
That does appear true. 


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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #240 on: October 13, 2018, 09:53:22 AM »
If I had Suze's money, I'd splurge on a leather jacket that isn't butt-ugly.  Really, neither the color nor the style does anything for her.  Just sayin'.

This wasn't necessary. You're better than this Mrs. Pete.
Apparently I'm not.  :)   It's what I thought when I saw that picture, but -- yeah -- it wasn't nice to say it. 

It's almost like she donned a piece of armour, as if she was going into battle. Which is exactly what she did.
That does appear true.

Leather is still HUUUGE!  And Suze can afford it.  She always wears the same gold earrings - I recall her mentioning that on a show many years back.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #241 on: October 13, 2018, 08:25:13 PM »
Anyone seen Suze's reply/apology to her misunderstanding? Posted on LinkedIn and her twitter feed.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #242 on: October 13, 2018, 11:16:00 PM »
Anyone seen Suze's reply/apology to her misunderstanding? Posted on LinkedIn and her twitter feed.

Her apology amounts to "...as long as you keep working and making money you can "RE"." Well that's not retiring. So I don't think she gets it. Sounds like she just wanted to head off some of the pushback and negativity to her original comments, but the new remarks don't show a deeper understanding of the topic.


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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #243 on: October 14, 2018, 08:01:23 AM »
Anyone seen Suze's reply/apology to her misunderstanding? Posted on LinkedIn and her twitter feed.

Her apology amounts to "...as long as you keep working and making money you can "RE"." Well that's not retiring. So I don't think she gets it. Sounds like she just wanted to head off some of the pushback and negativity to her original comments, but the new remarks don't show a deeper understanding of the topic.

It is how every single blogger and podcaster has retired.

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« Reply #244 on: October 14, 2018, 08:24:11 AM »
It is how every single blogger and podcaster has retired.

Option A - If your retirement plan depends on you earning enough income to fund your life independent of your investments than I would argue you are not retired. You are just working at something else vs. whatever career you may have started at.

Option B - If on the other hand your retirement plan does not depend on the above, but instead you happen to earn some $$ doing something fun you are retired.

My reading of Suze's "apology" is the former not the later.

If Option A is "retirement" than I have been retired my whole life! ;-)

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #245 on: October 14, 2018, 09:47:57 AM »
Interesting that she posted this the same day Vicki Robin (the REAL queen of living within your means) gave her a gentle on-line slapdown:

https://yourmoneyoryourlife.com/suze-orman-fire-movement/

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #246 on: October 19, 2018, 04:16:47 AM »
New article from Suze! We were so close to getting am apology/"I was wrong"

http://amp.timeinc.net/time/money/5428520/suze-orman-fire-movement

Why doesn't someone just link her the Trinity study and then she has to fight statistics instead of rhetoric: "25x income isn't enough forever"

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #247 on: October 19, 2018, 04:26:15 AM »
Why doesn't someone just link her the Trinity study and then she has to fight statistics instead of rhetoric: "25x income isn't enough forever"

I guess the problem is either that yes, she hasn't seen/read/heard about it yet, or she just doesn't agree with it. Although, if she does disagree with it, I'd very much like to know what grounds of authority she has to dispute it, because "No, it's wrong because I said so" isn't good enough for me.

Also, IIRC, her apology isn't a real apology. She discretely passes the blame on to someone else - "the information I received was wrong," implying that the fault is with the person who gave her her information, or the information itself, rather than her for not doing her own due diligence.

Either way, I'm still happy to see her give something of an apology. It takes her to swallow a lot of pride for that, which tells me a lot about her. It's definitely better than her dying on the hill of false information; becoming a martyr because of her own arrogance.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #248 on: October 19, 2018, 06:03:38 AM »
Interesting that she posted this the same day Vicki Robin (the REAL queen of living within your means) gave her a gentle on-line slapdown:

https://yourmoneyoryourlife.com/suze-orman-fire-movement/

I hadn't read anything by Vickie Robin in over 30 years, when I read YMOYL.   I didn't know that she had gone through periods of cancer and disability.

Because of my husband's severe disability, I have been wondering how people who FIRE plan to be able to manage possible disability.  Many of the strategies that allow people to live frugally seem to depend on having a hale, healthy body and being able to DIY.   Taking care of your own home repairs, biking instead of driving, frugal travel strategies, even picking up items at the thrift store instead of shopping online and having things delivered are things for example my husband is no longer able to do. 

The answer is of course, that he has a spouse who can still do those things.  And that is Vickie's answer as well in the linked article:  she says she managed through periods of disability and illness with the help of her friends and social network.   I do think that needs to be included in people's plans for FIRE. 

In addition, the disabilities she mentioned dealing with were limited in time.  Friends will be willing to help you with activities of daily living (getting dressed, fed, washed, getting to your appointments etc.) for short periods of time, but it is unlikely that they would be available for the rest of your life!   So relying on your social circle to care for you should you become disabled might not work out in the long term.

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Re: Suze Orman hates FIRE
« Reply #249 on: October 19, 2018, 07:29:30 AM »
What a lovely article by Vickie. Thank you for sharing. She offers a really nice perspective on someone who has reflected a lot on the emotional side of FIRE and not just the hard numbers like us geeks. I feel like we benefit from sitting at her knee and listening to her wisdom.