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« Reply #1550 on: March 03, 2017, 04:55:09 PM »
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« Reply #1551 on: March 03, 2017, 06:19:11 PM »


All in good jest :-)
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« Reply #1552 on: March 03, 2017, 07:27:31 PM »
Glad to see we have some Ingress players on here. Personally, I'm resistance all the way, but we do have a good mix of both here at HQ.

Are you active?  I'm curious if we know each other by agent name.

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« Reply #1553 on: March 03, 2017, 07:41:45 PM »

Cool, my wife loved ingress and we both play Pokemon Go(she is a little more active than I am XD)

As for your situation it is definitely understandable to feel like you should stay for the vesting and not miss out on the money and this will likely be completely up to yourself. If you have more than enough to comfortably FIRE with your current level of spending and current stache then you don't need the extra money and the only reason to stay is because you enjoy it or feel some kind of responsibility to stay till a certain point. If however it gets to the point where you don't enjoy the work then don't let golden handcuffs hold you back.

Trust me, I'm only here because it's still fun. If that ends I'm gone.

One thing that gives me pause is the Republicans' promise to repeal the ACA. I have a pre-existing condition which will make insurance either really expensive or impossible to get if they get their way. So I can use the extra money as a buffer in case health care becomes an issue.

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« Reply #1554 on: March 03, 2017, 10:32:14 PM »
Haven't been playing too much lately because of work, but I'm NumberSix, Lvl 15 Resistance.

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« Reply #1555 on: March 04, 2017, 08:57:55 AM »
Yesterday I overheard a conversation between a coworker (C) and one of the housekeeping staff (H). H mentioned that he has 3 working days until retirement, at which point I stuck my nose into the conversation to congratulate him. I had never seen him smile before, but he sure was smiling when we talked about his retirement! I wouldn't call him young, but he looks like he might be a few years younger than "normal" retirement age.

The FU money part of it is that after he walked away, C told me that H had several properties around town and had decided to retire after our company cut the housekeepers' hourly rate almost in half. I would like to think that he is a closet Mustachian. And I love the fact that just because someone empties trash cans for a living doesn't mean they don't know what they're doing with their money!

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« Reply #1556 on: March 04, 2017, 10:11:05 AM »
Yesterday I overheard a conversation between a coworker (C) and one of the housekeeping staff (H). H mentioned that he has 3 working days until retirement, at which point I stuck my nose into the conversation to congratulate him. I had never seen him smile before, but he sure was smiling when we talked about his retirement! I wouldn't call him young, but he looks like he might be a few years younger than "normal" retirement age.

The FU money part of it is that after he walked away, C told me that H had several properties around town and had decided to retire after our company cut the housekeepers' hourly rate almost in half. I would like to think that he is a closet Mustachian. And I love the fact that just because someone empties trash cans for a living doesn't mean they don't know what they're doing with their money!
I still remember the 2-3 conversations I had with an aide at the hospital when my first son was born.  I can't remember if she was housekeeping or Food service (so long ago).  She and her husband had raised 3 kids, worked hard in their manual labor jobs, and at that point, owned 3 homes in Santa Barbara - free and clear.  Buy a fixer, fix it up, rent it out.  Lather, rinse, repeat.

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« Reply #1557 on: March 05, 2017, 05:33:39 AM »
  Buy a fixer, fix it up, rent it out.  Lather, rinse, repeat.

 "Lather, rinse, repeat".
 I always thought that 'repeat' part was just a way for Head and Shoulders to double their sales. :-)

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« Reply #1558 on: March 05, 2017, 05:54:46 AM »
"Lather, rinse, repeat".
 I always thought that 'repeat' part was just a way for Head and Shoulders to double their sales. :-)
A bit like the increase the diameter of the toothpaste nozzle story...
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« Reply #1559 on: March 06, 2017, 07:23:08 AM »
I work in corporate training and have hit a couple walls/ceilings when hiring or promotion committees decide they want "someone who knows the business and has good training instincts" over "someone who can mine the expertise of people who know the business to design strong learning experiences." I was hired into my current department by Old Manager, who was in the latter camp and was laid off almost a year ago in an org-wide restructuring. New Manager (new to me, new to management, and new to our department) was brought in shortly after and - after getting his bearings for six months - decided that there wasn't room in this town for two of us who didn't come up through the ranks in our department.

