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« Reply #7650 on: July 08, 2020, 12:09:41 PM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.


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« Reply #7651 on: July 08, 2020, 01:24:05 PM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.

Awesome news!! Congratulations!!

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« Reply #7652 on: July 08, 2020, 02:19:29 PM »
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« Reply #7653 on: July 08, 2020, 02:35:26 PM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.

Congratulations!

I understand the annoyance. I am getting a larger lump sum of money in the fall and if I accept a job offer I will not need the money. I have already spent time playing with my excel file of finances and thinking of how I should invest the money. When I tell my family that I will save the money they will probably consider me a bit crazy and question what I will do with all that money saved. :) My family has already figured that I am not riding the struggle bus.

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« Reply #7654 on: July 08, 2020, 02:59:59 PM »
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« Reply #7655 on: July 09, 2020, 12:15:49 AM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.

i can't tell you how much I wish I had crafted a similar illusion. My ego wouldn't let me--the damn thing. It may not be too late though--Maybe I can craft an illusory catastrophe..

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« Reply #7656 on: July 09, 2020, 03:59:18 AM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.

Congratulations!

I understand the annoyance. I am getting a larger lump sum of money in the fall and if I accept a job offer I will not need the money. I have already spent time playing with my excel file of finances and thinking of how I should invest the money. When I tell my family that I will save the money they will probably consider me a bit crazy and question what I will do with all that money saved. :) My family has already figured that I am not riding the struggle bus.

One of the best things I did for myself was to sit down and create a written plan, kind of a flowchart, for where "extra" money would go.  That was OT, side jobs, stimulus checks, tax refunds, whatever.  Now that the first item on that list has been knocked off, I just move on to the next one. 

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« Reply #7657 on: July 09, 2020, 04:01:08 AM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.

i can't tell you how much I wish I had crafted a similar illusion. My ego wouldn't let me--the damn thing. It may not be too late though--Maybe I can craft an illusory catastrophe..

Sadly, I didn't have to create one.  2018 did that for me.  Tornado in March dropped two trees on my house.  In May, my husband blew the engine in his car and in November he totaled mine in a wreck.  The following February, he lost his job (which was for the best anyway).  We're just now getting caught up with all that and back to where we were in February 2018.

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« Reply #7658 on: July 09, 2020, 05:51:18 AM »
I was enjoying my pool today, like I do every day, but went back to this MMM post just for fun.  I am in my pool every day, even in the winter, and it brings me a whole new lease on life.  I don't think I'd be outside in the Houston summer, our kids wouldn't be outside with their friends, and we wouldn't enjoy the view of the pool outside our window if the pool were not there.  I guess, if I'm paying $20 a day, then this 'latte habit' is my downfall and I'll just have to work that extra year.  Egads!  I appreciate the awareness, but life is so complicated, this is one area I'm more than happy to have paid for and moved on.  Whew, cheers to paid off extravagance.

I miss our pool, sometimes. With this ridiculous string of hot weather, I miss it more. The pool came with the (previous) house. Kids were excited and we used it extensively the first probably 3 years or so. Then seemingly everyone just stopped using it. I was the proverbial pool man as no one wanted to take care of it. Everyday balancing the chemicals and cleaning. Had to replace the pool pump and the liner was going to need to be replaced. It just wasn't worth the cost anymore. I know folks who have a salt water pool and are in it damn near everyday. Certainly worth it for folks like that.     

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« Reply #7659 on: July 09, 2020, 07:47:42 AM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.

i can't tell you how much I wish I had crafted a similar illusion. My ego wouldn't let me--the damn thing. It may not be too late though--Maybe I can craft an illusory catastrophe..

Sadly, I didn't have to create one.  2018 did that for me.  Tornado in March dropped two trees on my house.  In May, my husband blew the engine in his car and in November he totaled mine in a wreck.  The following February, he lost his job (which was for the best anyway).  We're just now getting caught up with all that and back to where we were in February 2018.

It's impressive that it took you less than 2 years to recover, though! I guess that even when those kinds of things happen, it pays to be mindful with your money. Hopefully the new (?) car will last longer...!

