Women's reproductive rights are being eroded in many parts of the US. Perhaps that thought comforts you.
No maam. What I want is more reproductive rights for fathers, not less for women with big daddy government stepping in to twist their arm in the matter. Its not right a man should have to man up for an accidental pregnancy the woman wants to keep even if he doesn't, but women don't have to woman up for an accidental pregnancy the father wants to keep if she doesn't.
And this extends to issues beyond abortions. A good friend of mine I work with got a woman pregnant when they were both 18. They both wanted the baby...she decided she didn't want him. In his state custody rights don't come with child support...so he ended up legally on the hook for child support with no visitation rights at all. At the time he was making 240 a week and 60 was going to her plus he had to provide health insurance for the kid...which he was totally ok with, he'd have given more if he could afford it. Once the child support was settled, he asked the court to appoint him a lawyer so he could fight for visitation rights. The court told him lawyers are only appointed in criminal cases...for family court he had to pay for his own. He was living off 180 dollars a week...there was no way he could afford one.
It wasn't until years later when he worked his way into a higher paying job and could afford to spend thousands upon thousands of dollars in lawyer and court fees, because his child's mother came from money and was willing to fight him tooth and nail just to make his life miserable, that he got to meet his own daughter. Keep in mind...this guy is an upstanding citizen...he has no criminal record other than a bullshit restraining order the wife had placed on him because she felt threatened...even though he never laid a finger on her and he was never charged or convicted of actually doing anything, is well known in his community as he is a volunteer emt/fireman, and has since been happily married for 8 years to a woman with 2 kids that he has been raising like his own...there is literally no reason whatsoever to deny this guy access to his own daughter. The first time this guy met his daughter she was 12, it was only done with a lawyer as a witness while sitting in the lawyers office, and the girl pretty much called him a piece of shit who never paid child support and never wanted to meet her...obviously all lies as he was never late on a child support payment and had kept records to prove it, and the only reason he hadn't been there for her since she was an infant was because her mother legally blocked him.
So like I said...do I think its a win because women get less rights and the government steps in to call the shots? No maam, I do not. Do I want to see fathers have more rights considering our current laws give women all the power? Yes maam, I do. Stories like the above should never happen...fathers should never be denied their children any more than a woman should ever be forced to have an abortion...and to be quite blunt about it my friend was lucky he got to meet her daughter when she was 12, because there are other men out there put in a situation where the mother aborts the baby against their will and they never get to meet their child.