A: I hate it when people live with their parents. Such moochers!
B: Actually, it can be a great arrangement all around, and it would help if we Westerners didn't have such a negative attitude about it. It's pretty common in the developing world.
A: Well, I wouldn't want to do it, but I guess it could be a good thing, as long as they're not mooching.
Is it just me, or is there very little actual disagreement here?
I don't know, the OP states an example like this:
I've had multiple friends that have moved back in with parents (some married) to save for a house, even though they make enough to both pay rent and save.
And probably doesn't have an in-depth view of the situation (or otherwise surely it would've been helpful to mention it), but just seems to highly disapprove of that scenario in general, regardless of the details.
I don't see anything wrong with the scenario cited above, unless it wasn't mutually satisfying for whatever reason.
Heck, when my cousin moved out for freedom and independence, etc etc, her parents shook their heads about it, as they thought she was silly to throw away the money on rent when they in fact preferred her to continue living in the family home. They weren't interested in charging board either, and would be happy enough if she bought groceries every now and then. A few years on, she bought her own place, and the parents threw in some cash to pad the down payment a bit. Ironically, the parents would likely have been less out of pocket if she'd just stayed with them and had a bigger deposit instead. ;)