I'll admit, but this is a weird post / question. It's oddly personal too, but no more so than most of the posts here.
If it belongs in the journals section, would a moderator kindly move?
Ok, here goes - I'm in my early 40's. I've been at my current job 12 years. It stresses me out a little, but I've learned to deal. However, now that I realize I really can achieve financial independence (my goal is 10 years), I've gotten really nervous about getting fired.
I feel like I have been given this gift of validation that it's ok not to spend one's entire life working and I'll waste the wisdom by getting canned. It's weird, but I think I'd be nervous about getting fired from any job now; my present job has lots of perks - a decent salary, 4 weeks off, and a pension and great benefits.
I never really worried much about losing my job before. Maybe it's that I never had a goal that I so desperately wanted to reach. Maybe its because that I feel like I owe it to my future (and past) self, as well as to my wife, not to screw this up. I owe it my past self because as bad as I used to be with money - at one time I owed $30k in credit card debt - I still managed to save for retirement and now have 200k saved in mostly my 401k fund, and I don't make a 6 figure salary. I owe it to my future self so I can be happy, healthy and a better partner to my wife.
Anyway...did anyone else go through the same thing? I'm both really, really excited and scared to death of screwing up. I know, not very bad-ass to be scared, but I'm working on it.