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« Reply #7660 on: July 09, 2020, 10:56:51 AM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.

i can't tell you how much I wish I had crafted a similar illusion. My ego wouldn't let me--the damn thing. It may not be too late though--Maybe I can craft an illusory catastrophe..

Sadly, I didn't have to create one.  2018 did that for me.  Tornado in March dropped two trees on my house.  In May, my husband blew the engine in his car and in November he totaled mine in a wreck.  The following February, he lost his job (which was for the best anyway).  We're just now getting caught up with all that and back to where we were in February 2018.

It's impressive that it took you less than 2 years to recover, though! I guess that even when those kinds of things happen, it pays to be mindful with your money. Hopefully the new (?) car will last longer...!

I got a new, old car.  I bought something so similar that most people don't realize it's not the same vehicle.  Only it had 60k fewer miles.  I'm not kidding when I say that I buy what I love and drive it forever.  I drove my old one for 12 years (that's the one that DH blew the engine in). 

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« Reply #7661 on: July 09, 2020, 12:39:33 PM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.

Congratulations!

I understand the annoyance. I am getting a larger lump sum of money in the fall and if I accept a job offer I will not need the money. I have already spent time playing with my excel file of finances and thinking of how I should invest the money. When I tell my family that I will save the money they will probably consider me a bit crazy and question what I will do with all that money saved. :) My family has already figured that I am not riding the struggle bus.

One of the best things I did for myself was to sit down and create a written plan, kind of a flowchart, for where "extra" money would go.  That was OT, side jobs, stimulus checks, tax refunds, whatever.  Now that the first item on that list has been knocked off, I just move on to the next one.

I only have my mortgage and studentloan. The mortgage with a 1,7 % interestrate and the studentloan with a 0,16 % interestrate. Due to the low interestrates I am not looking into paying them off rather which stocks to invest the money in but I will have it figured out when the time comes so when the money land in my account they are fast out of it according to my plan. :-)

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« Reply #7662 on: July 10, 2020, 11:51:14 AM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.


Aaaaaand....a truck kicked up a rock and chipped the windshield of my just-paid-off Jeep.  Of course.

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« Reply #7663 on: July 10, 2020, 01:18:25 PM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.


Aaaaaand....a truck kicked up a rock and chipped the windshield of my just-paid-off Jeep.  Of course.

Of course.

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« Reply #7664 on: July 10, 2020, 02:03:36 PM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.


Aaaaaand....a truck kicked up a rock and chipped the windshield of my just-paid-off Jeep.  Of course.

Good thing you're debt free and on your way to financial freedom.  This would suck even more if you still owed a shit ton on the Jeep and had other debt you had to service.

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« Reply #7665 on: July 10, 2020, 02:16:11 PM »
As of five minutes ago, I officially owe absolutely nothing to anyone (except myself where I borrowed from savings to make the last payment).  And I can't tell anyone without breaking that carefully crafted illusion that I'm riding the struggle bus.


Aaaaaand....a truck kicked up a rock and chipped the windshield of my just-paid-off Jeep.  Of course.

Chipped as in you need to replace it? Or chipped as in you can repair it? Because the repair is a lot less.

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« Reply #7666 on: July 10, 2020, 04:27:09 PM »
Our car insurance will pay to send someone to repair a chip in the windshield to avoid a replacement

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« Reply #7667 on: July 10, 2020, 06:41:56 PM »
Or you can get your own kit for about $12 at the auto parts store. It’s an easy DIY.

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« Reply #7668 on: July 11, 2020, 04:55:19 AM »
I've already had it fixed.  They were able to fill it.  I just thought it was funny that this was the third vehicle that has had something minor happen to it within days of paying it off. 

