I can't remember how long ago I joined this thread. I'm sad to say I've made very little progress since then and need a good face punch and some motivation to get moving.
I seem to get hung up on thinking I should sell things that I need to get rid of that have value. But I really don't have time to do that. Any advice for how to get past this? Maybe I just need to read this thread more?
Have you already gotten rid of any stuff that is not sellable and that you probably won't ever need?
Stuff that isn't sellable, yes. Stuff that I probably won't ever need.....that's up for debate.
This all was a result of my mother passing away four years ago and having to sell her home. She was an interior decorator and had beautiful things. Her home was a perfect example of style. She cared so much about her home and worked hard to get it looking like that. When she died I decided not to hold an estate sale because I didn't need the money and because things would sell for very little and the auction folks would take a lot of it. I gave a lot of stuff away. Most of her clothes and kitchen went to Goodwill (because that was fast and easy). I gave a few things away to relatives and friends who were going through a divorce and needed to set up house again, or just because they loved those things. But much of it I moved to my home and replaced things that were of lessor quality or not as nice. It's taken me awhile to integrate them and figure out what I really wanted to keep because I loved it, what I wanted to keep to just use up etc.
Now I'm down to getting rid of really nice things, that were originally mine or hers and I'm just probably not going to use (or not use for along time)
I should make a list of what all it is-
-A beautiful tri-fold wood screen that looks like a Venetian buildings
-An iron coffee table with glass top
-a side chair with a black and tan zebra fabric
-an old Victorian parlor table (with six sides) painted in white chalk paint
-an old dresser also painted in white chalk paint with hand painted ceramic drawer pulls
-a couple huge accent mirrors
-a side table painted in bright red lacquer
-four beautiful dining room chairs with nail heads, nearly new from Arhaus (she probably paid close to $1,000 per chair) - I love these but they don't fit with the rest of my furniture or my children
-gateleg table redone with hand painted faux burlwood top
-A hide-bed sofa with amazing lines that is so well made nobody can lift it but probably needs to be recovered
A few pictures/paintings that have hung on the walls of my home my entire life
-At least one rug
-brass bed frame with very unique lines but is a double size (probably an antique)
So I think this is where I'm stuck. I'm attached to the items, but I don't need them. They have value, but the best way to get that value is to sell them on marketplace or something but that seems so time consuming. I could take them to a consignment shop but they take half of the sales price.
These items sit on the unfinished side of my basement so they aren't in our way necessarily but we would like to make that room into a game room for the kids.
Have any of you been through this? What advice do you have?