I am a fan of gas fuelled heating but I think there are several different issues here, and you could fix most of them without paying for the conversion to gas, and some might be more important to you, and also more cost and energy efficient than others.
Have you costed making all the required upgrades but keeping your oil fuelled system?
TRVs are cheap and pretty easy to install, and are fuel agnostic, and probably DIY-able.
Fitting a new timer and thermostat, ditto.
Replacing radiators and installing an on-demand hot water system are more expensive and intrusive, but again, are fuel agnostic.
As someone currently house-hunting I can confirm that having gas fuelled heating is really important to me, but if you think it won't affect the resale value all that much, I think upgrading individual components is a better way to go. What % of the houses in your street do you reckon have gas vs oil?
What is the ROI in terms of reduced heating bills and increased quality of life?