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« Reply #7669 on: July 11, 2020, 08:00:56 AM »
I was enjoying my pool today, like I do every day, but went back to this MMM post just for fun.  I am in my pool every day, even in the winter, and it brings me a whole new lease on life.  I don't think I'd be outside in the Houston summer, our kids wouldn't be outside with their friends, and we wouldn't enjoy the view of the pool outside our window if the pool were not there.  I guess, if I'm paying $20 a day, then this 'latte habit' is my downfall and I'll just have to work that extra year.  Egads!  I appreciate the awareness, but life is so complicated, this is one area I'm more than happy to have paid for and moved on.  Whew, cheers to paid off extravagance.

I miss our pool, sometimes. With this ridiculous string of hot weather, I miss it more. The pool came with the (previous) house. Kids were excited and we used it extensively the first probably 3 years or so. Then seemingly everyone just stopped using it. I was the proverbial pool man as no one wanted to take care of it. Everyday balancing the chemicals and cleaning. Had to replace the pool pump and the liner was going to need to be replaced. It just wasn't worth the cost anymore. I know folks who have a salt water pool and are in it damn near everyday. Certainly worth it for folks like that.   

Got rid of our pool this year too (was waiting until it needed expensive maintenance) then we had the hottest June that I can remember since living in this house. I was the pool woman too, plus my kids are little and I was worried they would fall in. And where we live we could only use it 3 months/year. Still miss it a little though.

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« Reply #7670 on: July 13, 2020, 07:14:24 AM »
I was enjoying my pool today, like I do every day, but went back to this MMM post just for fun.  I am in my pool every day, even in the winter, and it brings me a whole new lease on life.  I don't think I'd be outside in the Houston summer, our kids wouldn't be outside with their friends, and we wouldn't enjoy the view of the pool outside our window if the pool were not there.  I guess, if I'm paying $20 a day, then this 'latte habit' is my downfall and I'll just have to work that extra year.  Egads!  I appreciate the awareness, but life is so complicated, this is one area I'm more than happy to have paid for and moved on.  Whew, cheers to paid off extravagance.

I miss our pool, sometimes. With this ridiculous string of hot weather, I miss it more. The pool came with the (previous) house. Kids were excited and we used it extensively the first probably 3 years or so. Then seemingly everyone just stopped using it. I was the proverbial pool man as no one wanted to take care of it. Everyday balancing the chemicals and cleaning. Had to replace the pool pump and the liner was going to need to be replaced. It just wasn't worth the cost anymore. I know folks who have a salt water pool and are in it damn near everyday. Certainly worth it for folks like that.   

Got rid of our pool this year too (was waiting until it needed expensive maintenance) then we had the hottest June that I can remember since living in this house. I was the pool woman too, plus my kids are little and I was worried they would fall in. And where we live we could only use it 3 months/year. Still miss it a little though.

I live somewhere that a pool can reasonable be expected to be used at least 7 months out of the year.  My best friend, who is currently making really bad decisions with a life insurance settlement, put in a heated in-ground pool this winter.  I've never asked, but she did let it slip the other day that the first month it was ready (February, maybe?) that she got a $2000 water/gas bill from filling it and heating it.  At least she turned the heat down after that (though she thinks her brother may be coming over during the day and turning it back up...joke's on him because she's turned off the gas to the heater to stop that shit).

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« Reply #7671 on: July 13, 2020, 07:20:48 AM »
I was enjoying my pool today, like I do every day, but went back to this MMM post just for fun.  I am in my pool every day, even in the winter, and it brings me a whole new lease on life.  I don't think I'd be outside in the Houston summer, our kids wouldn't be outside with their friends, and we wouldn't enjoy the view of the pool outside our window if the pool were not there.  I guess, if I'm paying $20 a day, then this 'latte habit' is my downfall and I'll just have to work that extra year.  Egads!  I appreciate the awareness, but life is so complicated, this is one area I'm more than happy to have paid for and moved on.  Whew, cheers to paid off extravagance.

I miss our pool, sometimes. With this ridiculous string of hot weather, I miss it more. The pool came with the (previous) house. Kids were excited and we used it extensively the first probably 3 years or so. Then seemingly everyone just stopped using it. I was the proverbial pool man as no one wanted to take care of it. Everyday balancing the chemicals and cleaning. Had to replace the pool pump and the liner was going to need to be replaced. It just wasn't worth the cost anymore. I know folks who have a salt water pool and are in it damn near everyday. Certainly worth it for folks like that.   

