Here are my goals for the next decade:
- I want to be fully FI at 25x living expenses, including reasonably projected college funds for kids and budgeting for health insurance. We're pretty far along the path in terms of just replicating living expenses (and could lower them if need be), but we haven't figured out college or healthcare yet. I also think we're in for another recession somewhere along this next ten years and that may wipe out a few years of growth and so I'm factoring in getting through that and out the other side.
- I want to look up and say "wow, I am in better shape at 45 than I was at 35."
- I want to either have my own business or own consulting / legal practice or have a substantial equity stake in a shared business, consulting / legal practice or real estate development. I don't want to be a W2 employee in someone else's business 20 years into my career when I am closing in on FI (see goal one) to boot.
- I want to maintain strong relationships with my family and also build deeper relationships with friends (including staying in touch with friends who live in different cities and making close bonds where I am).
- I want to work on habits and mental processes, so that I accomplish more and stress less, work efficiently towards goals I set and allow myself to truly relax and recover when I'm not working.
The money stuff is mostly on autopilot for the moment as my job gives me a fixed salary, our major expenses are locked in and we don't want to make any major changes at the moment. I'm at a great place in the learning curve for my job and so will continue to ride that until it levels off and I feel its time to move on. Our family is busy but happy and so it's best to just stay put and enjoy the little kid years. So fitness, friends and habits are actually the main goals for 2020, with money trucking along for the ride and with just laying the groundwork for the business stuff with good work at my job and some networking.
To help me in this, I'm tracking my habits, journaling and setting up an informal self-study curriculum, first on things like habits and discipline and psychology and then maybe after that branching out to skills, like negotiating, etc. I feel I've improved a lot, but it's tricky sometimes because with three little kids and a more than full time job and so many things I want to do (cook, declutter, network, learn about real estate investments, etc.) and only so much time, progress seems slow. I'm making strides, but it's so incremental that it takes a long time to see changes. I also struggle with energy levels, sometimes I am gung-ho to achieve and other times I just want to sit on the couch for hours.