So I've been in the job for two years with strong performance reviews (including my most recent review from New Manager himself) and New Manager decides to give me a hiring exercise to prove that I have the knowledge of our business to keep my job for a third year. Who will judge this exercise? Not him, because he's more of a noob than I am. This exercise will be judged by a peer of his who knows our department's business inside and out and will not know the circumstances of their judgment (namely, that my job is on the line). Having worked in this department for two years, I am confident I can do the exercise. My first move after getting written confirmation about the conditions of this asinine assignment is to reach out to HR and ask if this qualifies as a restructuring of my role. I was hired to do X - I've done X. It sounds like New Manager wants Y. HR encourages me to work with New Manager to reframe this exercise as a development opportunity rather than a high-stakes test. New Manager balks at any questioning of his exercise. He says he spent a lot of time dreaming up this assignment and was thoughtful in its development, messaging, and roll-out to me.  I now have all the information I need to know that this job I'm in - under New Manager - will not end successfully for me, regardless of how well I jump through this hoop he's "thoughtfully" constructed.

Thankfully, I've got a healthy 'stache (around 6x annual expenses) and a supportive partner whose job is secure, so I give notice and....here's the epic bit....one week later HR comes back and reclassifies my transition as a role restructuring. I'm leaving next month, will get paid out for 5-6 weeks of PTO in my last check, and am likely looking at 3 months severance pay given my tenure with the organization. I've got a clean narrative for my departure and am essentially pulling a paycheck through July/August. While my ego doesn't like the circumstances behind this transition, my 'stache is telling her to get over herself.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1560 on: March 07, 2017, 09:50:23 AM »
After graduating college, my wife and I moved to Seattle with the intent of working until we had enough to travel for a year.  She's an RN and I was a lumber trader.  After 4 years, we had our student loans paid off and found ourselves with $200,000 in the bank and feeling good financially.  My wife applied for a sabbatical and got it easily.  Having that secured, we felt confident to that we'd have work upon return so we purchased our one-way tickets to Buenos Aires.  Since trading lumber is a remarkably cut-throat and competitive industry, I figured I'd just quit my job the week before we flew out and they'd divvy up my accounts among the other traders.

So the week came and I asked to take the CEO out for coffee.  We have always had a good rapport and he could tell something was up...  I told him I needed to quit and he was like, "Why?, You moving to another trading house?"  And I explained the situation and he was like, "Whoa whoa, don't do anything drastic here! We can work out out sabbatical.  Shit man, I thought you getting divorced and moving away or had cancer or something..."  I must have been on edge I guess.

They ended up assigning my accounts to other traders on a temporary basis and upon return my accounts would be given back to me.  On top of that I was given a middling salary ($65,000) until I got my numbers back up.

After spending the South American summer months hiking, camping, and hitchhiking around Patagonia and the Andes, we shipped our camping gear to my parents' house and continued to travel North.  My wife found a great volunteering opportunity in Bolivia with an NGO hospital for a month (I joined the grounds crew) and then we continued on through Colombia.  From there we met my brother in Vietnam and continued around SE Asia for 6 weeks.  All told we were gone for 9 months... and spent an additional several weeks on either end seeing family.  We tracked every nickel and spent just over $24k including flights.

Once back trading lumber I discovered this lovely blog (2012) and we have been angling our finances toward FI ever since.  My career has continued to angle upward... we've got a couple kids now and my wife is happily working part time.  We'll probably ER here in Seattle in the next year or two... and take our girls on the road... at least in the summers.

I just thought it was an interesting story (it's about me after all...) but I also thought it could be inspiring for anyone else in a sales-type job.  "The power of quitting," as they say, even in a cut-throat industry can result in favorable outcomes.



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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1561 on: March 07, 2017, 11:27:15 AM »

After spending the South American summer months hiking, camping, and hitchhiking around Patagonia and the Andes, we shipped our camping gear to my parents' house and continued to travel North.  My wife found a great volunteering opportunity in Bolivia with an NGO hospital for a month (I joined the grounds crew) and then we continued on through Colombia.  From there we met my brother in Vietnam and continued around SE Asia for 6 weeks.  All told we were gone for 9 months... and spent an additional several weeks on either end seeing family.  We tracked every nickel and spent just over $24k including flights.


