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Adding to your life by subtracting
« on: January 05, 2015, 10:38:16 PM »
I came across this post today and thought it might be of interest. A few choice quotes:

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Eliminating obvious downsides like bad habits and debt will provide a good life; eliminating good things so you can focus on the very best will lead to a truly flourishing life.

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Or as Berkshire Hathaway Vice-Chairman Charlie Munger put it, “It is remarkable how much long-term advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid, instead of trying to be very intelligent.”

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #1 on: January 06, 2015, 01:34:37 AM »
I haven't read the post but I really like that Charlie Munger quote. If you don't stuff up and just kick along down the middle path I reckon you will do pretty well.

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #2 on: January 06, 2015, 02:53:18 AM »
It is a very interesting post - thanks for writing about it. It is very mustashian to eliminate things from our lives - clown commutes, spending on consumer items, TVs...

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #3 on: January 06, 2015, 04:49:31 AM »
Charlie has written a few books that are really and truly excellent! There are also recordings of his speeches/thoughts that are also informative for those who prefer listening over reading.

Its easy to add complexity. Simplifying is much more difficult (and rewarding in the long term)

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #4 on: January 06, 2015, 10:14:49 AM »
Thanks for the link, it's a good read. There are a lot of solid articles on the site and as my wife has suggested, learning the art of manliness isn't just for men...
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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #5 on: January 06, 2015, 01:57:04 PM »
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Or as Berkshire Hathaway Vice-Chairman Charlie Munger put it, “It is remarkable how much long-term advantage people like us have gotten by trying to be consistently not stupid, instead of trying to be very intelligent.”

This is a variation on the theme, that when training for sports, the best thing you can do is to work the weakest areas, not the strongest ones, or to win a football game it really goes a long ways to simply not turnover the ball or let the other guys have big plays.  There was also this theme in the book "Willpower" where it talks about how everyone fails in their willpower at some point, but the real key is to limit the damage of said failure - if dieting, for example, and you break down and stuff a chocolate bar in your face, the key is stop after the one bar, and not just spiral and "since I already failed" stuff your face with bon bon's and a bowl of ice cream and......  Acknowledge you slipped up, then get back on track.

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #6 on: January 06, 2015, 02:09:51 PM »
Thanks for the link, it's a good read. There are a lot of solid articles on the site and as my wife has suggested, learning the art of manliness isn't just for men...

As a mother to 4 boys of various ages, I find fantastic nuggets of wisdom to share on that site! 

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #7 on: January 07, 2015, 08:17:45 AM »
I like the challenge presented near the end where he shows value in eliminating even good things from your life in order to focus on the best things in your life.  It rubbed me the wrong way at first, as I much enjoy the quote "perfect is the enemy of good" but each of those little tidbits is intended to be applied differently.  His point that you want to determine the few things that are the best to spend your time and money on each day/week/month and avoid overloading your schedule or overspending your budget on things that are merely good is quite enlightening.

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #8 on: January 07, 2015, 09:41:06 AM »
I like the challenge presented near the end where he shows value in eliminating even good things from your life in order to focus on the best things in your life. 

Wow. Thanks for pointing that out.
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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #9 on: January 07, 2015, 10:48:44 AM »
I like the challenge presented near the end where he shows value in eliminating even good things from your life in order to focus on the best things in your life.  It rubbed me the wrong way at first, as I much enjoy the quote "perfect is the enemy of good" but each of those little tidbits is intended to be applied differently.  His point that you want to determine the few things that are the best to spend your time and money on each day/week/month and avoid overloading your schedule or overspending your budget on things that are merely good is quite enlightening.

This is huge for me. I have so many things I want to do/learn/improve right now and not enough time for them all. It's overwhelming. I need to sit down and figure out my 5 most important things and focus on them, even though it's soooo hard to prioritize.

As for the eliminating negative things I've been pretty successful at never starting them or eliminating them, but there's still a few places that I'm working on.

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #10 on: January 07, 2015, 10:53:56 AM »
I like the challenge presented near the end where he shows value in eliminating even good things from your life in order to focus on the best things in your life. 

Wow. Thanks for pointing that out.

I think this was a great point.  It reminded me of the book "Good to Great."  It was about organizations/corporations but could easily be thought of on the individual level.  How do we move from good to great? 

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #11 on: January 08, 2015, 08:24:13 AM »
Nice variation of the KISS principal.   Do less, focus on just 1-3 things.  Make fewer decisions.  Cook only 7 different meals.  Wear the same uniform everyday.   Delegate and sub out.   At some point you will have everything you want by doing virtually nothing. 

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Re: Adding to your life by subtracting
« Reply #12 on: January 08, 2015, 11:01:19 PM »
Good read. Thanks.

 

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