Hello,
Long-time lurker here, who has been inspired by reading many UK journals. I’m posting here mainly because you are such a helpful group of people but also because I am too shy to go on the main topics! This may turn into a journal, but first I have a big decision to make:
I am seeking the benefit of your guidance in deciding if I could FIRE now (in a rather lean way), or should I go back to a well-paid but highly stressful role when my current sabbatical ends in six months and tough it out for a few more years. My head tells me that is the sensible and safe option, but I really really don’t want to…
I am currently 42 and live in the south of England with my husband in a property that we own outright. I am half way through my 12 month sabbatical. It has taken me far longer than I’d expected to decompress and I honestly miss almost nothing about the workplace despite 20 years building a career there. I am only now starting to do the things I have planned – creative projects, improving fitness, exploring all those interests that took a back seat to my career. I have also realised how much work sapped my energy and enjoyment of life.
I’ve been running the numbers to see if I could get avoid going back, and it seems to be that I have 3 options:
1. Go back to work as originally planned (in September), save hard and quit in 2-3 years (at current expenses I could achieve a 75% savings rate, buying me much more security). I may be able to extend the sabbatical a bit but to do so would involve negotiating with the people who caused me the most stress. If I just return I am likely to be with new people – however the downsides of the work would still remain.
2. Don’t return to work, and live off savings until DB pensions kick in, taking them (very) early. Also, there is the option of relocating to a cheaper area to release equity, which is something we would like to do in 3-5 years whether I return to work or not.
3. As above, but remain flexible about work, maybe doing something local and part time (or, in the words of NGU, FART?), or even pursuing a new career once I have got my energy back.
I suppose what I would like to do is rule out option 1, but would that be foolish given my current circumstances and the wider picture, Brexit included? From my current vantage point option 2 is most appealing, but I expect that will change and even now option 3 looks pretty good to me.
Without getting into the detail of the numbers, at my current level of expenditure and ignoring any interest/gains, my stash will last me until I am 52 and my pension would then cover a bit more than my expenses (with another one accessible at 57 and then state pension at 67). That said, I don’t really have enough data about my spending when I am not working and I think there is scope to cut spending without affecting my quality of life (e.g. food). I am tracking things now but I need to make a decision quite soon so I won’t have perfect data before I do. What I do know is that the things I like doing best are either free or low cost, and I enjoy the challenge of solving problems without spending money or buying stuff, and learning new skills.
So, on paper this looks feasible – if a bit of a stab in the dark, or I am missing something big? I am sure anyone I asked in real life would think I was crazy to even contemplate this (throw away a career, pass on opportunity to build up a big pension, get promoted etc. but none of that appeals any more). I know cost of living will rise, Brexit brings uncertainty and life will always throw curveballs, but am I dreaming to think I could not return to work, at least for now?
I hope I’ve given enough to work with – I am a bit nervous about posting actual numbers and this post is long enough already, but happy to fill in the gaps! Over to you for your thoughts…
Thanks in advance!
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