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Re: Mustachian People Problems (just for fun)
« Reply #10550 on: July 29, 2024, 07:44:12 AM »
My HSA is through HSABank, who announced that they were discontinuing the investment portion through Schwab in favor of an in-house investment platform. 

Uh what?! Sounds like I have a new MPP also!!

Ugh, same.  This is the first I've heard of this; thanks for the heads up.
https://hsabank.com/HSABank/Members/HSA-Investment-Options

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« Reply #10551 on: July 29, 2024, 10:48:00 AM »
My HSA is through HSABank, who announced that they were discontinuing the investment portion through Schwab in favor of an in-house investment platform. 

Uh what?! Sounds like I have a new MPP also!!

https://hsabank.com/HSABank/Members/HSA-Investment-Options

Ugh, same.  This is the first I've heard of this; thanks for the heads up.

I saw the e-mail for this too. Not looking forward to dealing with that...

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« Reply #10552 on: July 29, 2024, 10:50:34 AM »
My HSA is through HSABank, who announced that they were discontinuing the investment portion through Schwab in favor of an in-house investment platform. 

Uh what?! Sounds like I have a new MPP also!!

https://hsabank.com/HSABank/Members/HSA-Investment-Options

Ugh, same.  This is the first I've heard of this; thanks for the heads up.

I saw the e-mail for this too. Not looking forward to dealing with that...
I don't know about the HSAbank side, but Fidelity makes it very easy on their end to establish and transfer in an HSA balance.

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« Reply #10553 on: July 29, 2024, 11:18:31 AM »
My HSA is through HSABank, who announced that they were discontinuing the investment portion through Schwab in favor of an in-house investment platform. 

Uh what?! Sounds like I have a new MPP also!!

https://hsabank.com/HSABank/Members/HSA-Investment-Options

Ugh, same.  This is the first I've heard of this; thanks for the heads up.

I saw the e-mail for this too. Not looking forward to dealing with that...
I don't know about the HSAbank side, but Fidelity makes it very easy on their end to establish and transfer in an HSA balance.

Is it normal to take almost a month to make the transfer happen?  I'm being told it would be August 22nd before the Schwab-to-Fidelity move is done.  I did end up deciding to move the IRA to Vanguard and they are saying 7 days. 

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« Reply #10554 on: July 29, 2024, 11:41:44 AM »
@Sugaree - when you say that you'll need to manually move your passthrough contributions over to Fidelity... you mean that instead of investing through the HSA Invest platform, you can manually move regular contributions to Fidelity to invest them?

I like Schwab and would be happy to keep my account there, but I'm unclear on the implications.

Also, I started to "enroll" to see what their options are, but got scared I won't be able to cancel before I'm officially "enrolled". You said you got 75% through the enrollment process... you were able to cancel before the end?

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« Reply #10555 on: July 29, 2024, 12:17:13 PM »
@Sugaree - when you say that you'll need to manually move your passthrough contributions over to Fidelity... you mean that instead of investing through the HSA Invest platform, you can manually move regular contributions to Fidelity to invest them?

I like Schwab and would be happy to keep my account there, but I'm unclear on the implications.

Also, I started to "enroll" to see what their options are, but got scared I won't be able to cancel before I'm officially "enrolled". You said you got 75% through the enrollment process... you were able to cancel before the end?

Yeah, the passthrough contributions will automatically go to HSABank.  There doesn't seem to be any way around that.  It is my understanding that those funds can be transferred to Fidelity instead of being invested with the HSA Invest platform.  I've never done it, so I'm not sure how it's going to work.  I also know that HSABank has been known to close out accounts that get too low and you get stuck with an FSA instead of an HSA and it's a nightmare to unfuck that mess.  Just something to be aware of.  I'd keep at least $100 in one of the HSABank accounts. 

My understanding of what will happen with Schwab is that you can keep your account open, but not add money to it.  My suspicion is that Schwab doesn't really want to deal with HSAs, they just inherited a bunch of them from TDA.  It would be so much easier to grandfather in a bunch of HSAs than to convert them all and deal with all the transfers out.

