Welcome!!!
I think you are set up to hit just about any time table you want to. Your income is very high, even for this site. You have a net worth of about 800k it looks like, and you can easily inject 100k of new capital each year. MMM FIRE'd on less than that.
Some random thoughts:
Personally I agree with your thoughts on having about 1.25 million saved, but I'm biased because that's the number where I'll consider myself FI based on our current lifestyle. I think you can get there by age 50 give or take.
Advice I would give would be to:
- Figure out what you want your life to be like post work, then figure out how much that'll cost, then work backwards towards how much you have to save each year and work your plan. The more excited you are for the next thing, the more motivated you'll be to live as efficiently as possible.
- Post a case study. If you are looking for ways to trim your spending, people will have TONS of suggestions for you, they always do. You can take the advice that won't decrease your happiness, and ignore the rest.