Got rid of our pool this year too (was waiting until it needed expensive maintenance) then we had the hottest June that I can remember since living in this house. I was the pool woman too, plus my kids are little and I was worried they would fall in. And where we live we could only use it 3 months/year. Still miss it a little though.

I live somewhere that a pool can reasonable be expected to be used at least 7 months out of the year.  My best friend, who is currently making really bad decisions with a life insurance settlement, put in a heated in-ground pool this winter.  I've never asked, but she did let it slip the other day that the first month it was ready (February, maybe?) that she got a $2000 water/gas bill from filling it and heating it.  At least she turned the heat down after that (though she thinks her brother may be coming over during the day and turning it back up...joke's on him because she's turned off the gas to the heater to stop that shit).

I think I'd be putting a camera up on that pool. That's pretty shitty of the brother if he's doing that. Catch him red handed, then send him a bill for the gas.

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« Reply #7672 on: July 13, 2020, 08:13:12 AM »
I was enjoying my pool today, like I do every day, but went back to this MMM post just for fun.  I am in my pool every day, even in the winter, and it brings me a whole new lease on life.  I don't think I'd be outside in the Houston summer, our kids wouldn't be outside with their friends, and we wouldn't enjoy the view of the pool outside our window if the pool were not there.  I guess, if I'm paying $20 a day, then this 'latte habit' is my downfall and I'll just have to work that extra year.  Egads!  I appreciate the awareness, but life is so complicated, this is one area I'm more than happy to have paid for and moved on.  Whew, cheers to paid off extravagance.

I miss our pool, sometimes. With this ridiculous string of hot weather, I miss it more. The pool came with the (previous) house. Kids were excited and we used it extensively the first probably 3 years or so. Then seemingly everyone just stopped using it. I was the proverbial pool man as no one wanted to take care of it. Everyday balancing the chemicals and cleaning. Had to replace the pool pump and the liner was going to need to be replaced. It just wasn't worth the cost anymore. I know folks who have a salt water pool and are in it damn near everyday. Certainly worth it for folks like that.   

Got rid of our pool this year too (was waiting until it needed expensive maintenance) then we had the hottest June that I can remember since living in this house. I was the pool woman too, plus my kids are little and I was worried they would fall in. And where we live we could only use it 3 months/year. Still miss it a little though.

I live somewhere that a pool can reasonable be expected to be used at least 7 months out of the year.  My best friend, who is currently making really bad decisions with a life insurance settlement, put in a heated in-ground pool this winter.  I've never asked, but she did let it slip the other day that the first month it was ready (February, maybe?) that she got a $2000 water/gas bill from filling it and heating it.  At least she turned the heat down after that (though she thinks her brother may be coming over during the day and turning it back up...joke's on him because she's turned off the gas to the heater to stop that shit).

I think I'd be putting a camera up on that pool. That's pretty shitty of the brother if he's doing that. Catch him red handed, then send him a bill for the gas.

He couldn't pay it anyway. 

All the siblings have an open invitation to come swim, so that wasn't a problem.  I don't know if she told him not to mess with the thermostat or just turned it off completely.  I would guess the latter, but not my circus.  I've had to hold my tongue a lot lately.  Her family has always taken advantage of her, and it's been way worse now that they think she's "rich."

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« Reply #7673 on: July 13, 2020, 12:41:59 PM »
I was enjoying my pool today, like I do every day, but went back to this MMM post just for fun.  I am in my pool every day, even in the winter, and it brings me a whole new lease on life.  I don't think I'd be outside in the Houston summer, our kids wouldn't be outside with their friends, and we wouldn't enjoy the view of the pool outside our window if the pool were not there.  I guess, if I'm paying $20 a day, then this 'latte habit' is my downfall and I'll just have to work that extra year.  Egads!  I appreciate the awareness, but life is so complicated, this is one area I'm more than happy to have paid for and moved on.  Whew, cheers to paid off extravagance.