I was able to cancel before the end. 


Now, I have the MPP that Fidelity isn't syncing up with Empower.  I was hoping to get them all playing nicely together so that my graph wouldn't look weird.
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« Reply #10556 on: July 29, 2024, 04:35:38 PM »
My HSA is through HSABank, who announced that they were discontinuing the investment portion through Schwab in favor of an in-house investment platform. 

Uh what?! Sounds like I have a new MPP also!!

https://hsabank.com/HSABank/Members/HSA-Investment-Options

Ugh, same.  This is the first I've heard of this; thanks for the heads up.

I saw the e-mail for this too. Not looking forward to dealing with that...
I don't know about the HSAbank side, but Fidelity makes it very easy on their end to establish and transfer in an HSA balance.

Is it normal to take almost a month to make the transfer happen?  I'm being told it would be August 22nd before the Schwab-to-Fidelity move is done.  I did end up deciding to move the IRA to Vanguard and they are saying 7 days.

It's been a few years but I believe it took about ten days? This was from Lively to Fidelity.

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« Reply #10557 on: July 30, 2024, 04:38:57 AM »
@sonofsven, Thanks!



I realized this morning that I made a complete rookie mistake with this whole transfer thing.  I completely missed the fact that this would be an in-kind transfer.  So, now I'm going to have Fidelity and Vanguard accounts holding SWTSX.  Not a huge deal as long as I'm holding them, but there will be a fee when I sell them.  It might have been a better idea to sell before I initiated the transfer.  Or not, depending on what the market does in the next 10-15 days. 

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« Reply #10558 on: July 30, 2024, 11:00:11 AM »
My employer switched to HSA Bank this year and I've had a Fidelity HSA open for a few years now. I've been just letting the cash accrue (vs. investing any of it with HSA Bank) and then periodically transfer it out to Fidelity. I initiate the transfer on the Fidelity side, and it generally takes about 2 weeks. When I spoke with an HSA Bank rep they claimed there's no minimum dollar amount necessary to avoid any fees, but he didn't sound very confident in his response, so I typically withdraw all but $100 just in case they do have any minimum.

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« Reply #10559 on: July 30, 2024, 12:52:54 PM »
@turketron the minimum used to be $1000 and people screamed about it.  I'm glad to know that it's easy.  I'm considering letting the cash part from the passthrough accrue on the HSABank side and use that to pay for my kid's braces and throwing the cash I would have been paying for braces into the taxable account.  I know that's not the most efficient way of doing it. 

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« Reply #10560 on: July 31, 2024, 09:01:13 AM »
Ick.  I've never liked any HSA custodian that was ever attached to an employer-sponsored plan that I have been a part of.  (WEX, PayFlex, BenefitWallet, BenefitAccess, WageEquity, and some others I might be forgetting.)  The often have fees, require quite high minimum amounts in cash (earning near 0% APR) before you can invest, have limited investment options, have cumbersome websites that make it difficult to invest, difficult to manage the amount you want deducted from payroll, etc.

I use Fidelity's HSA, and it is awesome.

Once per year, my employer deposits some funds into the HSA account (the one at the custodian that they selected.  They essentially make a partial HSA contribution on my behalf.)  After this happens, I immediately transfer the funds over to my Fidelity HSA.  I opt to NOT deduct my own HSA contributions directly from payroll, and I instead do my own HSA contribution directly to Fidelity.  I know that I miss out on "avoiding the FICA and Medicare taxes" on the amounts that I am contributing this way.  However, since I have been exceeding the maximum FICA wage base amount anyway, the only extra taxes I'm paying is the 1.45% Medicare tax on the contributed amount.  That's a very small price to pay for having better control over my investments, and not having to deal with the payroll-deduction-mess.


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« Reply #10561 on: August 01, 2024, 05:43:03 AM »
My HSA is through HSABank, who announced that they were discontinuing the investment portion through Schwab in favor of an in-house investment platform. 

