How do most of you weigh paying for your kids college or letting them take out loans and pay for it themselves? Lets skip the college is not for everyone and focus on the question.
My parents paid for tuition and I paid for the rest. I feel that we should do the same for our kids but my wife thinks they should have a free ride and we pay for tuition, books and rent. Along with some spending money.
Looking at the cost of the local college they both want to attend it will cost $26,000/year plus any extras. So for both of them that will be around $250,000.
We have saved $175,000 so far for college but I struggle with giving that up because it would move us to FI in 3 years if we didn't use that for college. Otherwise we have about 8 more years.
I've read articles that say don't save for your kids college at your own retirement expense. Just curious what most of you are doing and opinions on the question.
My husband would have probably been retired now if we weren't paying for college for our kids, but the money we had earmarked for college, we spent/are spending on college, and we had nowhere the amount you have. If you've earmarked $175,000 for college for your kids, I find it somewhat odd that you now don't want to spend the money on education.
Will your kids receive scholarships?
Can they go to a community college for two years, and then the remaining two years at the local college to cut costs?
I think your numbers are a little high and to tack on $42,000 for extras is too much.
$26,000 for 4 years = $104,000 x 2 kids = $208,000. $208,000 - $175,000 = $33,000 - the education tax credits amount to $2,500 per year per kid depending on how much is spent/and how much you and your wife make. There is a phase-out number I believe for those tax credits. So there should be $10,000 per kid over the 4 years. So, now you are at $33,000 - $20,000 = $13,000 remaining divided by 2 kids = $6,500. They can always take out a small loan for that amount if desired.
I have found out that college kids can be extremely resourceful and don't need all that much money once they are in college. One son has been working a work-study on campus and summers and has been able to contribute toward his education. Our other son has been working part-time for the past few years. They have also been able to earn spending money this way. I would think that, more than likely, (and you haven't mentioned the ages of your kids), that they are going to want to earn their own spending money by working part-time in college. Trust me, most kids want to be independent by that sophomore year and want to be earning and spending their own money.
Do you or your wife receive any bonuses? We've also used my husband's bonus toward paying for college.