Update: Good news and bad.
I received a steroid injection into my hip joint using some kind of flexible "needle" that they maneuvered around to deliver the dose right into the joint; it felt like a worm was wriggling through my body- not really painful, but a little uncomfortable.
It took three weeks but I did see some improvement in chronic pain in the hip, although walking and flexibility are still difficult. In short, my hip is still a mess, but my lower back SI joint is slightly improved, which gives me hope that the hip replacement will help the SI pain.
I'm still going to the pool daily for my workout, but we were at an impasse with PT in the pool so we switched to PT visits in the clinic, weekly.
In the pool, the exercises my therapist wanted to do to strengthen my SI were limited by my hip, and the exercises for my hip were limited by my SI.
In the clinic we're doing basic work with rubber bands and rubber balls and, so far, I have had positive results. It's enough work to make it a little painful and uncomfortable in the moment, but later in the day I do feel better.
I am set to receive more injections this week, into my SI joint. I'm getting to the point that my hip is now giving me more acute pain than my SI, which is actually positive news, lol.
Finally, I did get a definite date on my hip surgery, and it's not until early August. So four more months.
I heard through the grapevine that the hospital system I'm signed up in due to my insurance choices had an issue with their anesthesiologists and ended up losing many of them to another system? Whatever the case, they are way backed up. When I had my initial appointment with the surgical team in late December they indicated they were scheduling for April, which at the time seemed like it was so far off. By the time they processed my referral for the surgery they were scheduling for July, which then became August.
It was in September of '23 that I made an appointment with my PCP because my pain was so intense I couldn't do much of anything, so almost a full year. Our healthcare system, while excellent in many regards, is extremely slow.
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This is a great example of the importance of being FI. My friends know me as a self employed working carpenter, frugal and definitely not rich. A few have offered to loan me money, but I just say "no thanks, I'm fine, I have savings". I do tell them that it's a little disconcerting to actually spend my savings, because it is.