What if recycling does more long term environmental or social damage through the byproducts of recycling than not recycling?
what if you are burning more energy than it's worth to recycle?
Emg and I addressed this. It may be the case that it's better not to have the recycling program. That's debatable and depends on the nature of it.
Once it exists though (the recycling plant made, the trucks running the routes), it's better to use it, because the bulk of the work is done, so your incremental costs won't outweigh the gains.
Having just articulated that, and then having you say the above two things, along with the rant about washing stuff makes it seem not like you want actual answers based in data, but are just lazy. Not meaning to offend, that's just how it comes off. If that's not the case, please correct me on your issue with it (not a "I don't feel like washing" which like I said seems lazy or "sorry but I tend to question societal norms" which is great as an initial position, not as a stubborn one--it should lead you to research, and decide for yourself, not to just decide that norm is wrong).
I'm a huge recycling skeptic, in general (you should have seen the faces of the fifth graders I taught when I mentioned I think recycling might be bad--they've never thought of that concept, they're so propagandized). But the data is pretty clear where it's worth it (e.g. soda cans) and where it's not (e.g. paper) and where it depends. And it's clear on sunk costs.
I'd be 100% supportive of you lobbying for your town to get rid of the recycling program, while still recycling while it exists. That's what makes the most sense--don't have it, but use it if it exists.
If you disagree, please explain why, with real reasons on why you think it's bad (not a vague "I'm just not sure it's worth it").
:)