You need to find your financial balance point. For us it was alot more money (our yardstick) but pretty average things. We won't retire in our 30s but we will retire comfortably from jobs that haven't been all that stressful. We do have plenty of savings and our retirement plans are fully funded. What we found was having savings brought us more happiness than shiny things that we'd certainly worry too much about.
We figured this out while our kids were young. We could flip out every time junior had a spill (like people we know) or we could accept that the baby was more important to us than the rug now many years old. Clean it up, don't psychologically scar the kid over spilled milk, and happy family life continues. Consequently we have a nice place to live but it isn't very big compared to the Joneses and "Better Home and Garden" have never showed up for a magazine photo shoot. We keep it clean but nobody will ever be impressed with our things. And that is fine.
When we were making $30K we always felt our finances were very delicate. It would be okay if nothing broke or one of us didn't get sick or if we could find the next job before the current one became unbearable. There seemed to be alot of competition for those jobs b/c anyone could do them. So we began schooling ourselves (military, DIY, university, multiple degrees in the end) and came out the other side making good money many years later. Much more autonomy at our jobs. Much more "flex" in what/when/how we do our work.
I recommend you work towards a trade or university degree. Consider an enlistment in the military (Navy, CG or Air force). Will require alot of long term thinking. Like a marathon run - not sprinting to the finish line but pacing yourself. Make choices that don't impede this pace - aka debt, unstable relationships, walking away from jobs when you can't afford to do so, self-destructive habits, etc. Read, read, read the books suggested in the various forum discussions here.