Continuing saga of moving Mom into Assisted Living. Props to all the kids out there spending huge amounts of time and energy and money to help your parents. It's something you just have to do, and are glad to be able to do for them, but still, it is a tremendous burden (imho).
Fortunately, my sister is a big help, although our personalities are really conflicting, as we endure this stress.
Adding to the stress is the retirement community Mom lives in, and its not too competent admin staff. I have found them dreadful to work with in the past, and my sister has taken that on.
I got a letter sent to my home from the CCRC. I have not requested that they contact me. I also got one of my mother's pharmacy bills sent to me as 'in care of' . I have not given anyone permission to do that. Very annoying. No escape, even when I am away from the CCRC, in my own home.
My sister had a video conference with the long term care insurance company yesterday. When she signed in, someone came on and said the conference was canceled due to the nurse being out sick. Sister has flight scheduled to leave soon. She insisted they find another nurse, and they did, and the conference went on. This was to assess whether Mom has a need to be in Assisted Living, and qualify for coverage.
To sum up, kudos to all the other people doing similar things for their parents.