I will most likely be Lean Coast FIRE-ing, although I didn't set out to do so. I left a full time role early in 2020 with the plan of pursuing a change of career back into another full time role, the pandemic struck, family emergencies happened, and now I'm left with about a quarter of my FIRE number and a small crafting business that will hopefully make enough to cover my living expenses + save a little until I do hit my FIRE target. Despite that, my net worth has only gone up thanks to accidental market timing and passive growth.
- Insurance-wise, I'm in California so our low-cost ACA insurance options are... shall we say, probably more plentiful compared to other states. I opt for high deductible, low cost plans with nationally recognized insurance companies (so not tiny unknowns with ??? levels of care), and I do keep enough in my EF funds to cover the deductible.
- Mentally, I'm in a MUCH better place... to a degree that is almost surprising to me. I had been very burnt out in my previous role, but financial security has always been a big anxiety point for me and I thought that the stress of my job was balanced out by the reassurance of watching my $$$ numbers go up and up. I would daydream all the time about FIRE, and tell myself that I only had to keep my nose to the grindstone a little longer, a few more years. Obviously, that didn't happen.
You know how people will say that they started spending less money in retirement because they realized they no longer needed to spend to offset their unhappiness at being at work. The opposite happened to me. I had gotten so stingy and used to depriving myself of any convenience or joy because the money I earned felt so hard won, like I was paying for every dollar with blood, sweat, and tears. Now, I spend more and earn significantly less, and am much happier for it, because I'm no longer living in the shadow of that insecurity. Feels like a weird humblebrag to type out, but moving on from that scarcity/deprivation mindset has also made me a more generous, compassionate person, and a better friend & partner. Watching my net worth go up almost despite myself helped with that worry too.
- Disruptions, yes. See above pandemic & family emergencies. I keep a much bigger EF fund now than I did when I was working FT, and it was still depleted by the events of last year, mostly helping out family. Even though it's not peak financial optimization, I still opt to keep a large EF fund as a launching pad for if my plans need to drastically change, or if I'm hit by some really wild medical stuff.
- In retrospect, I almost wish I could've held out at my last job long enough to have gotten laid off & collect unemployment like most of my team, har har. No, but I honestly wouldn't have done anything different. Leaving when I did allowed me to experience a taste of my coasting life before the pandemic shut everything down. It's also given me precious time with loved ones that I won't ever get back.
- For me, Coast FIRE-ing is everything I wanted out of FIRE, I just didn't realize it yet. My business is the work equivalent of a FT job (I'm certainly putting 40+ hours into it every week) and I'm barely making enough to cover my expenses, and yet I'm much happier now. I truly enjoy what I do and would be doing it even if I had hit my FIRE target number... so I just cut out the middleman and also every part of working life that I hated (COMMUTE BLEGH. Professional dress BLUGH.) The hard work I put in during my younger years to build up a solid $$$ foundation has paid off, and compound interest is doing its magic. And if shit really hits the fan and I had no choice but to go back to work, I have the confidence I have the flexibility to do that too.
- Advice wise, I'd just be realistic about being able to live within whatever $$ limits make sense for you as you coast your way to FIRE. None of that "we spend 60k a year, but I'm sure if we left our jobs and trimmed the fat it could go down to 35k" aspirational thinking. DO think about where you want to be in 3 years, 5 years, 10 years... whether you coast FIRE or if you pursue traditional FIRE, and how to best achieve those goals. But DON'T deny and disregard the happiness of your current, present self in favor of your future self. That way lies burnout and madness.