For starters I never asked for help on the subject.
I know how to live on a shoestring budget because I've had to do so. It sucks. Most higher earners, heck most college graduates, hit the ground running and don't have to think about trying to make their half of the rent or DIYing their brakes so they can get to work the next day. Living like that is not something to strive for, trust me.
I was also referring to San Jose on my rent comment but can see how it could be misunderstood. Either way you understood what I meant so no biggie.
If you polled 100 people on what their idea of retirement was I doubt even one would say living in a van. I can't believe it was even suggested.
There is a huge difference in choosing to do something and being forced to do it. Most would call the former 'eccentric'..
I'm so stunned by this response it's almost left me speechless. Almost.
You do realize that people can actually go back through the tread and re-read responses, right?
You can't believe living in a van was really suggested? You were the one who suggested it. (
here)
You weren't referring to San Francisco when you said:
While it may seem like $100k is a lot of income, if you live in San Francisco or San Jose it's hardly middle class. There a one bedroom apartment is ~$4k/month.? (again,
here)
(Editors note: Rental apartments
in San Jose are less than in SF. 320 listed <$2k and counting as of right now).
As for not wanting any help, you've now made that clear and so I will stop offering you any well-intentioned suggestions. Hopefully you can understand how posting comments about feeling 'below middle class' with a ~$100k income on a forum dedicated to financial optimization invites commentary. I meant it when I said
MMMs blog is specifically targeting people just like you, yet you seem to ignore most of what Pete has been saying. The reason I (and many others, I'd guess) made postings specifically to you is because many of us have watched others go through case studies from exactly where you seem to be now - high income (regardless of what you say $100k is well above average, even in the Bay area) but still 'feeling' like the struggling lower-middle-class, watching your co-workers purchase second homes and aeroplanes.
I'll give you that a person can earn a lot of money, fritter it away and be less well off financially than someone who makes a lower income but invests it wisely (or as you aptly put it:
Just because people earn more than others doesn't mean they are rich. Just because someone doesn't earn much money doesn't mean they are poor.) Here again is why I and others interjected - you don't feel rich, even though you earn more than most. Ironically you seem to be socking away money - enough where most of us would be fully FI in under a decade, and you are - i believe just 36. Do you see how this leads to a whole heck of a lot of confusion? It only gets more confusing to me the closer I look at the numbers you provided:
$8,600 monthly income after taxes
and deductions with a $200k house, no kids and no debt? Those kinds of numbers are like catnip to this crowd.
While I will refrain from offering you more advice, I'm not about to stand by as you make snarky comments to others or post demonstrably false statements like what rent is like in SF and SJ. I've lived there, and on far less income - and I still considered myself very well off.