Great story!  I literally daydream about this type of sabbatical constantly.  It sounds perfect.
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« Reply #1562 on: March 07, 2017, 12:25:19 PM »
Yesterday I overheard a conversation between a coworker (C) and one of the housekeeping staff (H). H mentioned that he has 3 working days until retirement, at which point I stuck my nose into the conversation to congratulate him. I had never seen him smile before, but he sure was smiling when we talked about his retirement! I wouldn't call him young, but he looks like he might be a few years younger than "normal" retirement age.

The FU money part of it is that after he walked away, C told me that H had several properties around town and had decided to retire after our company cut the housekeepers' hourly rate almost in half. I would like to think that he is a closet Mustachian. And I love the fact that just because someone empties trash cans for a living doesn't mean they don't know what they're doing with their money!

So awesome!

To support your point - In my hometown, a guy who did repairs at the university started buying and fixing up rent houses that catered to students.  Over time, he got dozens of them and became quite wealthy.  Didn't quit as far as I know, but became the director of maintenance at his day job too according to my dad.  Anyway, even if someone empties trash cans or hammers a nail, they might have more money than all of the other people in the office.

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« Reply #1563 on: March 07, 2017, 11:53:54 PM »
Got handed a shit sandwich at work today. Even though we have FU money, I'm hanging on since we are expecting our second soon and now isn't the best time to quit. I think I might have something to contribute soon but I hope not atleast for some more time.

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« Reply #1564 on: March 08, 2017, 12:40:59 AM »
  Buy a fixer, fix it up, rent it out.  Lather, rinse, repeat.

 "Lather, rinse, repeat".
 I always thought that 'repeat' part was just a way for Head and Shoulders to double their sales. :-)
BRRR is a Thing now: Buy, Renovate, Rent, Repeat. Or Buy, Renovate, Rent, Refinance, Repeat. It's another way for mustachians to double their net worths. :-)
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« Reply #1565 on: March 08, 2017, 07:15:20 AM »
  Buy a fixer, fix it up, rent it out.  Lather, rinse, repeat.

 "Lather, rinse, repeat".
 I always thought that 'repeat' part was just a way for Head and Shoulders to double their sales. :-)
BRRR is a Thing now: Buy, Renovate, Rent, Repeat. Or Buy, Renovate, Rent, Refinance, Repeat. It's another way for mustachians to double their net worths. :-)
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1566 on: March 08, 2017, 08:21:55 AM »
Got handed a shit sandwich at work today. Even though we have FU money, I'm hanging on since we are expecting our second soon and now isn't the best time to quit. I think I might have something to contribute soon but I hope not atleast for some more time.

Sorry to hear Firelight - stay strong and keep your eye on the prize. Someday you will have your FU stache!!



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« Reply #1567 on: March 08, 2017, 10:10:45 AM »
Yesterday I overheard a conversation between a coworker (C) and one of the housekeeping staff (H). H mentioned that he has 3 working days until retirement, at which point I stuck my nose into the conversation to congratulate him. I had never seen him smile before, but he sure was smiling when we talked about his retirement! I wouldn't call him young, but he looks like he might be a few years younger than "normal" retirement age.

The FU money part of it is that after he walked away, C told me that H had several properties around town and had decided to retire after our company cut the housekeepers' hourly rate almost in half. I would like to think that he is a closet Mustachian. And I love the fact that just because someone empties trash cans for a living doesn't mean they don't know what they're doing with their money!

Update: It gets even better! Turns out his first day of retirement is his birthday. He's using a vacation day for it. That's one hell of a birthday present!

As for how to make the transition, he says his friends and family already have a growing to do list for him, since they all know he'll soon have a lot of time on his hands. I guess that's one way to do it for those who are concerned about feeling a bit lost when they no longer have to get up and go to work.

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« Reply #1568 on: March 08, 2017, 10:22:09 AM »
  Buy a fixer, fix it up, rent it out.  Lather, rinse, repeat.