Uh what?! Sounds like I have a new MPP also!!

https://hsabank.com/HSABank/Members/HSA-Investment-Options

Ugh, same.  This is the first I've heard of this; thanks for the heads up.

I saw the e-mail for this too. Not looking forward to dealing with that...
I don't know about the HSAbank side, but Fidelity makes it very easy on their end to establish and transfer in an HSA balance.

Is it normal to take almost a month to make the transfer happen?  I'm being told it would be August 22nd before the Schwab-to-Fidelity move is done.  I did end up deciding to move the IRA to Vanguard and they are saying 7 days.

The Fidelity transfer showed up this morning.  Actually it's still showing up in Schwab and Fidelity, and my Empower finally connected to Fidelity so it looks like I have a whole lot more money than I actually do, lol.  Still waiting on Vanguard to get the IRA moved. 

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Re: Mustachian People Problems (just for fun)
« Reply #10562 on: August 01, 2024, 07:44:39 AM »
The Fidelity transfer showed up this morning.  Actually it's still showing up in Schwab and Fidelity, and my Empower finally connected to Fidelity so it looks like I have a whole lot more money than I actually do, lol.  Still waiting on Vanguard to get the IRA moved.

Oh I remember when I rolled over my old 401(k) to Fidelity and Personal Capital thought I was a suddenly super rich. Good times :)

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« Reply #10563 on: August 02, 2024, 06:32:57 PM »
The Fidelity transfer showed up this morning.  Actually it's still showing up in Schwab and Fidelity, and my Empower finally connected to Fidelity so it looks like I have a whole lot more money than I actually do, lol.  Still waiting on Vanguard to get the IRA moved.

Oh I remember when I rolled over my old 401(k) to Fidelity and Personal Capital thought I was a suddenly super rich. Good times :)

I had some transfer go the opposite way. It showed as deducted from the sending account before it appeared in the destination account, and there is still this little notch out of the graph where it was "missing" for a day or two.

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« Reply #10564 on: August 02, 2024, 06:41:52 PM »
My MPP: DH, who had a mustache from long before we met, remains stubbornly convinced that his holey socks are sacred.

I have threatened sabotage and abduction at various times, and concluded I have better things to do than to fight that fight.

Recent additions to his sock drawer have been from Darn Tough, so I'm hoping they will last longer and if he ever does wear through them, we can send them in for warranty. He still has an awful lot of miscellaneous old ones in circulation, though.

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« Reply #10565 on: August 03, 2024, 02:34:29 AM »
My MPP: DH, who had a mustache from long before we met, remains stubbornly convinced that his holey socks are sacred.
All praise holey socks! 😜

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« Reply #10566 on: August 03, 2024, 06:09:04 AM »
Just don't allocate him more drawer space. If he wants to fill up his drawer with old, worn out socks, that's his choice. He gets no accommodations.

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« Reply #10567 on: August 03, 2024, 07:28:51 AM »
If a sock covers 60% of the foot it's still fine.  Dipping below 50% and it's time to think about new socks.

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« Reply #10568 on: August 03, 2024, 09:54:01 AM »
If a sock covers 60% of the foot it's still fine.  Dipping below 50% and it's time to think about new socks.
Important info for sock portfolio management

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« Reply #10569 on: August 03, 2024, 10:29:50 AM »
If a sock covers 60% of the foot it's still fine.  Dipping below 50% and it's time to think about new socks.

He tends to wear through at the ball of the foot and the heel, and I'm pretty sure it's just a bit too far from this eyes and his brain to attract much notice. What's sometimes successful is reminding him about the time he got a painful blister walking with no cushion or absorbent friction reduction between those parts of his feet and his shoes.

Just don't allocate him more drawer space. If he wants to fill up his drawer with old, worn out socks, that's his choice. He gets no accommodations.

The drawer hasn't changed in the 10 years we've been married. He's worn through a couple Costco sock bundles, now mostly gone. He doesn't buy himself socks because the drawer is already full of all the motley socks he's still working on wearing out, or something. It's not filling, but it's not emptying very fast.

