Great job getting such a great job.
Go slow with adding to your fixed expenses; if you come to hate your situation but have a monthly overhead of $20,000 before that next trip to Paris, you're stuck. That kind of overhead might seem unreal at this moment, but all you need to do is buy a horse that you fool yourself into thinking is an investment (riding lessons, outfits for competition, stabling, feeding, vet bills, travel).
Thank you! I can't believe my luck on this one.
........we already lived off around 40% of my take home pay. We've been so frugal and simple for over a decade now.........
......huge raise is really messing with my mind. I'm trying to not let this money change me. But I'm often in situations where I can't tell if I'm being reasonable or not. Like, how can I still feel bothered by spending an extra $50 on something when my takehome pay is $30k a month?
I think we are going to focus on paying off our mortgage really early
So you're living on about $3,000 a month and sometimes you think of splurging at dinner, or on a movie date instead of Netflix, or on a bottle of wine 2 shelves up.
You're also thinking of knocking out your mortgage.
- Yes, splurge. Ask your spouse for 3 suggestions and you'll also give 3. You might be surprised by what you find.
- Murder your mortgage and consider if you even want that house anymore. It's okay to move, and it's okay if it's different in either direction.
If you're wondering
what kind of good can I do with the cash? First, keep it small, but I'd say:
- Hire some people (suggestions: cleaners, lawn care, music or art lessons, personal trainer)
- Help someone in your community by fixing their (porch, windows, gutters......)
- Take someone grocery shopping; big shopping that includes cleaning supplies and personal care stuff because they are likely scrimping on those areas if they need this kind of help
- Buy someone a tire when all they can afford is a patch.
In the next 24 months bring on a protege or a group of them. It took my dad 3 tries to find the right guy, but that kid out of college in 1999 was a partner in his firm in 2008. These young professionals are going to have a unique opportunity to be in the vicinity of your integrity, knowledge, skill, passion, commitment, and personal sense of incredible fortune (the luck you mentioned). Build this team to not only become wealthy, but to do something phenomenal, like pass on their integrity, knowledge, skill, passion, commitment, and personal sense of incredible fortune.
Thoughts?