Wow. You guys are great. Thank you so much for the advice.
@mspym - I think using the Coronavirus & self quarantine as an explanation is a great idea (when the time comes). I will continue to mull over how exactly I can word the explanation. I have also been wrestling with admitting alcohol severely negatively impacts my mental health. I have been in some pretty dark places while hungover. Perhaps they will understand more if I "pull back the curtains".
@wenchsenior - as @Malkynn notes, people, especially younger people, react negatively towards the "I am getting healthier" explanation. Why? They are confronted with the fact that something they enjoy doing (drinking alcohol) has NO health benefits whatsoever. It forces them to examine why they continue to drink. Most folks do not want to do that. They find it uncomfortable. As sort of a defensive mechanism, they can become hostile and bullying. I know this because I have experienced it (I am young). I am 29 and my friends socialize by brewery hopping, wine tasting, etc. The whole social scene is predicated on alcohol - this is why it has been so difficult for me to stop the past few years; I go weeks without drinking, meet up with friends I haven't seen in awhile, and get BOMBED.
Day 37 for me today. Be well, guys.
It's not just the young people either, though I can see that.
I live in wine country. I have friends in the business. I love wine, and I belong to two local wineries.
I really want to support my friend's business right now (wine tours), which is, obviously, not running. Will this company, that's 15-20 years old and fantastic, survive? I hope so.
But I did one of their wine tours once. It was lovely but it was TOO MUCH. It was FOUR wine tastings (four different wineries). Which, yeah, you sip and spit eventually. It's just a whole day (8 hours).
I'm of the "enjoy a glass, or 1.5 glasses" with friends kind of person. I've even learned at our neighborhood potluck - if I want to make sure that I don't take wine home, I have to open the bottle before I go - so that people drink it first.
Anyway, I feel great right now. I think my last glass was 3/18. I do have 7-8 bottles in the house. Saving those for when our potlucks are sanctioned again.
ETA: Malkynn is spot on for the middle aged parents comment