Anyway, this is here because it's no more a serious problem than "the transaction took a few days and it made my spreadsheet look funny."

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« Reply #10570 on: August 03, 2024, 11:23:50 AM »
I started buying Darn Tough socks about 10 years ago.  Over the years, I accumulated a number of pairs so that I can go 2-3 weeks before I have to do more laundry so I have my Darn Tough socks to wear.  My MPP:  In over 10 years of wearing, I still haven’t worn out a pair of Darn Tough socks, though one sock does have a tiny hole starting on top.  And I rarely wear my other socks anymore because they’re just not as comfortable as the Darn Tough socks.  So my sock drawer is full, and I can’t buy any new socks!  Wait, maybe that’s a feature, not a problem…

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« Reply #10571 on: August 03, 2024, 09:19:16 PM »
I started buying Darn Tough socks about 10 years ago.  Over the years, I accumulated a number of pairs so that I can go 2-3 weeks before I have to do more laundry so I have my Darn Tough socks to wear.  My MPP:  In over 10 years of wearing, I still haven’t worn out a pair of Darn Tough socks, though one sock does have a tiny hole starting on top.  And I rarely wear my other socks anymore because they’re just not as comfortable as the Darn Tough socks.  So my sock drawer is full, and I can’t buy any new socks!  Wait, maybe that’s a feature, not a problem…

A few years back, I got a bunch of Darn Tough socks, then went through and got rid of a lot of the previous ones. I besides those that were sprouting leaks, I tossed anything that drooped or fit badly, which was more of the old ones than it should have been. I mostly wear the Darn Tough anymore. One of many things I like about Darn Tough is that they come in more sizes than, "fits 6–10," which do not fit 6 very well, and probably don't fit 10 too well, either.

I did get to send back a few. I got three pair of the ultra-light running socks, which I wore at least weekly for a year or two. Those came apart right on the joint on either side of the heel. They were all identical, so I wore them until five of the six had the same holes. I paid return postage for the batch, and they sent account credits roughly equivalent to their replacements.

None of their medium or thick socks are anywhere close to failure, and some of them are at least as old and well loved.

DH seems to be okay with his Darn Tough socks so far, but the conversion for him is far from complete.

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« Reply #10572 on: August 03, 2024, 09:30:12 PM »
The only thing I’d add is that I tried to save a few bucks by buying the synthetic fabric instead of the Merino wool. Everything works great with them except that after 4 hours my feet start to itch. I still have the 3 pairs and only use them when I know I won’t have to wear them for more than half the day (e.g. flip flops in the morning, socks for yard work in the afternoon). I’m a Merino fan.

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« Reply #10573 on: August 04, 2024, 11:14:16 AM »
I'd like it if a mismatched sock (or glove) trend took off. It's a drag to throw out two of something because one is holey (or gets lost).

I guess I could wear the mismatched socks around the yard. Or start the trend myself?

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« Reply #10574 on: August 04, 2024, 11:23:04 AM »
I'd like it if a mismatched sock (or glove) trend took off. It's a drag to throw out two of something because one is holey (or gets lost).

I guess I could wear the mismatched socks around the yard. Or start the trend myself?

Or you could just not care if other people care if your socks are mismatched.

Why does it need to be a trend to do it??

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« Reply #10575 on: August 04, 2024, 11:24:38 AM »
I'd like it if a mismatched sock (or glove) trend took off. It's a drag to throw out two of something because one is holey (or gets lost).

I guess I could wear the mismatched socks around the yard. Or start the trend myself?

Or you could just not care if other people care if your socks are mismatched.

Why does it need to be a trend to do it??
+1 - I do this myself.

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« Reply #10576 on: August 04, 2024, 11:37:54 AM »
I used to buy six packs of different socks from the same company, all the same sock but in different patterns in complementary colors. You can mix and match them and it looks fairly intentional. And if you lose one, NBD.

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« Reply #10577 on: August 04, 2024, 12:42:08 PM »
I'd like it if a mismatched sock (or glove) trend took off. It's a drag to throw out two of something because one is holey (or gets lost).

