It's still out of touch. While I appreciate your clarification, there are lots of words our older relatives used that are no longer, and for good reason. "Stewardess" is an easy example.
As to bloat, it's endemic in most, if not all organizations. You are suggesting huge cuts, which would likely leave our country vulnerable, same as defunding the police did in our cities.
As to your last sentence, I wholeheartedly agree, but it must happen prudently. Slashing and burning is not the answer.