the risk is too great for MOST of us.
This right here is the error. The risk is not too great for you (or anyone else). It is the size of the loss if the risk materializes that may well be too great.
Your projected cost is (1) risk of event happening multiplied by (2) loss if risk materializes.
Insurance companies price that risk better than you do, and they charge you a premium for insuring against that risk.
If you can't bear the loss if the risk happens, then yes, you should absolutely have insurance. For most people, a house is one of those "can't bear the loss" items. But if you can bear the loss, then no, you should not have insurance.
You can see this more easily in an example that is the reverse of insurance.
(1) Would you pay $1 for a 50% chance to make $1.50 (or zero)?
(2) Would you pay $100 for a 50% chance to make $150?
(3) Would you pay $1,000 for a 50% chance to make $1,500.
(4) Would you pay $100,000 for a 50% chance to make $150,000?
The answer should be no in every circumstance because the expected outcome is never worth the cost times the probability of the payout.
Now go back to insurance, and don't use the term house.
Would you insure against a $100 loss if the odds were the same as (2) above?
Would you insure against a $1,000 loss if the odds were the same as (3) above?
Would you insurance against a $100,000 loss if the odds were the same as (4) above?
The answer will depend entirely on whether you can bear the loss--which has nothing to do with the risk of occurrence.
The fact that a house is involved, and a house seems like a big deal, is skewing the analysis for most people. Do you think Warren Buffet or Bill Gates should insure their house? Probably no concern because you know they can eat the loss. MMM is the same way because a $400k loss (and really much less than that--many property tax bills distinguish between the value of the land and the value of the improvements--e.g., house) would have no impact on him whatsoever. Zero. That's what it means to be FI with an additional $400k per year coming in from his blog.
The fact that doesn't describe the situation for most people doesn't change the math in any way. It just changes the ability of the person to absorb the loss. Because most people can't absorb the loss of their house, they get insurance, and that's the right thing to do in that situation.
Finally, I wasn't picking on Best Buy in particular. It was just an example of what is effectively insurance for a low-priced item. Most people intuitively understand that doesn't make sense. It highlights the point that it's the size of the potential loss that matters, not the likelihood of the loss occurring.