I guess I could wear the mismatched socks around the yard. Or start the trend myself?

Or you could just not care if other people care if your socks are mismatched.

Why does it need to be a trend to do it??
+1 - I do this myself.

I buy all the same sock.  Usually 18 - 24 pairs.  Then I never worry about sorting or matching socks.  Every four or five years when they're all worn out and we're getting down to only seventh wearable pairs I start looking for a new type of sock at reasonable price and repeat.  This fixes the problem of throwing out one good sock when there's a hole in the other one and saves untold time doing laundry.

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« Reply #10578 on: August 04, 2024, 02:13:10 PM »
I’ve worn out Darn Tough socks. When I brought them back to the local reseller, they said “well, nothing lasts forever” and replaced them. So I didn’t lose any money, but I was a bit disappointed in the whole “socks for life” not working out as I had planned.

I love me a good cushioning, so I by even fluffier and dirt cheap merino wool socks from the sports store and mostly wear those. Probably not as sustainable for the sheep or the factory workers as Darn Tough, though.

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« Reply #10579 on: August 04, 2024, 02:16:25 PM »
I’ve worn out Darn Tough socks. When I brought them back to the local reseller, they said “well, nothing lasts forever” and replaced them. So I didn’t lose any money, but I was a bit disappointed in the whole “socks for life” not working out as I had planned.

I love me a good cushioning, so I by even fluffier and dirt cheap merino wool socks from the sports store and mostly wear those. Probably not as sustainable for the sheep or the factory workers as Darn Tough, though.

The sheep need their haircuts.  The more wool used, the more sheep.  The sheep want you to wear their socks.

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« Reply #10580 on: August 04, 2024, 03:33:41 PM »
I’ve worn out Darn Tough socks. When I brought them back to the local reseller, they said “well, nothing lasts forever” and replaced them. So I didn’t lose any money, but I was a bit disappointed in the whole “socks for life” not working out as I had planned.
They were socks for life - you just didn't fulfill your end of the bargain and die. Nice of the local reseller to let you weasel out of it.
Strange of you to be a bit disappointed in it not working out that way, though.

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« Reply #10581 on: August 05, 2024, 12:47:04 AM »
I’ve worn out Darn Tough socks. When I brought them back to the local reseller, they said “well, nothing lasts forever” and replaced them. So I didn’t lose any money, but I was a bit disappointed in the whole “socks for life” not working out as I had planned.
They were socks for life - you just didn't fulfill your end of the bargain and die. Nice of the local reseller to let you weasel out of it.
Strange of you to be a bit disappointed in it not working out that way, though.

Haha, thanks for the laugh on a Monday morning on my way to the office! I had expected more of a blah blah with the local reseller instead of such a smooth swap, but would indeed have been even more disappointed if he had tried to murder me to prove the marketing claim right.

Weirdly, the old pairs were both being used by me as spouse's larger size pair felt a bit too tight for their liking, but the new (supposedly identical ones) feel more stretchy, so spouse has now started wearing theirs. So I guess that's 1.5 or 2 lifetimes, then? Assuming these ones hold up and/or the local reseller continues playing along.


The sheep need their haircuts.  The more wool used, the more sheep.  The sheep want you to wear their socks.

I know, but I (have been influenced by marketing to?) believe that one should favour non-mulesing merino. And I really doubt my fluffy 3 €/pair socks are that ethical. Yet I still buy them. Come to think of it, they've held up at least as well as the Darn Thoughs... From a sustainability point of view, the ideal would be to buy some socks, wear them forever, and then they would preferably be compostable once I'm dead unless someone wants to inherit them (yuck). But I think all these different versions are a merino-synthetic blend.

My MPP seems to be that in these times of war on my continent, the climate crisis, civil unrest in various corners of the world (including where I have friends), and whiffs of stock market crashes due to recession fears, I seem to think a lot about socks.

