But the new twist...two friends are turning 50 in the next year or two. They both want to plan "destination birthdays". I was like...what? Their birthdays are 4 months apart.
These 2 are friends with each other, right? So why not have one combined birthday trip? I did that this year with 5 friends of mine who were all having "milestone" birthdays. It wasn't a frugal trip, to be sure, but at least there was only one. We scheduled the trip when everyone could go, which actually wasn't over any one person's birthday, but covered the celebration for all. It was our first "girls trip" since everyone started having kids a dozen years ago.
Yes, you'd think so, right? The thing is the one that lives in the US and wants to go to Europe wants her dream Paris trip, and the other one living in Europe has now come to her senses and wants a US trip (not where we all live though). The one living in Europe tends to dominate the plans so I think the US based friend doesn't want her trampling on her plans yet again. At least that's how I see it.
Oh well, I've gotten into way too much detail here. My main gripe was this "destination birthday" concept. I think it's just an excuse to travel together again which we haven't done in a while. That's all fine and dandy, but by labelling it their 50-year-old birthday trip they are going to dominate the plans and make it costly, because that's the kind of people they are. Not out of malice or anything, they just like to splurge.
We'll see see if my FIRE begins in 2015 or 2016. Perhaps I can turn it into a more slow travel type thing once on the trip, or not go at all. It wasn't what I had planned as my first step in FIRE so it's frustrating. But it's also nice to have friends that want to hang out with you so money isn't always the top concern.
I could also mention that MY desire for my 50 year old birthday is to be FIRE and their desires for 50 may be incompatible with that. But I don't turn 50 for another 4 years. There is probably a reason why these spendy single high-earning women with no children still can't FIRE at 50...hee hee...
Thanks for listening to my rant. ;-)