 "Lather, rinse, repeat".
 I always thought that 'repeat' part was just a way for Head and Shoulders to double their sales. :-)
BRRR is a Thing now: Buy, Renovate, Rent, Repeat. Or Buy, Renovate, Rent, Refinance, Repeat. It's another way for mustachians to double their net worths. :-)
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« Reply #1569 on: March 08, 2017, 10:31:29 AM »
Yesterday I overheard a conversation between a coworker (C) and one of the housekeeping staff (H). H mentioned that he has 3 working days until retirement, at which point I stuck my nose into the conversation to congratulate him. I had never seen him smile before, but he sure was smiling when we talked about his retirement! I wouldn't call him young, but he looks like he might be a few years younger than "normal" retirement age.

The FU money part of it is that after he walked away, C told me that H had several properties around town and had decided to retire after our company cut the housekeepers' hourly rate almost in half. I would like to think that he is a closet Mustachian. And I love the fact that just because someone empties trash cans for a living doesn't mean they don't know what they're doing with their money!

Update: It gets even better! Turns out his first day of retirement is his birthday. He's using a vacation day for it. That's one hell of a birthday present!

As for how to make the transition, he says his friends and family already have a growing to do list for him, since they all know he'll soon have a lot of time on his hands. I guess that's one way to do it for those who are concerned about feeling a bit lost when they no longer have to get up and go to work.
Both of my parents have passed away in the last two years. In fact, today is the first anniversary of my Dad's death. This tale sparks a memory... Dad drove an old Toyota Corolla with a license plate frame that read "Retired, Now I Work at Honey-Do Construction". He actually did retire at fifty, badass that he was. RIP, "Pops".
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« Reply #1570 on: March 08, 2017, 11:17:15 AM »
Got handed a shit sandwich at work today. Even though we have FU money, I'm hanging on since we are expecting our second soon and now isn't the best time to quit. I think I might have something to contribute soon but I hope not atleast for some more time.
Hang in there firelight!  As I was reminded when I recently had a shit sandwich, the fact that you have FU money gives you choices and you're choosing to hang in there a little longer.  Knowing that you're accepting it because something else is more important, helped me swallow the first bite.  I've also decided to not put up with so much shit, to just say "that's not okay" more often when I get the sandwich.  Good luck! 

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« Reply #1571 on: March 08, 2017, 08:09:39 PM »
I have not read everyone's stories yet, but I do have my own epic FU money story.

I worked at a law firm with 13 attorneys, straight out of law school at 26. I had lots of options because I went to a regionally respected law school and finished near the top of my law class. I rejected many offers for salary positions and chose this firm because it allowed me to create my own practice. We split fees based on various percentages. There was no cap on my earnings.

Fast forward 3.5 years. I was 29 years old. My practice had exploded. There were basically two problems. First, by the time of the FU incident I was making more money than anyone in the firm and I was the youngest person there.  Second, the managing partner and the office administrator were incompetent, bitter and creating a toxic work environment.

A key part of the story is that 6 weeks prior to the FU incident, the managing partner used $10,000 of my money, without permission, to pay all the partners salaries because they had "cash flow issues." They money was paid back a week later. This signaled financial shenanigans on top of being totally, totally toxic.

One day, the managing partner approached me and said she wanted to renegotiate my deal AND audit every case for the appropriate percentage from the prior two years. The renegotiation was ridiculous. The audit was a major, totally unwarranted affront to my integrity - from a person who had just taken $10,000 of my money!

So, I went home with my wife - coincidentally an auditor and accountant. We performed the audit ourselves and ran all the numbers. I discovered that for the prior two years, less than 1% of my income had come from their referrals. I was a major profit center for the firm - generating over $250,000 for the firm over the prior 24 months. And, in fact, the toxic office administrator had intentionally mis-categorized my referrals thereby underpaying me.

Fortunately, I had been on the MMM train since the beginning and had an FU money war-chest of a couple hundred thousand dollars. Interestingly, the MMM choices had been the object of much curiosity since everyone knew I was making a lot but spending very little. Why are you riding your bike to work? Why did you buy such a "modest" house for your income. Why don't you get a new car? Those are actual comments.

So, the FU moment arrived when I delivered a renegotiated contract proposal to the partners. I proposed to pay them a flat monthly fee that amounted to 35% of what they were currently getting. I proposed that if they ever held any of my money without legal authority or permission they pay $1,000 per day for the privilege. Egg on the face of managing partner who had not advised anyone of the $10,000 "cash flow" issue or her proposed audit and renegotiation.