I miss our pool, sometimes. With this ridiculous string of hot weather, I miss it more. The pool came with the (previous) house. Kids were excited and we used it extensively the first probably 3 years or so. Then seemingly everyone just stopped using it. I was the proverbial pool man as no one wanted to take care of it. Everyday balancing the chemicals and cleaning. Had to replace the pool pump and the liner was going to need to be replaced. It just wasn't worth the cost anymore. I know folks who have a salt water pool and are in it damn near everyday. Certainly worth it for folks like that.   

Got rid of our pool this year too (was waiting until it needed expensive maintenance) then we had the hottest June that I can remember since living in this house. I was the pool woman too, plus my kids are little and I was worried they would fall in. And where we live we could only use it 3 months/year. Still miss it a little though.

I live somewhere that a pool can reasonable be expected to be used at least 7 months out of the year.  My best friend, who is currently making really bad decisions with a life insurance settlement, put in a heated in-ground pool this winter.  I've never asked, but she did let it slip the other day that the first month it was ready (February, maybe?) that she got a $2000 water/gas bill from filling it and heating it.  At least she turned the heat down after that (though she thinks her brother may be coming over during the day and turning it back up...joke's on him because she's turned off the gas to the heater to stop that shit).

Whaaaaaaatttttttt. New contender for biggest brain explosion from this thread. Two THOUSAND bucks? Do you have any idea how much the life insurance settlement is? Is it enough to heat the pool for more than, say, a year?

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« Reply #7674 on: July 13, 2020, 01:42:29 PM »
I was enjoying my pool today, like I do every day, but went back to this MMM post just for fun.  I am in my pool every day, even in the winter, and it brings me a whole new lease on life.  I don't think I'd be outside in the Houston summer, our kids wouldn't be outside with their friends, and we wouldn't enjoy the view of the pool outside our window if the pool were not there.  I guess, if I'm paying $20 a day, then this 'latte habit' is my downfall and I'll just have to work that extra year.  Egads!  I appreciate the awareness, but life is so complicated, this is one area I'm more than happy to have paid for and moved on.  Whew, cheers to paid off extravagance.

I miss our pool, sometimes. With this ridiculous string of hot weather, I miss it more. The pool came with the (previous) house. Kids were excited and we used it extensively the first probably 3 years or so. Then seemingly everyone just stopped using it. I was the proverbial pool man as no one wanted to take care of it. Everyday balancing the chemicals and cleaning. Had to replace the pool pump and the liner was going to need to be replaced. It just wasn't worth the cost anymore. I know folks who have a salt water pool and are in it damn near everyday. Certainly worth it for folks like that.   

Got rid of our pool this year too (was waiting until it needed expensive maintenance) then we had the hottest June that I can remember since living in this house. I was the pool woman too, plus my kids are little and I was worried they would fall in. And where we live we could only use it 3 months/year. Still miss it a little though.

I live somewhere that a pool can reasonable be expected to be used at least 7 months out of the year.  My best friend, who is currently making really bad decisions with a life insurance settlement, put in a heated in-ground pool this winter.  I've never asked, but she did let it slip the other day that the first month it was ready (February, maybe?) that she got a $2000 water/gas bill from filling it and heating it.  At least she turned the heat down after that (though she thinks her brother may be coming over during the day and turning it back up...joke's on him because she's turned off the gas to the heater to stop that shit).

Whaaaaaaatttttttt. New contender for biggest brain explosion from this thread. Two THOUSAND bucks? Do you have any idea how much the life insurance settlement is? Is it enough to heat the pool for more than, say, a year?

It was $1M.  A $500k policy with double indemnity that kicked in when he was killed in a car wreck that treated as a homicide.  However, she's done a ton of grief spending over the last 2.5 years and I would be shocked if even half of it is left. 

