I FIRE'd 3/21/2019 at 53 and have kept that fact pretty stealthy from my neighbors, but a few know.
Perhaps it is just a reflection of the times, but I'm experiencing a good deal of "extra" judgment from some family and "friends".
Some behind-my-back talk about "he must have won the lottery" or, "no way he earned that" and some are even mis-remembering how much schooling I went to and where I worked to suit their need to somehow demonize me.
I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced others having a hard time with being happy for your financial freedom and the hard work it took you to get there.
Myself, I was living out of my car and showering in college athletic locker rooms at one point but earned and saved and worked my way to FIRE.
Why can't people just be happy for one another's achievements?
I used to live a small town in which I used a local bank for most of my financial transactions.
Eventually all the tellers came to know that I was FIREd.
One day I was in the local supermarket in an aisle by myself when J., one of the tellers, entered the aisle at the other end.
As soon as she saw me her mien changed.
No longer was she a nonchalant shopper; she was furious and viscerally resentful.
She said to me "Oh, you have to eat too."
Ever since, when I meet people, I am very guarded about my financial/FIREd status.
None of my friends are jealous of my FIREtirement.
In fact, just 1/2 hour ago I was talking to one of my much older friends and he started talking about his retirement (not FIREd), compared his to mine, and said it "was great" that I retired long before he did.
As to jealous neighbors, way up here in the mountains the homes are very far apart so neighbors aren't in everyday, close contact with each other like they are in suburbs or densely populated cities.
Busybodies are far and few between.