A comment this board will particularly appreciate in response, "We can't take this deal, we'd have to reduce our salaries and our budgets are set to our salaries." Facepalm.

During the wind up phase, the toxic, money stealing office administrator - who had been around long enough to have a way, way over-inflated sense of importance - spoke up during a tense conversation about splitting remaining funds. I looked at her and said, "You have no ownership in this firm, I have never been in business with you and don't want to hear anything you have to say." Hahahahaha. Her jaw dropped. Her upper lip trembled with rage. She didn't say a freaking word. It was the best moment of the entire thing, even better than the contract proposal.

Long story short, I opened my own law firm one week later. I now pay 20% less in overhead. I work dramatically reduced hours because I have actual, dedicated staff for just me - which they would never give me. Also, my gross receipts are up about 10% in the first 12 months. Life is good.

As a post script - the incompetent managing partner hired a guy to fill my office. Remember, that office was earning over $250,000 for the firm in the proceeding 24 months. The guy was paid a salary for six months - rather than have his pay tied to his productivity. Eventually it came out he was a total fraud who lied about being licensed in our state (he did have a different, faraway state). He even filed court documents without the appropriate license. He was fired immediately and the office remains vacant, producing zero profits. Schadenfreude? Yes.

Also as a disclaimer, there are many, many attorneys who are great at servicing their clients but not so good at business. In the event I needed legal help, I would immediately hire any of these attorneys - except the managing partner. They really are competent, professional people - but bad business and money managers. In the end, I maintained great relationships with everyone except the managing partner and the office administrator.

I have an update to this story. Recently, one of the partners of this law firm left and decided to open his law firm, right across the hallway from me. I got a little inside info that had remained hidden for two years.

It turns out the Managing Partner and the toxic office administrator were totally in cahoots to oust me from the firm. After I delivered my proposal, described above, there was a meeting where the partners were going to respond. Apparently, it had been the topic of conversation that it would not make sense for me to continue to pay larger and larger sums of money and they would eventually have to change my deal - which is what I was asking for.  So, my proposal was not a surprise and they were willing to work with me.

Enter the managing partner and administrator: the administrator entered the partner meeting and tendered her immediate resignation if she had to continue to work with me. She then walked out. This would have created a temporary chaos and she was the paralegal for the firms' founder who no one would override. So, they didn't make me a counter offer and instead asked, "If we don't keep him, will Administrator come back." To which managing partner replied immediately, "I'll talk to her about that." Moments later, the resignation was withdrawn and my fate was sealed. The partner who just left the firm - because the same managing partner and toxic administrator were costing him lots and lots of money and stress, said he was in shock at how the whole group had been so masterfully manipulated.

If you recall the story from above, I told her off AFTER she had done all this. It only makes it sweeter.

As they say, living well is the best revenge. I've had my own practice for two years now. I've doubled my net worth. I work 20-30 hours less per week and make more money. Life is good. They really did me a huge favor.

P.S. My leading theory on why the office administrator wanted me gone is that if I had stayed I would have been forced to address her purposely mis-coding my cases and, thereby, underpaying me. This would have been very bad for her as a major breach of trust. So, I think she knew that if I stayed her shenanigans would become a mini-office scandal and potentially she could lose her job. She went for the jugular when she had the chance. Why the Managing Partner was so upset? I think it had to do with calling her out on the $10,000 in front of everyone. But why did they turn their eyes to me prior to the $10,000 blow up and coding discovery? I'll never really know.

I know most of you probably couldn't care less, but I wanted to say it somewhere: toxic Managing Partner of this law firm is being forced out of the firm she founded.

Me? Almost FI and just got back from two month sabbatical in Mexico where I settled the biggest case of my life from the beach (literally).

So, so sweet.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1572 on: March 08, 2017, 08:55:01 PM »
Wow Fireby35, that's great!  She's finally getting what she deserved. 

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« Reply #1573 on: March 08, 2017, 10:03:12 PM »
I know most of you probably couldn't care less, but I wanted to say it somewhere: toxic Managing Partner of this law firm is being forced out of the firm she founded.

Me? Almost FI and just got back from two month sabbatical in Mexico where I settled the biggest case of my life from the beach (literally).

So, so sweet.

