Hello!
Apparently I am suffering from extreme OMY / golden handcuffs. I consider myself fairly recently FI already, but factoring in my husband and child (soon to be children) I'm not sure we're quite there as a family. Though, if you ask me, I could quit tomorrow and we'd still be OK, we'd just have to be much more careful about our spending. My husband is older and has a small pension from the military, and we both have substantial investments (and, thankfully, separate finances - he's a bit more spendy than me).
2035 is the magical year I turn 50 and would be eligible for my government pension. I am not 100% sure I will stay that long, but it is a pretty generous pension and I think it would virtually eliminate my need to worry about money again. Not that I really do now, but easy to say with a high salary - I would worry if I quit. The other thing is, I actually really like my job at the moment, so I don't feel that burning desire to achieve FIRE like I did when I found MMM in my 20s, which is both good and bad. I never know how long that will last as bosses and assignments change, and I won't commit to being miserable for years again when I am already FI. But for now, things are good, and I'm trying to still put at least ~75% away while also indulging a bit here and there. I've actually become a bit sloppy financially, and I should really straighten that out, but life with a young child has exhausted me a bit.
Speaking of, another reason I don't want to quit now is that FIRE with a toddler would not be my cup of tea. I love him so much, but I am a much better parent when I am working (as I've discovered due to multiple COVID-imposed days off, weird schedules this past year). So at a minimum I would want to work until the kiddos are in full time school. I am very fortunate that my husband is a SAHD, but it's not for me. But maybe I could be a SAHM once they're school... Conversely, I might consider going a few years over 2035 to keep the kids in a stable high school situation in a HCOL area, depending on my work satisfaction at the time.
Nice to virtually meet you all and see that this thread already exists!