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« Reply #10582 on: August 05, 2024, 01:04:36 AM »
Update: two grocery bags mostly full of holey socks are now out of the house. None of them came out of the drawer today.* They'd been previously culled** and were sitting there in a pile for some time, waiting for someone to go through them and sort out some other, donation-worthy stuff. We got around to it today. As best I can tell, there's no such thing as textile recycling here, so they're in the trash bin.

*I am still trying to figure out why his sock drawer is full, when so much more stuff has apparently come out of it than has gone in. I'm beginning to suspect there are sock reserves somewhere that I have not accounted for.
**I am still trying to figure out exactly how big the hole(s) need to be for DH to agree that it's time for a sock to go, given that it does seem to have happened quite a few times before. Even with all these old ones gone, I often see skin poking through where it should not be when he puts his feet up.

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« Reply #10583 on: August 05, 2024, 05:21:48 AM »
I'd like it if a mismatched sock (or glove) trend took off. It's a drag to throw out two of something because one is holey (or gets lost).

I guess I could wear the mismatched socks around the yard. Or start the trend myself?
I have a lot of extension cords, air hoses, water hoses, etc, and I have found old socks are ideal for using as a tie to secure them.
I quit wearing socks last year because it was too difficult to put them on (bad hip), as well as any shoes with laces.
It's ok because I can't walk far, either!

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« Reply #10584 on: August 05, 2024, 07:31:52 AM »
**I am still trying to figure out exactly how big the hole(s) need to be for DH to agree that it's time for a sock to go, given that it does seem to have happened quite a few times before. Even with all these old ones gone, I often see skin poking through where it should not be when he puts his feet up.

I think it's a guy thing. My Dad likes to tell the story where he would visit a customer at their home, take his shoes off, and realize his socks had a big patch on them, which wasn't exactly a professional look. Because my (maternal) grandmother would take them to mend them* and she was a practical sock mender**, not a subtle one. So that's how he learned to throw away his holey socks. I do remember those days, and got my fair share of mended kiddie socks and clothes, so that was well after he got married to my Mom.

Just so I don't make him sound ungrateful, he also said recently "I wish she was still around to fight about mending my socks".


*I think the word is darn? ahah, tough. Nevermind.
** Yes, that's a thing.
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Re: Mustachian People Problems (just for fun)
« Reply #10585 on: August 05, 2024, 09:59:30 AM »
I hate to keep harping on this transfer stuff, but guess who didn't realize that fractional shares of VT/VTI don't transfer to Fidelity has about $275 still stuck with Schwab's HSA?  And guess who also got dividends in her IRA three days after the transfer went through and thus didn't transfer?  And also, guess who forgot to have cash positions to cover the transfer fees and transferred -$50 to Vanguard?  Oof.  This is one of those learning experiences, right?


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« Reply #10586 on: August 05, 2024, 11:16:50 PM »
I hate to keep harping on this transfer stuff, but guess who didn't realize that fractional shares of VT/VTI don't transfer to Fidelity has about $275 still stuck with Schwab's HSA?  And guess who also got dividends in her IRA three days after the transfer went through and thus didn't transfer?  And also, guess who forgot to have cash positions to cover the transfer fees and transferred -$50 to Vanguard?  Oof.  This is one of those learning experiences, right?

How long ago? When I transferred my accounts (brokerage and Roth IRA) from VG to Fidelity, fractional shares were sold and transferred a few days after the main transfer was completed. Same for residual dividends/interests.

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« Reply #10587 on: August 06, 2024, 10:22:24 PM »
This may be more of a mustachian people perk for me. Does it count if it's only a Problem for the salescritter?

Someone called me this afternoon on behalf of my insurance agent, but it wasn't his usual staff. It went to voicemail and I returned the call within about 5 minutes. Guy had to look up what he'd called me for, which is weird, because what the called me for was to see if I needed any life insurance or mortgage protection insurance. All I can figure is he'd gone on to the next person and needed to check again what I didn't already have.

My mustachian people perk: I have no more mortgage, and even I don't depend on my earned income anymore.