Now THAT is epic.  So happy for you!
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« Reply #1574 on: March 09, 2017, 12:21:16 AM »
I know most of you probably couldn't care less, but I wanted to say it somewhere: toxic Managing Partner of this law firm is being forced out of the firm she founded.

Me? Almost FI and just got back from two month sabbatical in Mexico where I settled the biggest case of my life from the beach (literally).

So, so sweet.
I respectfully beg to differ with you, Fb35. Who doesn't  love a good story with a happy ending? Thanks for the update!
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1575 on: March 09, 2017, 01:05:08 AM »
I know most of you probably couldn't care less, but I wanted to say it somewhere: toxic Managing Partner of this law firm is being forced out of the firm she founded.

Me? Almost FI and just got back from two month sabbatical in Mexico where I settled the biggest case of my life from the beach (literally).

So, so sweet.
I respectfully beg to differ with you, Fb35. Who doesn't  love a good story with a happy ending? Thanks for the update!

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1576 on: March 09, 2017, 04:45:22 AM »
I know most of you probably couldn't care less, but I wanted to say it somewhere: toxic Managing Partner of this law firm is being forced out of the firm she founded.

Me? Almost FI and just got back from two month sabbatical in Mexico where I settled the biggest case of my life from the beach (literally).

So, so sweet.
I respectfully beg to differ with you, Fb35. Who doesn't  love a good story with a happy ending? Thanks for the update!

+1 I love updates!

+2 What happened to the toxic administrator? Is she still there causing chaos?

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1577 on: March 09, 2017, 05:17:47 AM »
I know most of you probably couldn't care less, but I wanted to say it somewhere: toxic Managing Partner of this law firm is being forced out of the firm she founded.

Me? Almost FI and just got back from two month sabbatical in Mexico where I settled the biggest case of my life from the beach (literally).

So, so sweet.
I respectfully beg to differ with you, Fb35. Who doesn't  love a good story with a happy ending? Thanks for the update!

+1 I love updates!

+2 What happened to the toxic administrator? Is she still there causing chaos?
+3 This story just gets better with time.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1578 on: March 09, 2017, 05:41:51 AM »
I know most of you probably couldn't care less, but I wanted to say it somewhere: toxic Managing Partner of this law firm is being forced out of the firm she founded.

Me? Almost FI and just got back from two month sabbatical in Mexico where I settled the biggest case of my life from the beach (literally).

So, so sweet.

From one attorney who worked for a toxic partner lady (me) to another (you), HELL YEAH!!!  All around fabulous news!

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1579 on: March 09, 2017, 06:59:02 AM »
It's all good.  I especially love the beach!
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1580 on: March 09, 2017, 07:03:24 AM »
I know most of you probably couldn't care less, but I wanted to say it somewhere: toxic Managing Partner of this law firm is being forced out of the firm she founded.

Me? Almost FI and just got back from two month sabbatical in Mexico where I settled the biggest case of my life from the beach (literally).

So, so sweet.
I respectfully beg to differ with you, Fb35. Who doesn't  love a good story with a happy ending? Thanks for the update!

+1 I love updates!

+2 What happened to the toxic administrator? Is she still there causing chaos?

Thanks everyone!

As far as I know Toxic Administrator is still around. I'm sure she will be taking on a friendlier attitude towards all without her #1 ally around.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1581 on: March 09, 2017, 11:45:39 AM »
FIREby35... Office karma's a bitch, ain't it?  ;-)  [Thanks a million for the update - yes, we're interested.  And congrats on running your own practice - here's hoping you'll give mustachian rates if any of us ever needs your services.  All the best!  MF.]



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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1582 on: March 09, 2017, 04:18:20 PM »
Thankfully, I've got a healthy 'stache (around 6x annual expenses) and a supportive partner whose job is secure, so I give notice and....here's the epic bit....one week later HR comes back and reclassifies my transition as a role restructuring. I'm leaving next month, will get paid out for 5-6 weeks of PTO in my last check, and am likely looking at 3 months severance pay given my tenure with the organization. I've got a clean narrative for my departure and am essentially pulling a paycheck through July/August. While my ego doesn't like the circumstances behind this transition, my 'stache is telling her to get over herself.

I love that you gave notice. Congratulations. You'll be more than fine. Enjoy a multiple month vacation during what I hope is good weather for you.

