I agree.
My daughter is two and a half. She's clearly very bright, creative, and active. But, I'm amazed already about how much I hear from others about her "formal education." People quiz her regarding letters and numbers, ask when we're sending her to preschool like they are concerned for her well-being (DH SAH with her), and ask what formal activities she participates in.
Ummmm, she's 2.5! Sheesh. There's plenty of time for that later. She has barely even started to be interested in imaginative role-play type play, why the rush to move past that already? I mean, two years ago she wasn't even crawling yet.