Figured I'd check in as well. Since I first posted in Dec 2016 we've bought a house and I've gotten a promotion (only an 8% raise, but still better than nothing). Things seem to be on track. Just looking at my individual numbers:
Net Worth is around 5.7X expenses, investing plus debt pay down is still around 1.5X expenses per year. So with 0% market returns, looking at around 16-18X expenses in 2025, and if the market does better than that, should be within spitting distance. So I'm keeping 2025 as a goal, knowing that it entails a little bit of optimism bias.
Still not really including GFs numbers since so much depends on exactly when she finishes her PHD and how much she starts earning, plus our finances are still semi-separate right now. Which probably means my numbers are, if anything, more conservative than they need to be. So maybe I'm not too overly optimistic.