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« Reply #10588 on: August 07, 2024, 07:04:56 AM »
I hate to keep harping on this transfer stuff, but guess who didn't realize that fractional shares of VT/VTI don't transfer to Fidelity has about $275 still stuck with Schwab's HSA?  And guess who also got dividends in her IRA three days after the transfer went through and thus didn't transfer?  And also, guess who forgot to have cash positions to cover the transfer fees and transferred -$50 to Vanguard?  Oof.  This is one of those learning experiences, right?

How long ago? When I transferred my accounts (brokerage and Roth IRA) from VG to Fidelity, fractional shares were sold and transferred a few days after the main transfer was completed. Same for residual dividends/interests.

Transfer went through on the 2nd.  Both accounts still showing fractional shares and residual dividends.  In fact, there are a few more dividends that were just added to the IRA.  Right now, the plan is to sell off the fractional shares in the HSA so that they are held as cash.  Sometime next month, everything that's in cash will sweep into my HSABank cash account and that should close out the HSA with Schwab.  I'm also going to hold tight with the IRA to see if those residuals eventually make it to Vanguard.  If not, I may take the tax hit and just throw it into my kid's UTMA, which is the only account staying at Schwab.  So, all that to say that I'm going to see if this is one of those situations where procrastination does, in fact, fix things.  We're talking less than $300 combined, so I'm more concerned with just getting the accounts closed than I am missing out on gains.
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« Reply #10589 on: August 10, 2024, 10:58:17 AM »
We don't give much thought to payday other than to verify that everything went where it was supposed to (some taxes, but mostly 401k/MBR). Somehow I was convinced that we bought in after last week's blip, until I got a paystub notification yesterday. So sad we missed it...

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Re: Mustachian People Problems (just for fun)
« Reply #10590 on: August 11, 2024, 06:57:44 AM »
I'd like it if a mismatched sock (or glove) trend took off. It's a drag to throw out two of something because one is holey (or gets lost).

I guess I could wear the mismatched socks around the yard. Or start the trend myself?
I have a lot of extension cords, air hoses, water hoses, etc, and I have found old socks are ideal for using as a tie to secure them.
I quit wearing socks last year because it was too difficult to put them on (bad hip), as well as any shoes with laces.
It's ok because I can't walk far, either!
I have ankle length socks so not long enough for binding.  But, I have a boatload of velcro cable ties (like the plastic ones but reusable, and pratically from from a otherwise useless company giftcard) and they are awesome! From cable binding to making sure the window can't blow open and everything in between :D


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Re: Mustachian People Problems (just for fun)
« Reply #10591 on: August 11, 2024, 09:29:30 AM »
We don't give much thought to payday other than to verify that everything went where it was supposed to (some taxes, but mostly 401k/MBR). Somehow I was convinced that we bought in after last week's blip, until I got a paystub notification yesterday. So sad we missed it...

We've apparently become so complacent about payday that when DW's employer accidentally paid twice we didn't even notice until they sent her and email warning her not to spend it as it would be withdrawn that night. I probably wouldn't notice until the next time i wandered through the transactions looking for mistakes or fraud.

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« Reply #10592 on: August 12, 2024, 11:53:38 PM »
Inside one of my retirement accounts, there's a transaction that amounts to "swap the money in the ABC Total Market Index Fund into the Total Market ABC Index Fund." I don't think this did anything but change the name slightly.

The MPP: Empower is counting the transaction out of the old version toward last month's cash flow without counting the transaction into the new version, so the graph looks like I spent a six-figure amount.

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« Reply #10593 on: August 13, 2024, 12:12:02 PM »
Inside one of my retirement accounts, there's a transaction that amounts to "swap the money in the ABC Total Market Index Fund into the Total Market ABC Index Fund." I don't think this did anything but change the name slightly.

The MPP: Empower is counting the transaction out of the old version toward last month's cash flow without counting the transaction into the new version, so the graph looks like I spent a six-figure amount.

If this was a workplace plan, they probably swapped out what fund they are using. Sorry about the tracking. Our checking account tracking feature works the opposite way. Anything we transfer in is income, but transfers out to financial institutions are not spending. That leads to some interesting results when you move money through checking rather than directly linking other accounts....

