1) All portfolio before-tax balances are included with estimated taxes subtracted
I disagree. Taking out all your money at one time is unrealistic and therefore the tax rate would be much too high. Just calculate it at what it's worth.
2) All portfolio after-tax balances are included
Agreed, but you are totally inconsistent with #1 above. To be consistent with #1, you would need to subtract capital gains taxes.
3) 100% of any home value is included
Agreed, but again, you are inconsistent with #1 above. To be consistent with #1 above, you would need to subtract out sales costs such as realtor commissions, repairs, fees, etc.
4) 100% of any annuity balance is included
Do you mean net present value of the annuity? Or cash-out balance? (Do annuities have such a thing?) Or purchase cost?
5) Debt is subtracted
Absolutely.
Social Security benefits.
This is tricky. My social security benefit is higher than my wife's. If I die first, she loses "her" benefits and has them replaced by "mine". But if she dies first, I just lose her benefits. That's an extra complication on top of all the other annuity value calculation problems.
You also left off other assets. In my case, that includes rental houses, sharecropped farm land, and mortgage notes others owe us.
Others may own artwork, vacation homes, unused land, expensive cars or jewelry, etc.
I don't include home furnishings, etc., in my own net worth calculations. I wouldn't get much for them (relative to other assets) if I was selling the entire house worth of furnishings at one time; and if I did have to do that, I would need to be focused on "where to get next month's rent money?" more than "what's my net worth?"