Things seem to be under control for the short-term here in CT, so I'm trying to find strategies to help us cope that will work long term (at least the next 12 months) so I don't feel like the world is crashing like I did in March. I'm home full time with two young kids which means we haven't faced as many obstacles as other families but still, the feelings of isolation were/are very strong. Baby #3 is due around the holidays, so I'm preparing for basically a hibernation stage around that time. My oldest is scheduled to return to our neighborhood preschool a few days a week in September, but who knows how long that will last. After the baby comes, we're making plans to stay with my MIL for a few weeks so we can still have some support during our 'hibernation' phase this winter. My spouse has generous parental leave and will be taking at least three months off.
For now, I've purchased a membership to the local aquarium, which has both an indoor and outdoor area, so even if things regress, hopefully the outdoor area remains open. We're going to stay at a local hotel with an outdoor pool for a weekend to mix up our routine a bit. (My 4 year old is most excited about riding the elevator.) We've been spending a LOT of time at the beach, and will probably keep that up all the way through September. It's more crowded than I'd like, but I find it very restorative, and it's one of the highlights of living where we do. Also we don't have any A/C at home and man is it getting hot! I've been able to join up with some local friends for hikes and beach outings and it's so great to reconnect. Talking to someone on a screen is no substitute.
We have a fixer upper of a house (and a zillion things to do before the baby gets here) so that's where a lot of our time and mental energy are going. It's been kind of nice to have a big project to work on and take our minds off all of the what-ifs that surround our lives right now.
CT here as well...Glad to hear you are getting out of the house a bit. Connecticut does appear to be doing better than March/April but I suspect it's a tinder box waiting to ignite once the kids go back to school...
I have been blessed with an autoimmune disease (Addison's Disease) so my family and I are staying pretty close to home... wife goes to the grocery store once every 10 days, and otherwise we stay on our 3 acres. I have a sales job that I get to WFH and my wife had to quit her job to stay home with the kids in March and she's been very active with home schooling the two kiddos since...even buying supplemental materials out of pocket because the school failed so miserably with "distance learning". They will be staying home again this fall, doing their school-provided distance learning and supplemental home school work. We are blessed to be able to keep our kids home... should I get canned eventually then we have savings that will hopefully get us through this madness.
Like I said, we don't get out much, on purpose. For exercise I dug out my old mountain bike and I've got a pretty good 11 mile loop that takes me about 45 minutes. I forgot how much I enjoy riding my bike!
Otherwise, we drove down to the beach last week after it closed to let the kids play in the water, sand, look for seaglass, etc... and even though there weren't too many people there, there were still a significant amount of "ass hats" that 1) brought their new puppy to the beach who just haaaad to go visit with every other socially distancing person on the beach and the kids had to chase it down, getting uncomfortably close, while meat-head/ass-hat-dad yucked it up with strangers 2)this clueless looking couple insisted upon walking straight at my kids along the water, forcing me to tell the kids, in a voice loud enough so the idiots could hear, they need to move away from where those people are walking because we don't know them and they might have the corona virus, 3) ainsi de suite...
Did you get a membership to the Mystic Aquarium? I love that place, though there's no way in hell I'm going there this summer even though they have an outside part. That place is swarming with people in normal times...not sure what it's like now under COVID but under normal circumstances its a swarming magnitude of dirty kids and rude tourists. The thought of going there now makes me want to wash my hands!
Interestingly, the real estate market seems to be on fire. I do not work in real estate but I enjoy tracking the local market and select markets in places I like to vacation, etc... It seems that as soon as a new house hits the market it gets snatched up within a day or two... usually it's "contingent" which means someone needs to 1)sell their house or 2)find a new house before the transaction can go through.
Anyway, that was slightly rambling. TLDR, CT is doing pretty good at this point but it's gonna be real ugly in couple months.