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« Reply #7675 on: July 13, 2020, 11:36:32 PM »
I was enjoying my pool today, like I do every day, but went back to this MMM post just for fun.  I am in my pool every day, even in the winter, and it brings me a whole new lease on life.  I don't think I'd be outside in the Houston summer, our kids wouldn't be outside with their friends, and we wouldn't enjoy the view of the pool outside our window if the pool were not there.  I guess, if I'm paying $20 a day, then this 'latte habit' is my downfall and I'll just have to work that extra year.  Egads!  I appreciate the awareness, but life is so complicated, this is one area I'm more than happy to have paid for and moved on.  Whew, cheers to paid off extravagance.

I miss our pool, sometimes. With this ridiculous string of hot weather, I miss it more. The pool came with the (previous) house. Kids were excited and we used it extensively the first probably 3 years or so. Then seemingly everyone just stopped using it. I was the proverbial pool man as no one wanted to take care of it. Everyday balancing the chemicals and cleaning. Had to replace the pool pump and the liner was going to need to be replaced. It just wasn't worth the cost anymore. I know folks who have a salt water pool and are in it damn near everyday. Certainly worth it for folks like that.   

Got rid of our pool this year too (was waiting until it needed expensive maintenance) then we had the hottest June that I can remember since living in this house. I was the pool woman too, plus my kids are little and I was worried they would fall in. And where we live we could only use it 3 months/year. Still miss it a little though.

I live somewhere that a pool can reasonable be expected to be used at least 7 months out of the year.  My best friend, who is currently making really bad decisions with a life insurance settlement, put in a heated in-ground pool this winter.  I've never asked, but she did let it slip the other day that the first month it was ready (February, maybe?) that she got a $2000 water/gas bill from filling it and heating it.  At least she turned the heat down after that (though she thinks her brother may be coming over during the day and turning it back up...joke's on him because she's turned off the gas to the heater to stop that shit).

Whaaaaaaatttttttt. New contender for biggest brain explosion from this thread. Two THOUSAND bucks? Do you have any idea how much the life insurance settlement is? Is it enough to heat the pool for more than, say, a year?

It was $1M.  A $500k policy with double indemnity that kicked in when he was killed in a car wreck that treated as a homicide.  However, she's done a ton of grief spending over the last 2.5 years and I would be shocked if even half of it is left.

If she just invested that $1M in VTSAX, she could have spent $2k on heating the pool every month for 30 years and have $1333 left over for chlorine.

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« Reply #7676 on: July 14, 2020, 05:09:37 AM »
I was enjoying my pool today, like I do every day, but went back to this MMM post just for fun.  I am in my pool every day, even in the winter, and it brings me a whole new lease on life.  I don't think I'd be outside in the Houston summer, our kids wouldn't be outside with their friends, and we wouldn't enjoy the view of the pool outside our window if the pool were not there.  I guess, if I'm paying $20 a day, then this 'latte habit' is my downfall and I'll just have to work that extra year.  Egads!  I appreciate the awareness, but life is so complicated, this is one area I'm more than happy to have paid for and moved on.  Whew, cheers to paid off extravagance.

I miss our pool, sometimes. With this ridiculous string of hot weather, I miss it more. The pool came with the (previous) house. Kids were excited and we used it extensively the first probably 3 years or so. Then seemingly everyone just stopped using it. I was the proverbial pool man as no one wanted to take care of it. Everyday balancing the chemicals and cleaning. Had to replace the pool pump and the liner was going to need to be replaced. It just wasn't worth the cost anymore. I know folks who have a salt water pool and are in it damn near everyday. Certainly worth it for folks like that.   

Got rid of our pool this year too (was waiting until it needed expensive maintenance) then we had the hottest June that I can remember since living in this house. I was the pool woman too, plus my kids are little and I was worried they would fall in. And where we live we could only use it 3 months/year. Still miss it a little though.

I live somewhere that a pool can reasonable be expected to be used at least 7 months out of the year.  My best friend, who is currently making really bad decisions with a life insurance settlement, put in a heated in-ground pool this winter.  I've never asked, but she did let it slip the other day that the first month it was ready (February, maybe?) that she got a $2000 water/gas bill from filling it and heating it.  At least she turned the heat down after that (though she thinks her brother may be coming over during the day and turning it back up...joke's on him because she's turned off the gas to the heater to stop that shit).

