To those that keep poo-pooing the idea...
Let's put yourself in a different state of mind. Here is the initial situation:
- You are a dual income family, making good money
- You have reasonable debts that are being paid off (1 mustachian car loan, if there is such a thing, 1 student loan that is being paid aggressively, and a mortgage)
- You are saving 15% to your 401k, 15% to your ESPP (with a 25% match), and have approximately $15k in your ESPP that will vest in about a year
- You have a $10k emergency fund, and at age 28, retirement accounts totaling roughly 1x your annual income
All of this is responsible if not mustachian, no? The only thing I would have done differently was saving to my HSA more aggressively, it was trivial at this point. Ok, now the event:
- You suddenly have a $7k doctor/hospital/ambulance bill in front of you. You were planning on it being $1,500
- Just as suddenly, you have to pay for a funeral. Despite shopping around slightly, in your grief it isn't an easy thing to do. You do the best you can, but are still stuck with a $3k bill
- Because of the traumatic events above, your family loses approximately 1/2 of their income
- The dishwasher catches on fire. The house and kitchen, being the cheapest house you could find in the neighborhood, are a poor setup and not conducive to washing your own dishes for the post-op woman, so you need a new dishwasher
- This happened in late November, and you'll need ongoing psychiatric treatment which may or may not be covered by insurance, and as the new year is about to start will need to hit your deductible and out of pocket starting from $0 in January
Ok, so what is the best thing to do here? I see the following options:
- Use the emergency fund drawing it to $0
- Sell the house and move to a cheaper place- keeping in mind that you'll lose money on it due to closing costs (you haven't been there that long), and you've just gone through 2 of the most difficult things to deal with in life (loss of job, death) and would be willingly adding a 3rd
- Put it all on a credit card, get points, then transfer to a 0% intro APR and 0% transfer fee card, and proceed to pay the card down over the next year - at which time, approximately $15k will vest in your ESPP which you can sell (with long term capital gains tax)
Obviously there are other options. I could have negotiated with the hospital, but they basically offered a 3 month repayment plan, or they'd send it to collections where I would risk it hitting my credit report (they said it might). Collections was only offering me 12 months to repay it. I'm sure I could have negotiated for more time, but why? Ultimately I chose the credit card route. So far it has cost me a total of $28 one time in a late fee because I got a new phone and forgot to transfer the reminder. Not bad overall. Stupid for the $28, and I kick myself for it, but not bad overall.
Ultimately I didn't want to drive the emergency fund to $0, we were now a 1 income family.
What would you have done, other than start saving to the HSA earlier than I did? Because you can't go back in time and do that.