I've been thinking about a topic, that perhaps Mr. Money Mustache would write himself.
This is on the topic of spending.
Here's the thing, no one ever teaches kids how to spend. There is no formal school curriculum on this topic, and as a result a lot of people go through life mis-spending their way to misery.
I knew there was a lot of information about how to make money, start a business, get a degree, find a job, etc. Making money wasn't the issue... however spending is the elephant in the room that very few people address, and address well.
I am in a financially great place, and on the precipice of deciding if I ever want to work a full time job again (
http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/welcome-to-the-forum/life-long-saver-possibly-forced-to-fire/ )... but I truly believe I'm here today because I learned how to spend.
I learned how to spend wisely, my money, and my time, the two most important assets we can build up and waste if not managed correctly.
After I got my college degree, and worked on my first few miserable jobs, I actually found myself flush with cash (relatively small to most people, but a lot to me), and I debated what to do with the money.
I decided to adopt this rule to spending my money (and later my time) : I must spend on things (aside from critical necessities), things that pay back in either greater returns money wise, or things that make me more effective at making more money, and generally make me more successful - personally or professionally. So this means after rent, food, car, clothes, the extra money must be spent on stuff that will make more money, or educate me, give me a new skill or improve my existing skill to be more successful, or improve my productivity.
As a result of this self-imposed golden rule, I maxed out my retirement funds, and then spent on things like newer laptops (for self-learning of information, technology, IT and business topics, etc), high speed internet (to take advantage of the massive wealth of information online), books on investing, website building, programming, business issues, communicating better, etc... these things I acquired would be used to help me in my job directly, or help me be a more knowledgeable person indirectly, which would benefit my work or a business should I desire later.
Of course I had the occasional vacation, splurged on fine dining every once in a while, but that was the exception, not the rule.
Pretty soon this meant my net worth was growing rapidly, my career was skyrocketing, and my personal success and effectiveness was soaring.
This was one side of the equation. The other side was how to spend my time. I had friends who are die-hard sports fans, and would watch every NBA, NFL, college football, college basketball game that was on TV when they can. I had friends who would binge watch the latest TV drama, reality TV show, or some brainless TV or movie activity. I also had other friends who would go partying all the time, go gamble at the casinos, or some other hobbies that didn't help them in the long run.
I decided to focus on a few things with my spare time: health / fitness, and learning new stuff that would benefit me personally or professionally. As a result, I started playing tennis, and then started a personal workout schedule about 10 years ago. I go to the gym about 4-6 times per week, and lift to better health. I have been working out consistently for about 10 years now (took a few months off now and then to attend to travel / projects, etc). Out of all of my friends, I have the most fit and muscular body, all because I decided this was how I wanted to spend my time.
I also spend a lot of time reading and researching interesting things. When I had cable TV, my tuner was always tuned to Science channel, Discovery, History channel, Nat Geo, etc. I wanted something that would enlighten, educate, or entertain in a positive way, for my mind. I despised watching mindless TV dramas, reality shows, or sports (although there was a period of time when I was a diehard Phoenix Suns fan and watched several seaons when they were on a championship run).
As a result of my focus on self-education and improvement, I am one of the best speakers, writers, and communicators in my entire company, even though I work in IT. As a result I am asked to speak at conferences, write blogs, and generally be the face of the company at important events. It's all due to a commitment I made on how to spend my time a long time ago.
So bottom line, thanks to a deliberate decision on how to spend my free income and my time, I have achieved prosperity today that few of my friends can dream of. Many of them hate their jobs and lament they wish they could retire and enjoy their leisurely activities (watching more sports, mindless dramas, or partying). Unlike them, I can actually do that if I wished.
I think this is a very important issue that few really address well. People make decisions on how to spend money and their time without really thinking about it. I think people should be taught to think critically more about this topic, and how to spend their way to prosperity.