Both of my parents died earlier this ***abominable*** year, and my wife and I are clearing/cleaning out their house. It is an enormous job, largely because they were both HOARDERS, and this grew worse in the last two years as they were both in declining mental and physical health. I have extracted lots of old photos, documents, and a few knick-knack/souvenirs that had some meaning to me. In THIRTY visits (we live an hour away), I have disposed of nearly THREE HUNDRED fully-loaded Hefty bags of their shite (garbage that should have been disposed of years ago). We have also given away a couple small truckloads of stuff. The place STILL looks like an utter abomination and it is really, really wearing on me. (I HATE hoarding and like lots of clean, uninterrupted lines in my dwelling space!) I want to sell it and be done with it for ever. Fortunately, I am an only child! (No tears for me, I always liked it that way, and I have heard endless horror stories of siblings acting like complete dicks after a parent dies!!)
Anyway, after I finish going through everything, I need to turn this over to professionals because I cannot spend the rest of my life doing this! (I also work for a living at a job-fully remote thank god)
My mother was into crafts and she taught grade school-age kids in her semi-retirement. There is a ton of craft supplies, stuffed animals, games, seasonal decorations, all kinds of cutesy crap, etc. The realtor who we've chosen to sell the house offered to come over a couple of times with a few friends and have an estate sale. She mentioned that a name-your-price sort of thing would work, since there are soooooo mannnnny items, and nearly all are very low value. (My parents never had a lot of money and they both had very plain tastes). I know that many people who show up at garage sales will want to drive away with U-haul truck full of stuff for a nickel and others will outright steal, but I assume that at least some other people will act in a reasonable manner! The realtor seems to have experience in this, AND, I hate selling stuff, I hate yard sales, and I hate haggling. Therefore, I will likely hand it mostly over to her and supply them with plenty of food, refreshments, and offer some cash at the end. They offered to do it for free.
Failing that...Who/what do you recommend for estate sales of large volumes of low-end stuff? I just want to get rid of it, but, for the sake of managing the estates, I have an obligation to get what I can for this stuff.
When we are done with the estate sales, how should I get rid of the rest of the crap? I looked at the junkluggers.com site and it looks pretty good. I want as much stuff as possible to go to charity, because I know that some people would really like some of that stuff! Junkluggers claim they parcel as much as possible out to charity, but how do I know they don't just dump it all in the landfill?? Can you recommend any service for cleaning out the remaining post-estate-sale crap?
Any thoughts on managing this situation???? (It is emotionally draining too!!!) I want to list and sell the damn thing before the real estate market drops off a cliff as we've never seen before!!
Thanks.