Most people start out with net worth near zero and a wage significantly higher than zero. Thus, early on total wages >> net worth. But over time, net worth rises and then the power of compounding interest kicks in and annual increases can exceed annual wages. Eventually net worth >> total wages until retirement when wages stop increasing while net worth continues increasing (assuming average returns).
I've worked 20 years. Net worth = 2.2x lifetime earnings. Liquid investment accounts = 1.1x lifetime W2 earnings.
I define earnings as basic salary and bonus. I exclude stock grants, 401K match, or other benefits/imputed income.
Net worth includes investments, stock grants/options, real estate, debt, and current cash lump sum value of pensions.