My total spending was over 70,000 last year for my wife and I. Our credit card had $58,000 (paid off in full multiple times monthly). That did include an engagement ring, wedding, week and a half of vacation/travel over the wedding, 1 week trip to Mexico last spring, $1500 dog surgery, $2000 in car repairs, amongst a ton of other things. Take all those out, and the card probably would've had closer to $35,000. That still doesn't include truck payment, 5th wheel payment (we live full time in 5th wheel, need truck to pull it) plus RV space, and insurance. All those items aren't paid on my credit card. Damn near everything else is.
We had a lot come up last year and I paid more than most here would for our wedding and engagement ring, which I don't regret one bit. We had a blast with all our closest friends and family.
The good news is we still saved around $60,000 or so on top of all our spending, which is solid considering my wife didn't work 7 months of the year, and only made $14/hr when she did.