Not lazy. Unmotivated is a better word, I do everything I have to, but not more. I will never get the employer of the year award, but I don't feel bad sbout it. Others need that more than I do. Plus I don't have to work, my husband's income more than covers our expenses, I chose to work, as I like the added security of an extra income and it gets us much closer to financial independence.
I am also getting cheeky. Once I told the big boss who was having a bad day and picking fights, that you know what, I don't have to be here, I chose to be here, but I don't have to put up with crap. She's been avoiding me ever since.
Mind you, I usually respond to a bad week at work with increasing my retirement contributions and slashing the budget. My food budget is now down to 130 a week as a result of some work related nonsense.