Whaaaaaaatttttttt. New contender for biggest brain explosion from this thread. Two THOUSAND bucks? Do you have any idea how much the life insurance settlement is? Is it enough to heat the pool for more than, say, a year?

It was $1M.  A $500k policy with double indemnity that kicked in when he was killed in a car wreck that treated as a homicide.  However, she's done a ton of grief spending over the last 2.5 years and I would be shocked if even half of it is left.

If she just invested that $1M in VTSAX, she could have spent $2k on heating the pool every month for 30 years and have $1333 left over for chlorine.

I know.  I've tried to gently explain that this was supposed to be to take care of her and her girls for the rest of her life.  It went in one ear and out the other.  I think it's probably hard to imagine that much money ever running out when you've lived your whole life paycheck to just-over-minimum-wage-paycheck.  We're talking about someone who grew up without a whole lot of money and has been supporting one family member or another since she was 15.  I do know that she's talked to a financial planner and set 529s up for her girls and paid off her house, so not all of her decisions have been terrible. 

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« Reply #7677 on: July 14, 2020, 11:04:06 AM »
Won’t she also have social security survivor payments immediately as well as payments for her kids until they turn 18?  My annual social security statement seems to indicate that. If I kick off early, my DW will have a large lump sum from life insurance, social security survivor benefits, and our stash. She could blow the life insurance and still be fine. (She wouldn’t, she’s a cheapskate, one of her many attractive qualities.)

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« Reply #7678 on: July 14, 2020, 11:32:11 AM »
My daughter was invited to test by her karate instructor. He offered to let her perform in an empty dojo, cancelling class. My wife took the van to go shopping, so I had to drive my car for the first time in five weeks to get my daughter to the testing. I'm not sure it's worth it to be a two-car family, honestly, but we've saved enough already that selling my car and investing $6,000 won't move the needle for us very much.

Too many cars, too much money. Will you guys accept me?

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« Reply #7679 on: July 14, 2020, 11:41:35 AM »
My daughter was invited to test by her karate instructor. He offered to let her perform in an empty dojo, cancelling class. My wife took the van to go shopping, so I had to drive my car for the first time in five weeks to get my daughter to the testing. I'm not sure it's worth it to be a two-car family, honestly, but we've saved enough already that selling my car and investing $6,000 won't move the needle for us very much.

Too many cars, too much money. Will you guys accept me?
Only because you are cute :)

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« Reply #7680 on: July 14, 2020, 12:13:19 PM »
@ysette9 you know how to make a man who bikes everywhere feel special

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« Reply #7681 on: July 14, 2020, 01:14:16 PM »
@ysette9 you know how to make a man who bikes everywhere feel special
Practice makes perfect.
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« Reply #7682 on: July 14, 2020, 01:23:58 PM »
I got negative rating on mortgage because my debt to earning is too low as well as my spending

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« Reply #7683 on: July 15, 2020, 11:30:19 PM »
I got negative rating on mortgage because my debt to earning is too low as well as my spending

Mortgages give ratings now?  THREE STARS ALWAYS PAYS ON TIME BUT HASNT REPLACED THE ROOF IN 25 years

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« Reply #7684 on: July 16, 2020, 01:21:53 PM »
Getting way too excited about spreadsheets.

In related news, while tracking well in general compared to last year, i've crept over one spending goal for 2021 and will stop drinking (outside of social settings) for the remainder of 2020 when the gin runs out.

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« Reply #7685 on: July 16, 2020, 07:04:17 PM »
In related news, while tracking well in general compared to last year, i've crept over one spending goal for 2021 and will stop drinking (outside of social settings) for the remainder of 2020 when the gin runs out.

