One of our dogs hurt her leg over the weekend. After a few hours of crate rest she was still not putting any weight on it, so we called the emergency vet (holiday weekend, everywhere else was closed) and drove her in.
On the phone, they said the emergency exam was $105, and we'd probably want an X-ray which would be around an extra $300. Sounds good.
When we got there, the receptionist asked me basic questions (age, is she spayed?, is she on any meds?) and filled out their form in about two minutes. After waiting a few minutes, the vet checked her out, couldn't elicit a pain reaction anywhere specific on her leg, and did end up taking her in back to do the X-ray. Turns out it wasn't broken, so they just gave us NSAIDs and muscle relaxers for her. Bill was $360 including the meds (so a bit less than they estimated over the phone). Paid then and there before leaving via credit card like any other transaction.
This should not have felt strange.
Compare that to my last visit to the ER (granted, six years ago). Walk in, fill out complicated form, wait, pay $500 copay, get checked out, take an X-ray, get a prescription for something, leave. No talk of the cost of anything. Get mysterious non-itemized giant bill in the mail a month later. Call to question it, then call and talk to insurance, end up paying a completely different amount via mailed check with hokey "you get 30% off for paying on time" nonsense.
Compare that even to my GF's visit a couple years ago to urgent care. Walk in, fill out complicated form, pay nothing, do some sort of blood test, get prescription, get results of test the next day. No talk of the cost of anything there either. Get mysterious slightly-itemized giant bill with a bunch of deductions and insurance payouts (all fake numbers, with no apparent rhyme or reason to any of it) on it... you owe $37. Payable online via credit card. Fine.
I get that it can never be as straightforward due to increased liability compared to vets, but it still seems like way too much of a divide.
And in case you were curious, Willow is a few days into her meds and is doing much better, putting weight on the leg most of the time, and eager to jump around and be happy and far more active than she should be. She'll be fine.