This seems like a big fight, and I'm not looking to antagonize. I'm also not a tax expert. But I will say that it makes me frustrated when my husband and I do our taxes each year that we pay so much in taxes and we can't take most of the credits that others can take. I feel like we are being penalized for making good choices, like staying in college forever to get the degrees we have, choosing more difficult majors in college because the job market's better, and working to get ahead in our jobs thus making more money. Alternatively, many in my family made poorer choices and end up paying zero tax each year (or close to it). Yes, we are more financially secure than them, but it's not been just dumb luck that we are. We've really made sacrifices, and every year when I write that tax check I feel like we're being penalized for it.