Once the gin runs out, you can read this - https://www.amazon.com/Sacred-Ginmill-Matthew-Scudder-Mysteries-ebook/dp/B000FC14HQ/ref=sr_1_2?crid=P6EW2VBY5MTT&dchild=1&keywords=when+the+sacred+ginmill+closes+by+lawrence+block&qid=1594947795&sprefix=when+the+sacre%2Caps%2C219&sr=8-2

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« Reply #7686 on: July 17, 2020, 07:22:44 AM »
My wife switched us to box wine because we never have enough adults in the house to drink an entire bottle at one time. The problem is that boxed wine is really not very good.

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« Reply #7687 on: July 17, 2020, 07:33:51 AM »
My wife switched us to box wine because we never have enough adults in the house to drink an entire bottle at one time. The problem is that boxed wine is really not very good.

You can recork a bottle and keep it in the fridge.  I'm a household of one, I do this with reds and whites, no issues.

Here the LCBO even sells them.

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« Reply #7688 on: July 17, 2020, 07:36:28 AM »
My wife switched us to box wine because we never have enough adults in the house to drink an entire bottle at one time. The problem is that boxed wine is really not very good.

Try different brands? Or restopper the bottle for later.

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« Reply #7689 on: July 17, 2020, 07:39:46 AM »
My wife switched us to box wine because we never have enough adults in the house to drink an entire bottle at one time. The problem is that boxed wine is really not very good.

You can recork a bottle and keep it in the fridge.  I'm a household of one, I do this with reds and whites, no issues.

Here the LCBO even sells them.
The Vacu Vin stopper system helps as well. Reduces oxidation vs. a regular cork/stopper.

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« Reply #7690 on: July 17, 2020, 07:42:46 AM »
We do boxed now for the same reasons. Even corked in the fridge we struggle to get through an entire bottle of wine in time. I’ve never found an excellent boxed wine but I have had decent ones from Target and Trader Joe’s in the past.

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« Reply #7691 on: July 17, 2020, 07:57:05 AM »
I'm far from a wine snob but there are plenty of decent boxed wines that we've found- Bota and Black Box aren't bad. Also, Costco now sells a kirkland cabernet sauvignon for like $12.99 that's pretty good.

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« Reply #7692 on: July 17, 2020, 09:34:04 AM »
My wife switched us to box wine because we never have enough adults in the house to drink an entire bottle at one time. The problem is that boxed wine is really not very good.

We used to have a VacuVin system and it worked pretty well.  But we do Bota Box, and I don't find the white varietals objectionable, and their Old Vine Zinfandel is also good

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« Reply #7693 on: July 17, 2020, 10:03:38 AM »
My daughter was invited to test by her karate instructor. He offered to let her perform in an empty dojo, cancelling class. My wife took the van to go shopping, so I had to drive my car for the first time in five weeks to get my daughter to the testing. I'm not sure it's worth it to be a two-car family, honestly, but we've saved enough already that selling my car and investing $6,000 won't move the needle for us very much.

Too many cars, too much money. Will you guys accept me?
Only because you are cute :)
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« Reply #7694 on: July 17, 2020, 12:19:35 PM »
@Dicey , I may have that one, small thing right, but I can still find many other places to mess up!

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« Reply #7695 on: July 17, 2020, 02:24:54 PM »
Can’t get through a bottle of wine?  Yeah, um, we never have that problem!

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« Reply #7696 on: July 17, 2020, 07:02:06 PM »
Autocorrect on my phone changes "wtf" into "ETF"

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« Reply #7697 on: July 17, 2020, 07:07:33 PM »
Autocorrect on my phone changes "wtf" into "ETF"
Haha, that is a Mustachian problem indeed!

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« Reply #7698 on: July 17, 2020, 09:57:01 PM »
Autocorrect on my phone changes "wtf" into "ETF"

That is awesome! Congratulations on training the AI properly.

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« Reply #7699 on: July 18, 2020, 01:17:14 AM »
My wife switched us to box wine because we never have enough adults in the house to drink an entire bottle at one time. The problem is that boxed wine is really not very good.

We usually drink one and a half glass at dinner the first day and another glass at dinner a day or two days later. With 2 people, that finishes a bottles. With red wine that goes fine. Yesterday however, I drank white wine for the second day, and it has lost most of it's sparkling elements and tasted a bit dead.