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« Reply #10594 on: August 13, 2024, 07:06:51 PM »
Inside one of my retirement accounts, there's a transaction that amounts to "swap the money in the ABC Total Market Index Fund into the Total Market ABC Index Fund." I don't think this did anything but change the name slightly.

The MPP: Empower is counting the transaction out of the old version toward last month's cash flow without counting the transaction into the new version, so the graph looks like I spent a six-figure amount.

If this was a workplace plan, they probably swapped out what fund they are using. Sorry about the tracking. Our checking account tracking feature works the opposite way. Anything we transfer in is income, but transfers out to financial institutions are not spending. That leads to some interesting results when you move money through checking rather than directly linking other accounts....

That's what I figure. I may have ignored an email titled, "important disclosures about your funds" or some such.

It's so common that Empower does stuff like that, that I saw that I'd "spent" $x00,000 and went straight for the transactions screen on the hunt for what got mixed up this time, with scarcely a moment of, "wait, what?"

They haven't asked me the generic survey question lately, but how likely I'd be to "recommend Empower to a friend or colleague" would depend a great deal on what that imaginary friend was trying to accomplish and how well I thought they'd handle this kind of weirdness. If they were just starting to invest or get hold of their spending, it  wouldn't be my choice. Personally, I don't spend much time on the cash flow report and don't need to, but it's been handy for highlighting stuff with excess fees, among other things.

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« Reply #10595 on: August 18, 2024, 11:41:12 AM »

They haven't asked me the generic survey question lately, but how likely I'd be to "recommend Empower to a friend or colleague" would depend a great deal on what that imaginary friend was trying to accomplish and how well I thought they'd handle this kind of weirdness. If they were just starting to invest or get hold of their spending, it wouldn't be my choice. Personally, I don't spend much time on the cash flow report and don't need to, but it's been handy for highlighting stuff with excess fees, among other things.

They have since sent me exactly that survey, and I used the comment boxes to suggest that transfers, rebalancing, etc. getting handled as an expenditure, especially without the corresponding deposit or repurchase, doesn't make for a useful cash flow or budgeting tool. I doubt they'll get right to work on it for me, but at least I can point out the problem.

My new MPP: in a book I'm reading, there's a list of work-related expenses people may hope to reduce or leave behind when retiring: car maintenance and commuting costs, tolls, parking, work wardrobe and dry cleaning, lunches out, and so on.

I long ago eliminated virtually all of these costs while still working. I bike to work, bring lunches from home, and dress casually at work in clothing I keep a long time, some of it secondhand.

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« Reply #10596 on: August 20, 2024, 03:03:06 PM »
Our credit card was compromised, which is a hassle (it was my husband's card so he'll have to straighten it out) but in the meantime the fraudulent charges are just sitting there in YNAB taunting me!

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« Reply #10597 on: August 21, 2024, 10:06:24 AM »
Our credit card was compromised, which is a hassle (it was my husband's card so he'll have to straighten it out) but in the meantime the fraudulent charges are just sitting there in YNAB taunting me!
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« Reply #10598 on: August 22, 2024, 12:59:21 PM »
My label maker was missing for 2 months in the back of a closet and I missed out on properly labeling my 5% cash back cards when the quarterly switch came July 1. It flows downstream to other cards that have the "get X% back" on 1 category and its been impossible to remember what is what lately. I logged in and one of our 5% cards hasn't been used at all, which is very non optimized :(
The cards are now labeled and hopefully I can be a good little point earning cog.

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« Reply #10599 on: August 27, 2024, 10:58:13 AM »
My label maker was missing for 2 months in the back of a closet and I missed out on properly labeling my 5% cash back cards when the quarterly switch came July 1. It flows downstream to other cards that have the "get X% back" on 1 category and its been impossible to remember what is what lately. I logged in and one of our 5% cards hasn't been used at all, which is very non optimized :(
The cards are now labeled and hopefully I can be a good little point earning cog.

Oh, that’s a bummer.  Glad your label maker turned up.

 

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