I've lost count of how many managers tried things like you've described here. They have a motive, and rather than just state what they want or do the deed (fire you, or whatever), they engage in this more roundabout stuff: "Oh, it's an exercise, it's a test." When did people get so gutless? Make your decisions and own them, already, without all the unnecessary drama and emotion. Oy!
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1583 on: March 09, 2017, 07:08:19 PM »
Another Bigger Pockets fan I see!


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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1584 on: March 11, 2017, 01:40:11 AM »
I know most of you probably couldn't care less, but I wanted to say it somewhere: toxic Managing Partner of this law firm is being forced out of the firm she founded.

Me? Almost FI and just got back from two month sabbatical in Mexico where I settled the biggest case of my life from the beach (literally).

So, so sweet.
I respectfully beg to differ with you, Fb35. Who doesn't  love a good story with a happy ending? Thanks for the update!

+1 I love updates!

+2 What happened to the toxic administrator? Is she still there causing chaos?
+3 This story just gets better with time.
+4!
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1585 on: March 11, 2017, 06:42:52 PM »
Not really FU money, like most people here think, but back when I was in college I drove a tow-truck for income.  I was working 40-60 hours a week, and taking 18 credit hours during the day.  I drove a $550 beater, that I paid for in cash, and had access to the tools and people who knew cars to keep it running for cheap.

Driving the tow-truck didn't pay "well," but my expenses were minimal.  I was renting a room out of someone's house, and didn't have time to do anything that cost money.  I was taking home $400-$500 a week, and my monthly expenses were under $600.  The rest was just piling up in my checking account.  I had around $8,000 when I finally reached my breaking point.

I worked a 40 hour shift one weekend, sleeping for a couple hours in a motor-home on the lot before getting back on the road.  I was exhausted.  It was too much.  I was driving on too little sleep and it was unsafe.  I was going to kill myself or someone else at the rate I was going.

I went to the owner and told him that I couldn't work like this.  I was willing to continue Friday nights and Saturday nights, but 10 hours each and not the 16 hour shifts currently scheduled.  And, I wasn't going to do any other evening coverage.  "I can't do that.  I need you on call every night and I need you working 6pm to 10am on the weekend."

"Look," I said, "You can have me for the 20 hours a week, or zero hours a week.  Those are the only two options."

"You can't dictate your hours to me!"

"No, but I can quit.  Here are the keys to the truck.  Maybe I'll see you around."  And, I just walked out and drove home.  I figured that I had enough in savings to last me nearly a year, but I would also easily find another job that fit my needs and paid my minimal bills.  At that moment in my life, $8,000 was FU money.

As for my boss?  He called my mom and told on me!  LOL, no joke.  He went to the same church as my mom, and I think he thought that he could get her to tell me to go back and apologize and work for him again.  I don't know exactly what my mom said, but she told me that she told him I was an adult who could make my own decisions.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1586 on: March 11, 2017, 09:38:48 PM »
Great story, FIT_Goat! Good for you for recognizing your limits and standing up for yourself and good on your mom for treating you like the adult you were. I'll bet no matter what she said to him, she was supremely proud of you.

The last line reminds me of the time I told someone at a book sale to stop using a scanner. He asked me why I singled him out and I replied that there was a "No Scanner" sign on the end of every row and I could hear his beeping. He got pissed off and said he was going to complain to my boss. I told him I didn't have a boss, I was retired and a library volunteer. The asshat actually had the nerve to call the library and insist that I be fired! The library staff had a good laugh at that, since they know how much time I spend raising money for them.

However, the conflict-averse President of the Friend's Board was actually going to contact him and apologize. I told her if she did, I'd quit the board. (I'm the VP.) Not at all an Epic FU money story, but it was still terrifically fun to stand my ground without worry of repercussion.
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1587 on: March 11, 2017, 09:48:49 PM »
I replied that there was a "No Scanner" sign on the end of every row
Why does the organization care?  You want to sell the books, you set the price, what's it to you if they want to scan the book before buying it?

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1588 on: March 12, 2017, 04:07:02 AM »
I replied that there was a "No Scanner" sign on the end of every row
Why does the organization care?  You want to sell the books, you set the price, what's it to you if they want to scan the book before buying it?

