tyd450 ,
Hope I wasn't too critical earlier. It's just, now that FIRE is in the mainstream discussion, I commonly read things that distill down to 'FIRE is a dumb idea, instead you should reevaluate your spending, save and invest more, improve your income (or don't if the tradeoff is worth it), and also focus on what makes you happy'. In other words, there are only so many ways to live a financially-secure life so I fail to see how FIRE is damningly worse than other personal finance approaches. Where I think the friction occurs is perhaps more that specific behaviors (like frugality), and attitudes that are correctly, or falsely, attributed to the FIRE community. But FIRE is just a mental model that is build on top of a set of equations.
Thanks for sharing your thoughts. By the way, I didn't recognize the first time I read that you had said you are using your job to work towards a goal. That's amazing. I think alot of people are just working because.. that's how bills are paid. Having a goal in mind keeps everything more tolerable. Also, from what others on the forum have posted, I think it is commonplace to not put up with tiny work BS once you are closer to FI. I myself have become more apathetic and career driven (in a way that I don't want to do the things that might ensure a long, successful career. Now I just pursue building professional skillsets that I want to do because its what makes me happy at work).
I also think Arebelspy was correct. I hop back into thinking about FIRE whenever life circumstance change and necessitate a reevaluation. Otherwise I'm on autopilot. Personally, I'm the INTJ type so in every arena of my life I'm going to spend too much time planning and not enough time living. I think FIRE kind of selects for those types of people but it shouldn't reflect on the utility of the principle's behind FIRE. Therefore I reject the critique that FIRE emphasizes putting off today for tomorrow.