Hello mustachians! I've been active on the forums here for a few months (and was a lurker before that) but now the time has come for my first topic.
Here is the situation - I am engaged to my lovely fiance but due to student loans we are in a tricky situation over the next ~8 years. We *could* wait 8 years to get married but that seems like the least ideal situation. We are targeting 2019 (or perhaps 2020) to get married, but that's not the tricky part.
I do not have any student loans and make, call it $75k with a private company. I take full advantage of the 401(k) and HSA offered. I also contribute the maximum amount to a Roth IRA (have been considering switching to tIRA but that's a different story).
Fiance makes, call it $50k in a government position. She takes advantage of the 403(b) plan for retirement as well as Roth IRA. Unfortunately, she's looking at quite a bit in student loans. She's actually on an IBR payment now as she's going through PSLF - public service loan forgiveness. She needs 10 years of service and has two under her belt so far. In addition, her university (graduate degree) kicks in some financial help on the monthly payments if she makes under $55k in AGI.
So here is the kicker - in order to keep her IBR payments low (or even be eligible for IBR) we will have to file separately once we are married. What we are now realizing doing some research is that MFS has a lot of limitations. One of our main concerns is finding a way to contribute to an IRA. We both live (and will live) with each other after marriage and we will both have AGIs above $10,000. From our understanding, we are not only excluded from making Roth contributions we also are excluded from making Traditional IRA contributions (which also takes a backdoor Roth off the table).
This is a pretty unique situation because of the student loans (balance is above six figures). So while she's on the path to get those wiped out with minimal payments over the next 8 years, could marrying actually cost us an entire retirement vehicle? Say it ain't so! Hopefully someone out there knows of a way around this. Thanks!