I agree with you, @mathlete. A couple of other things:
1. I think a lot of people still don't know people that have had, and esp have died of, COVID and that affects their perceptions of how careful they need to be. Given that it has a disproportionately deadly impact on low income and people of color, the people that "matter" in our society are even less likely to be exposed to someone that has had a truly negative outcome. I myself only really *know* one family of people that caught it (my own sister) and they all came out just fine and themselves believe that everyone's being overly careful and won't get the vaccines. So, I totally agree that people should be taking things seriously when they hear about freezer trucks and no ICU beds, but a lot of people just don't until it affects them personally. The mobilization in WWII affected...most? families directly. COVID simply has not.
2. This is really an extension of the above, but I feel like COVID is in this sweet spot (or, actually, anti-sweet spot) where it is causing horrific numbers of death and (possibly) disability, but is also not quite deadly enough. Like, we all expected a pandemic to be like the movies, where everybody is in full-time terror and working on it, and there's no time to be living any sort of normal life still. There are no movies about a pandemic that only kills 1-3% of people that get it and for some people they never feel almost a single symptom. It's like the perfect virus to cause a ton of damage because of how it lulls a lot of people into not worrying. I've long suspected that even a slightly more deadly & contagious virus would actually kill a lot fewer people because it would actually *scare* people enough to get them to take the precautions that matter in reducing risk.
Fellow Americans; what do you think is at the heart of our refusal to take this seriously? I have a couple of theories.
1.) Bad leadership. President Trump was abysmal of course. But it's not just him. Something I think about a lot is how state wide officials in Texas targeted and reverse El Paso lockdowns while the city was having to call in the national guard and freezer trucks to handle all the bodies. I think of the Texas Lt. Governor saying that old people should be willing to die for the economy (false dichotomy, but neither here nor there). And of course, the CDC/WHO deserves some blame for being hot & cold on masks.
2.) The "Invisible Enemy". Maybe it's bordering on toxic old people worship to continue calling the young adults of WWII the "greatest generation", but they did defeat violent nationalism and fascism in two different theaters of war. Perhaps people think there is more dignity in men storming French beaches and Women stepping up into the workforce than there is in staying home and wearing masks. Being careful about COVID is certainly less glamorous, there's not doubt there.
3.) People are just different now than they were back then. More selfish. More irrationally distrustful of authority. Etc.
I think 1.) and 2.) are the best bets. Any amount of 3.) is pretty unfortunate.
These are all interesting thoughts. My dad was a hard man, with a hard life. Born in 1926. Lived through the depression. Stormed the beaches of Normandy at 18. Never ever talked about the war. (I learned he landed at Normandy a year ago!) Married, had kids, wife died when she was 29 leaving him with 6 kids. Gave two up for adoption. Was a single parent for 7 years.
He was also not a very nice man, after he remarried. So, hard, tough, "suck it up", yes. But there were definitely disadvantages that came along with that, and my mom (and his daughters) suffered for it.
As far as people not knowing others with COVID, I really think that's still a thing. (Like Meghan McCain suddenly coming to a realization on paid maternity leave). My BIL's father flew on a plane on vacation over Thanksgiving, died of COVID. My FIL has not been isolating...he and his girlfriend have friends, play golf, you know - maybe they dialed it back a tiny bit. It's not like he didn't know it was a thing - for crying out loud, his son-in-law's dad just DIED for crying out loud. And his sister was on a ventilator!! But...his GF got COVID and he got COVID and they were going to bars and the club...now he's been in and out of the hospital (currently in) and...goodness I only hope he realizes how fucking serious it is. Like, we barely leave the house except to walk or grocery shop. And now my DH asks me "if my dad dies, do I fly to the funeral?" Um, that's a hard no.
There are still people who ignore the doctors, and say "there aren't that many people in the hospital" and ... god people are stupid.