Thanks for asking, Sword Guy. Apologies to everyone else for the slight hijack, but I gotta answer this.

We care for a number of reasons.

- We are the Friends of the Library. We are not the "Source of cheap inventory for book resellers." We take a more cheap books for everyone approach, not just leftover crap that the book resellers don't want.

- The booksellers are the ones who asked us not to allow scanners in the first place. They feel very strongly that it keeps the playing field level. As in, you gotta know your stuff if you want to score the deals, you can't just scan everything.

- Our space is very limited and it gets really tight during peak hours. There simply isn't room for people to move if someone is monopolizing a section with a scanner.

- Next, those fuckers beep and drives those of us who are in the room all day nuts. 

- We work every day the library is open all year long to process the book donations. A large team of dedicated volunteers works for a solid week+ to set up and run the quarterly book sales. We've earned the right to set a few rules. BTW, our price is fifty cents or a dollar for almost everything. Typically, less than 2-3% of our inventory is flagged as "Special" and sold for a little bit more.

- We don't have a lot of storage space, so our culls and leftovers go to a large organized charity (SVdP). If we don't sell something, they are somewhat more likely to, as they operate typical retail stores. They also pick up, which is nice.

Pro Tip: If you really want to score the deals, you become a volunteer at the library. Then you get first pick. #askmehowiknow
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1589 on: March 12, 2017, 07:46:58 PM »
Agree with ARS, this is by FAR the best thread on this forum.
Although I have been a guest lurker for a long time I have finally made myself legit -->http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/profile/?u=31677 on the forum, but mostly to follow this thread more easily.

I suppose I am lucky that my work around the salted cured meats industry has proven to be filled with top quality folks and no working through the 'meat grinder.'
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1590 on: March 12, 2017, 09:56:28 PM »

- Next, those fuckers beep and drives those of us who are in the room all day nuts. 


All good reasons, but I liked this one best.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1591 on: March 13, 2017, 12:31:18 PM »
As for my boss?  He called my mom and told on me! 

That was an awesome story and I LOVE that he tattled!  Too funny!  congratulations!
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1592 on: March 14, 2017, 11:00:50 AM »
Agree with ARS, this is by FAR the best thread on this forum.
Although I have been a guest lurker for a long time I have finally made myself legit -->http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/profile/?u=31677 on the forum, but mostly to follow this thread more easily.

I suppose I am lucky that my work around the salted cured meats industry has proven to be filled with top quality folks and no working through the 'meat grinder.'
Pastrami is the most sensual of the dried, salted meats.

Is that Constanza?

Obviously!

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1593 on: March 14, 2017, 01:15:14 PM »
Agree with ARS, this is by FAR the best thread on this forum.
Although I have been a guest lurker for a long time I have finally made myself legit -->http://forum.mrmoneymustache.com/profile/?u=31677 on the forum, but mostly to follow this thread more easily.

I suppose I am lucky that my work around the salted cured meats industry has proven to be filled with top quality folks and no working through the 'meat grinder.'
Pastrami is the most sensual of the dried, salted meats.

Is that Constanza?

Obviously!

It was actually George's girlfriend that said that.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1594 on: March 14, 2017, 02:01:27 PM »
Damn you Eric.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1595 on: March 18, 2017, 11:49:22 AM »
Changed my 401K contribution from 4% to get full company match to max amount

Difference in taxable income of ~$20,000

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1596 on: March 18, 2017, 09:56:55 PM »
Changed my 401K contribution from 4% to get full company match to max amount

Difference in taxable income of ~$20,000

FU - Not paying for a stinking wall or WW III

Sorry but you are still paying for it with your remaining taxes.  You will also gain from the wall (not sure about WWIII) with your investments.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1597 on: March 18, 2017, 11:14:57 PM »
Maybe a better way to put that is that your country is paying for the wall in spit of your decision to defer your taxes to a later point in time.

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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1598 on: March 18, 2017, 11:21:28 PM »
Maybe a better way to put that is that your country is paying for the wall in spit of your decision to defer your taxes to a later point in time.
I, too, spit on the decision to build a wall. May it never happen and Dog bless Cemex!
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Re: Epic FU money stories
« Reply #1599 on: March 19, 2017, 04:32:29 AM »
Walls are invincible.

However, I expect sales of rope to go up in Mexico. :D