I've been thinking about this recently because I've noticed that it is pretty easy to offend others online sometimes.
On an internet forum where we don't really know each other this happens too, but on this site you can usually work through it if you remain reasonable and polite, but it is unusual that way I think.
I've been thinking recently that I might have to work on my responses towards people who post things that I know are based on misinformation, emotional "facts", or are based on opinions that are potentially harmful to others.
For example, on FB I have some family members that are pretty "red necked" and are fond of posting stuff that I find kind of nuts.
This morning it was a defence of some Duck Dynasty guy (Phil Robertson) who made homophobic comments. First thing I've heard of it, but my immediate response was to think it was a bit shocking that someone would feel fine to defend homophobia online. Free speech is one thing, defence of the underlying beliefs is another.
So, I made no comment. Why not? Because I've learned that some people don't want to hear another point of view and I don't really accomplish anything. Given that we are related, if I defriend them then it is not without consequence either.
The last thing I posted was a response to a posting of this urban legend as if it was true story:
http://www.snopes.com/rumors/lapelpin.asp I just posted the snopes link, but I don't think it was really appreciated. In reality, I was pretty disturbed that someone would even think it was okay to post in the first place. Why don't people check facts first when they could harm others?
I guess I've always had a sense that things have to be fair and factual and I usually don't remain silent because I feel like I have an obligation to speak up - part of a civil society.
I find though that I'm a bit confused sometimes when it comes to family and some friends on FB. The line between free speech, hate speech, misinformation, blood relations and my own views on fairness sometimes leave me feeling like I don't know what the right thing to do is.
I think being silent on social media might be for the best in these circumstances, but it doesn't feel fabulous.